In the process of getting along with girls, have you ever had the following experience: summon up courage to hold the girl's hand, but she told you: What are you doing? When she finally controlled her inner panic and turned her face to the girl, she turned her head and changed the subject; When I wanted to take a girl home, she told me it was getting late, so I had to return to that suffocating silence.

This is all because of the long-standing moral concept, which leads girls to feel that they can't have intimate behavior with a man casually. So it is normal for girls to avoid your active body movements.

However, physical contact is an indispensable link in the communication between men and women, which can maximize the intimacy between the two sides and enhance their feelings.

So how to get in touch with girls and let them avoid it?

Methods of physical contact with girls 1

Natural rationalization, of course. Let's give a simple example. If you go hiking and see a beautiful girl climbing a mountain, it will be very difficult. If you give her a hand, do you think it is possible for her to accept you? But if she falls down and you give her a hand again, do you think she will refuse you?

You play? Pull her? This gives a reasonable reason: she accepted your help because she fell and needed help.

This is a natural rationalization.

Similarly, in your physical contact with girls, natural rationalization will make girls more acceptable, and girls will think that you are a man with very high emotional intelligence and know how to take care of others.

Nature is to adjust your mind, and don't give your body a strong purpose.

We don't hold hands for the sake of holding hands. We don't kiss for the sake of kissing. We just hold hands to protect her. We kiss to let her know that I am interested in you.

When we downplay the purpose of moving in and out and have a relaxed attitude, the above article will not appear again at this time? Red-faced, deer bumping around, even speechless? Situation.

Rationalization means giving a reasonable reason to move, diluting and transferring the purpose of moving. The girl feels that you didn't move your body to her, but she still feels your love for her, and the relationship between you has been improved unconsciously.

Method of physical contact with girls 2

For example, if you touch this limb, you can touch her hair:

Your hair is really good. What brand of shampoo do you use?

Touch her clothes:

This dress of yours looks good. It suits you very well. Is it silk?

For example, holding this limb, you can take the initiative to hold her hand when crossing the road:

Let's go, there are many cars here. ?

Take the initiative to hold her hand when entering the cinema;

It's a little dark here. Be careful. ?

Speaking of natural rationalization, it's half the battle. At this time, we only need to lead girls strongly.

Taking the initiative to hold a girl's hand, especially when she is hesitant, requires a boy to be strong.

Because girls will have a sense of anxiety when faced with choices, which is insecurity. If anyone can solve the anxiety caused by women's choices, he can make women feel safe.

So it is necessary to lead girls.

Some people think this is a routine, and it is better to be direct. In fact, if you think about it, you are holding her hand to protect her. When these things become natural and sincere, do you still think this is a routine?

We have always believed that routines are not omnipotent. Only by internalizing these skills, becoming a person's habit and becoming a gentleman who really understands a woman's heart is what every man should pursue.