When college was not so popular in the early days, children might be in their twenties, and now they graduate from college 22/23, which is the legal age for marriage. Moreover, after graduating from college, children haven't talked about objects for a year or two, and parents are anxious before they get married. Why don't they get married? Parents must be very anxious, because they will be 24/25 a year or two after graduating from college, but getting married is not about buying cabbage, just buying that if you like. We haven't been in love before, and now you suddenly ask him to find a daughter-in-law and a son-in-law for you. How is that possible?
He said that gambling in love is better than losing, and parents can't always limit it. On the contrary, I personally think that parents should be allowed to give their children more appropriate guidance on what to do and what not to do in love. Maybe personal ideas are traditional and premarital sex is very opposed, but I don't have children yet, because if you can't take that responsibility, you haven't even graduated from college. What do you give each other to love each other for a long time, and so do the girls who are getting married. Boys don't know that girls should know how to protect themselves. Now I feel that the other person loves you and you love each other, but who knows in the next year or two?
My personal opinion is still that sentence. Relationships that don't aim at marriage are hooligans. We still saw too much in college. We also came from that stage of college and saw a friend in college with our own eyes. From freshman to senior, I talked about five objects. When they are together, each object shows various forms of display and love. It was very nice to say at that time, but basically none of them were divided into more than half a year. Who was finally affected? Of course, girls and boys just spend a little more money, maybe a few hundred yuan a month to be vegetarian and spend a little more meat, but boys just spend a little more money, and boys don't suffer at all in this respect.
It is useless to avoid certain topics too much. Nowadays, premarital sex is too common in universities. Parents may not know, but they will know later. By the time you know it, it may be too late. You didn't let your child fall in love, but not only did he fall in love behind your back, but he might also secretly open a hotel behind your back. These things are realistic, and you have to learn to face them sooner or later. You might as well tell him directly that you can fall in love, but you can't.