Whether making friends or doing things, sincerity is particularly important. In fact, many college friends are superficial and often have undercurrents in private. Everyone is selfish and will try to maximize their own interests, but if you want to make intimate friends, your sincere attitude is also necessary.

There is no need to take the initiative to cater to various social activities.

Freshmen who have just entered the university may be very novel about many things and want to participate in everything. They are embarrassed to refuse the invitation of their seniors or classmates and friends. In fact, many times you will find that many things are unnecessary. To put it bluntly, these are fair-weather friends. There is no need to actively integrate with them, just be yourself and let nature take its course.

3. Keeping a proper distance, learn to be lonely is a normal state.

Friends in college are really not as pure as those in high school. Even in the dormitory, you may feel lonely. At this time, it is normal for you to get used to loneliness. Everyone has their own things to do, so why do they do it in public? Do what others do, don't immerse yourself in social circles. You should learn to do many things by yourself and be the best you can be.