Don't worry about the university. Start too slowly to find a partner. Those who fall in love as soon as they go to college are often the fastest to break up. If it's a simple breakup, it doesn't matter. It's time to increase your love experience. If you are accidentally hurt by scum, you will lose more than you gain. If you are a girl, you must know each other well before you fall in love. It's best to start with friends and then become lovers smoothly. Before falling in love, you should know your lover's way of speaking, the way of dealing with people and the three views.
Many girls have never been in love before they go to college. They met the scum of society for the first time after they went to college. These boys may be very enthusiastic when they pursue girls, which makes the girls who just went to college dizzy, agree to pursue them, and then get together. When you succeed, you will soon become indifferent to your girlfriend. If a girl is not satisfied at this time, she will be belittled by these boys, accuse her of all kinds of bad things, take her contribution to him for granted, and even ask her to do all kinds of things for him.
If the girl doesn't agree, it means that the girl won't fall in love and is an unqualified girlfriend. If she breaks up with him in the future, she won't find a boyfriend again.
Through all kinds of belittling, girls who fall in love for the first time will have all kinds of self-doubt and even self-distrust, which will have an impact on their later life.
If you are a boy, don't pursue the girls around you too quickly after you go to college, so the girls will think you are unreal, so make a decision before you move.