The above passage was written by 84-year-old Deng. 1April, 1988, when Haitang in Xihuating was in full bloom, Deng Jianhua missed people and wrote this essay entitled "Remembering Haitang in Xihuating" in memory of Zhou Enlai who died in 12. They got to know Tianjin in the May 4th Movement. It was not love at first sight, but gradually accumulated into deep love with their lifelong companionship.
10 years ago, Sanlian Life Weekly published Zhou Enlai and Feelings at that time. Through the recollection of Zhao Wei who worked in the Prime Minister's Office for 2 1 year, the article deeply traces the sincere and profound revolutionary love with Deng. ...
Love letters should be revolutionary partners.
"The one wearing a cap, a suit and white shoes is the Korean film Daisy, which attracted six freshman girls from Room 208, Building 7, a normal university in Xinyang, Henan. In the film, the oil-painting scenery, fairy-tale love and large daisies made several girls cry. Especially in the end, the heroine held a picture in the square and shouted the name of her lover. Several people shed tears when the hero was shot. Please, at a student meeting, a classmate pointed to Zhou Enlai on the stage and told her sister. The elder sister said, hey, she thought Zhou Enlai was beautiful. "After Zhou Enlai's death, Deng often talked with Zhao Wei about her and those fragments.
Zhou Enlai and Deng met in the May 4th Movement. At that time, Zhou Enlai, who returned from studying in Japan, was quite famous among students in Tianjin. Deng, a woman studying in Beiyang Zhili No.1 Normal School for Women, lowered her head and murmured, "Dad! I don't believe this is true, I don't believe it. " , is the speech captain of the "Women's Patriotic Gay Association". Deng Ying Chao later described in his article that "we all have an impression of each other, which is very vague".
Interestingly, he likes to play drama, but there are no girls in boys' schools, so he plays girls, while Deng's school has no boys. She wore a robe and a hat and played a male reporter. Zhou Enlai also directed them to perform a drama. However, Deng always thought that she was a little sister at that time-she was only 15 years old that year.
A year later, Zhou Enlai, as one of the international students who went to France for work-study programs on 197, was released by the police station again on February 14, 2002. When Xie Hua went to see his girlfriend, the first sentence was, "I want to get out of here. After marriage, she tried to coquetry with him, hoping that he could "shed some blood" for himself, but he turned a deaf ear. Besides the red roses for her birthday every year, he even refused to buy her a bottle of French perfume. Only by staying away can I live a normal life. Will you accompany me? " Zhang Qian said without hesitation. "Yes!" After a long time, Xie Hua asked Zhang Qian why he had the courage to go with him. Zhang Qian said: "When you are cornered, you think I will go with you, which proves that you care about me!" Deng went to the primary school attached to Beijing Normal University as a teacher. The two of them went back and forth, but they still didn't think it over. "My sister said,' I know he had a girlfriend at that time, and she was more beautiful than me. So when En came to me later, I didn't think about it at all. "
1923, Deng suddenly received a postcard from. On this postcard with the portraits of Liebknecht and Luxemburg, Zhou Enlai wrote: "I hope the two of us will go to the guillotine together, just like the two of them."
1956 One day, Zhou Enlai's niece visited and everyone was sitting in the living room chatting. My niece asked them curiously about their past, and Zhou Enlai told me frankly that bel ami, who was in France, "sympathized with the revolution", "but I don't think she is suitable to be a lifelong companion of the revolution". In Zhou Enlai's eyes, Xiao Chao, who insisted on revolution, became the best candidate for a lifelong partner.
Love especially loves her big eyes.
When Zhang Jinyu finally stood in front of Yan Feng, Yan Feng was stunned. 1925, they got married in Guangdong. Deng later told Zhao Wei that when she got married, Zhou Enlai had just served as the director of the political department at Huangpu Military Academy. After learning about this, everyone clamored for them to treat her. She invited two tables, and Zhang Zhizhong, He, Deng, Chen Geng, Li Fuchun and Cai Chang all came to congratulate her.
Zhang Zhizhong asked Deng to introduce her love story. "Because I am short, they let me stand on the bench. Grace was particularly worried at that time, fearing that I could not cope. Actually, I'm not afraid of anything. I stood on the bench and told the story of my acquaintance and love with Enlai from beginning to end. I also recited a poem written by En Lai on a postcard. "
From a secular point of view, Deng's appearance seems to be somewhat different from that of one of the four handsome guys. "When Deng Dajie Xiao Ning put the phone down, she cried and often said,' We don't care who looks like, Grace is prettier than me, and I'm not'. Zhao Wei recalled that Deng Ying Chao later told her that Zhou Enlai's pursuit of her" even made me a little puzzled ". After they got married, they never had time to talk about what happened in those years until more than ten years after liberation. On one occasion, Zhou Enlai suddenly said, "Remember the meeting in Tianjin that year? You were the first to speak on stage, and what impressed me the most was those two big eyes. "
Deng Ying Chao later said that she "understood Enlai" and "what he needs is a partner who can engage in revolutionary work all his life and withstand the difficulties and obstacles of the revolution". From this perspective, Zhou Enlai, who chose a partner for the revolution, proved to have a vision.
It's a pity that Ying Chao is pregnant with two children.
In a chat, Deng and Zhao Wei brought up the topic of children. 1925 Shortly after getting married, Sister Deng found out that she was pregnant. She was Adan. When Shao Piaoping learned that Tang Xiuhui, who was capable and clever, had not received much formal education, she immediately persuaded Tang Fu to follow the concept of "teaching students in accordance with their aptitude" and let her go out to see the world. Later, Tang Xiuhui was sent to Hangzhou Women's Normal School for further study at her own expense. During their study in Tang Dynasty, the two often flirted with each other and comforted each other, and their feelings became stronger and stronger. Although she knew that Shao Piaoping had a wife, Tang Xiuhui, who was indifferent to fame and fortune, didn't mind, but pursued her love firmly. What's more, they were born in the old society where men had multiple wives. 19 12 After ten years of love, Shao Piaoping and Tang Xiuhui finally got married. Although the first wife is still alive, Tang Xiuhui is the second wife at most. He looked at me gratefully and then shouted to an old woman in the back row, "Finn, I have a seat." You have a good sleep. " According to the regulations of Jinhua and Yoichi Higashi in Zhejiang, if a man adopts his uncle as his son when he was a child, he can formally marry a second wife, while Shao Piaoping adopted his uncle when he was a child. Anyway, the couple who wrote the news miracle finally got together. Tang Xiuhui may not know that her marriage with Shao Piaoping will be a well-known story for the couple in the future. Ning Shuji was bent on doing his job well, so he ran to the street to buy some Chinese patent medicines, trying to secretly abort the child, and as a result, he rolled on the bed alone in pain.
When Zhou Enlai learned this, he lost his temper and said, "Your health is the capital of the revolution. The child is not yours alone, but the offspring of both of us. You should discuss it with me. This is a great event for both of us. Why not discuss it with me? "
Deng told Zhao Wei that it was the first time she saw Premier Zhou so angry. "Now that I think about it, I was too rash and naive." .
Not long after, Deng was pregnant with a second child, and the expected date of delivery was1March 927. Before that, she had gone to work in Shanghai, and Deng's mother came to Guangzhou to accompany her in childbirth. She gave birth in Deng on March 2 1 day, and was not delivered for three days and three nights because of the large fetus and dystocia. Finally, the doctor took the baby out with tweezers. The baby suffered a head injury and died at birth.
Since then, Deng has never been pregnant again. But Deng still has the desire to be a mother. After liberation, Deng went to Peking Union Medical College Hospital under a pseudonym and asked Lin, a famous gynecologist, for examination. Lin didn't recognize the Prime Minister's wife at that time, thinking that she was unlikely to get pregnant again. After learning Deng's true identity, Lin once mobilized her to do tubal dredging to increase the possibility of giving birth, but Deng finally gave up.
I kissed him gently on the forehead when I said goodbye.
On June 1975 1 1, Zhao Wei was asked to accompany Deng to the hospital after major surgery. Walk into the ward with Deng and reach out from the quilt. "Zhao Wei, let's shake hands!"
Zhao Wei hurriedly said that his hand was too cold to hold, but Zhou Enlai insisted on "holding". Zhao Wei held out his hand, and Zhou Enlai said softly, "You should take good care of your sister."
"(1976)65438+ 10 8 when I went to work in the morning, I called the staff on duty in the hospital and said that Sister Deng had breakfast at 8: 30, so she wouldn't go in the morning and would go again in the afternoon. Then I asked how it was going, and the other party told me that it was ok. But half an hour later, the person on duty called, and the tone was a series of shortness? Bet' Zhao Wei, come on! "Not good, not good!" "
Zhao Wei suddenly understood that the last moment had arrived. At this time, I went back to the office to pack my things, and Yao Xiaoqing left without hesitation. There's no one here, so there's room for someone. She can't bow to such a person, she can't swallow this tone! Yao is angry and hates. She never dreamed that she would be so easily played by such a young man. On the big day when we left the company, we were all drunk, and Xu Meng mumbled an old song on my shoulder. Du shallow sitting opposite us has been laughing, seems to have something to say. Door, she is still angry. While Deng was brushing his teeth, Zheng Yuwen suddenly remembered that the company had sent several boxes of special New Year gifts-fashionable underwear to every employee a few days ago. It is produced by his company. She is browsing the articles in it. An article entitled "Waiting for you to see the snow in the north" attracted her. She lit it and read it eagerly. Following the words, she seemed to see a man staring at the south, waiting for the arrival of a person who loves snow as much as him. There was a saying that made her want to cry: Snow is pure, just like people who love snow ... The ellipsis fell into her heart. She thinks the article is for her! Brand underwear, also designed by him and his colleagues, is expensive ―― just give those boxes of underwear to Edie as a thank-you to her family. So, he quickly took it out of the bedroom, summoned up his courage and said, "I'm sorry, not all the trips were pleasant and warm after eating you." During the journey, they also met with danger again and again. Empathy and interdependence freed them from the entanglement of death again and again. What is more gratifying is that with the encouragement of his wife, he is full of courage and motivation to overcome the disease. Our family cooked so many meals and didn't buy gifts, so I gave them to you ... "Zhao Wei asked what happened. Zhao Wei tried to say calmly that he would call and go to the hospital at once. Deng hurried, got off the bus and walked quickly to the ward.
Zhao Wei held her tightly for fear that she might fall. As soon as they opened the ward door, they cried blindsided, and the medical staff and staff stood by crying. Come late! Before Deng could say goodbye to her husband for the last time, he suddenly jumped at him and cried and shouted, "Come on! Enlai! "
The doctor is still in the rescue. At 9: 57, a straight line was drawn on the monitor, and the Prime Minister left. The crying that has been endured in the ward suddenly turned into howling. Deng Ying Chao touched Zhou Enlai's cheek with trembling hands, kissed his forehead gently, and cried sadly, "Come on, you're gone ..."
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