I believe many brothers like to go to nightclubs to pick up girls, and there are a large number of girls in nightclubs with good quality. And although some good girls go to nightclubs in the middle of the night, most of them go with the mentality of hooking up with men, so the success rate of picking up girls in nightclubs is higher. Do you still sleep alone on Friday night? Let's take a look at the best nightclubs in history.
Part I: Preparation
Indeed, the biggest natural enemy of ordinary men is nightclubs. Many people say that it is difficult to pick up girls in nightclubs, and the skills of picking up girls are useless. But it also has something that ordinary dating can't match: fast approach, direct physical contact, and groups of beautiful women that you can't see at all during the day.
Go with who?
It's simple. Go with your best friend. However, if your purpose is to pick up girls, then I don't recommend going with too many men. I'll explain in detail later.
If your friends don't like going to nightclubs and feel uncomfortable, then you can try to challenge yourself. Some people in the college will go to nightclubs alone. Personally, I've never done this. I just went with my friends. I don't recommend going alone, especially since you have no experience in this field.
Dress up for girls in nightclubs
What you wear in a nightclub is always important. Some friends who go to nightclubs with me often dress untidy. You are going to pick up girls, not move bricks! You must have unique and outstanding clothes, or you will be eliminated at a glance. I will wear beautiful shirts, pants and shoes. These clothes can make you stand out and make you superior.
At the same time, you should dress yourself reasonably. Shave and comb your hair before going out.
In addition, you'd better make sure that your mobile phone has enough power to receive the number, or hook up with WeChat by SMS after receiving it.
Go to a nightclub to drink and pick up girls?
This is just a small problem. Many people in the college say that you can't drink too much when you go to nightclubs, which will hinder the skills of picking up girls. I don't agree with this view. I think drinking is an important part of the nightclub experience.
You should drink some wine to cheer yourself up. The more you drink, the more confident you will be. So, I think you should drink just right and feel happy, but never get drunk!
Dancing with girls in nightclubs
This is the most important part of the nightclub. However, is this why people go to nightclubs? If you can't dance, your chances of hitting on beautiful women will be greatly reduced, but this is only a small obstacle.
There is one way to make you the king of the dance floor, and that is practice. It sounds difficult, but if you want to get high-scoring girls in nightclubs, you must do so.
Here's what I did. ...
First, I watch some simple introductory videos online to learn other people's dance steps, and then practice in front of the mirror in my room.
I also learned on the Internet that attending salsa dance training classes can improve my dancing skills. So I signed up, which made me enjoy it and gave me confidence in dancing.
In this way, I began to feel invincible. I came to the night show and danced wildly. I think I must have got a girl.
However, a friend told me that I danced like a homosexual … so I looked in the mirror and watched my dance steps. I can't believe my appearance. My body movements are wild and unrestrained, but the biggest problem is my hips, which are twisted like Cai Kangyong.
I seem to have gone from one extreme to the other. I used to be too self-abased and too stiff, but now I am too confident and too indulgent. So, I began to control myself, try not to shake my hips too much and strengthen my legs. It makes me look much more beautiful on the dance floor. Although I am not the best dancer in the world, my dancing skills are constantly improving, and it seems endless. In fact, every dance makes progress. That's why I say practice is the best way to make progress.
I also think it will help you to add more changes to the dance steps. In the nightclub, everyone uses the very same dance posture, which has not changed all night. I like to change my steps with the song.
So, in short, practice, practice, practice, this is the only way for you to get promoted.
In addition, please be careful not to be too wild and indulgent, pay attention to the pace and reduce the upper body twisting. So as not to look gay.
At the same time, add more changes to the dance.
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Part II: Methods
The most important thing, of course, is the way to pick up girls. Now, you are in a nightclub and want to find someone. What should you do?
Be publicly interrogated.
You come to a bar to buy wine and find yourself surrounded by hot girls. What should you do?
You turn to one of them, smile and say, "Hi! Did you have fun? " It's that simple. This is how you break the deadlock. Generally speaking, she will give you a warm response unless she has a great plan, in which case, you'd better leave her quickly.
At this time, you can begin to introduce yourself. If you feel speechless after introducing yourself, you can say, "I don't think I've seen you here". In this way, you can lead to a conversation that can be used everywhere. For example, you can comment on the service of this store. There are many things to say. You can also talk a lot from this topic. Try to use your imagination.
On the dance floor
Now, friends in the circle you left, dance on the dance floor. How to take action against beautiful women? (Note: This technique is very useful for people who are new to nightclubs or very shy)
As I said before, it is best to dance in a small figure. Dancing alone will make people feel like a loser without friends. Usually two people will do, but it's a bit like homosexuality. So I think it is most suitable for three people to work together, four people can do it, and five people can do it. Any more is not appropriate, which will make some simple ways of picking up girls useless. A large group of people dance together, just like a group of brothers going out for a party. And a small body will make it easier for people to get close. I have noticed that many beautiful women usually go to nightclubs to dance 35% to 35%, and you can do the same.
Now, you leave your small circle and dance on the dance floor, staring at a bunch of beautiful women and dancing together. So, you gradually walk towards them until you come to them. You can rub against one of them, or try to squeeze into their circle. Once you successfully penetrate them, you will succeed.
I found that the above practice is more respectable and easier to get than rubbing on the back of a beautiful woman.
"traditional" method
This is a time-honored skill, which is the basis of all methods of picking up girls. You should know. You're in a nightclub, and you're eyeing a beautiful woman. At this time, you should make eye contact with her. Once she looks at you, you give her a smile. If she smiles back at you, you can wave to her, then go to her and start introducing yourself. That's it, it's simple!
You are dancing with your sister now.
Yes, this part belongs to simple common sense. I've seen beautiful women on the dance floor approach some boys actively and rub them with * * * very defiantly, but these boys just stand stiffly and dance, thinking, "Oh, my God! This girl is so handsome! What should I do? " Most of you can ignore this part, but if you are the kind of boy I said, then keep watching.
So, now you are on the dance floor, dancing with the hot girl who just made eye contact. She teases you, you rub her. But what should you do next?
Of course, every situation is unique, and there is no fixed way for you to pick up girls on the dance floor. However, here are some general processes that I often refer to.
You danced with her and introduced yourself. After dancing for a few minutes, you hugged her, looked her in the eyes and gave her a kiss. All the above actions should be done gently and slowly. Unless she takes the initiative, don't kiss in French. Then, step back and look at her with a smile. If she is like this, then continue to use the above skills, but this time we need a French kiss, but slowly.
Seize the opportunity and reach out to her. If she doesn't want to, she usually refuses politely, but most beautiful women like it. After such a period of time, touch her body upward until you touch her chest and gently rub it.
Similarly, if she doesn't want to, she will make it clear. If so, she probably won't go home with you tonight, so the best thing to do is to give her a kiss and ask her for a phone number to end this conversation.
Anyway, if she can accept you rubbing her breasts, just keep it for a while, then move your lips to her ear and gently say, "Do you want to leave here?" If she gives a positive answer, take her away. If she refuses, either ask her for a phone number and end it; Either take her back to your booth or create a happy atmosphere somewhere else.
If she wears a separate coat, then ...
Continue to kiss her, but after a while, put your hand into her coat. If she doesn't object to what you do, tonight will be very romantic. If she lets you play with her breasts like this, you can guide her to put her other hand around you.
Keep this state for a while, then you can take out your hand, touch her abdomen, and then put your hand into her. Doby her finger, put her hand to a more * * *. After a while, I whispered in her ear, "Do you really want to leave here together?" If she refuses, it's probably because of autism. Give her some safe and considerate reasons, such as taking her to have a special drink and then taking it home directly without her permission.
Well, that's all I want to say about picking up girls in nightclubs. The above methods all come from my many years of night experience. Good luck, I hope this post is useful to you.
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Cheats for picking up girls in nightclubs provided by Bai.
Nightclub is a high-energy place in the city. Whether chatting up strange girls or flirting with girls you already know, night shows are always a good choice. Although the success rate of picking up girls in nightclubs is much higher than that in daily scenes, it doesn't mean that you can pick up girls just by going to nightclubs for a drink and dancing for a while.
1, choose a nightclub that suits you.
There are two aspects to "suit yourself" here: First, the nightclub style suits your social way. For example, nightclubs with work style are more suitable for friends to get together and work together to pick up girls; Nightclubs in Guo Mao are relatively private, which is suitable for bringing girls to further establish intimate relationships. Nightclubs in different regions have their own obvious styles, and we can't change the overall atmosphere of nightclubs, so we must choose a home that suits our social way. Second, the female audience of nightclubs is suitable for their own choices, and the audience groups in different regions are different according to the style of nightclubs. For example, most of the high-scoring girls who are big honey fans are in nightclubs of work sports, but they are going to Wudaokou for a date.
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2. Know the recent theme activities of major nightclubs in advance.
Nowadays, social platforms are changing with each passing day, but any decent nightclub will have its official WeChat or official Weibo. You can learn about the latest activities of nightclubs through these methods. The reputation of a nightclub is not only judged by the daily attendance rate, but also accumulated through some of its theme activities. Know the activities of different nightclubs in advance and choose the one that suits you best. Of course, you need to do some work before you go. For example, the uniform party needs to wear uniforms, and the fluorescent party certainly needs glow sticks and laser trinkets. Even if these preparations don't make you the focus, at least they won't make a fool of you in public. After all, good "equipment" can improve "combat effectiveness."
Don't hesitate before you speak.
In my opinion, hesitating before hitting on girls is definitely a taboo in nightclubs. Attracting high-scoring girls has never been so easy, but usually most high-scoring women are a little "stingy". They don't need your flattery at all, but prefer to be conquered. Imagine that you hesitate to talk to a girl with high scores and look away, but this woman knows your purpose as long as she has a little IQ. So, as a girl with high marks, will she talk to someone who even hesitates to talk to herself?
4. Choose a cocktail or two that suits you.
Usually, the offline activities of Bad Boys College are collective actions. Of course, it is not suitable for a group of people to order a cocktail in a nightclub. But it doesn't rule out that you have a whim and want to go hunting alone. It's too easy for a person to open a bottle of wine at the booth to expose your sense of demand, so I suggest you order cocktails at a nightclub alone. Of course, cocktails in each nightclub are different, but there are some classics that any nightclub will have. My favorite is Margaret, not only because of its sad love story, but also because it is the first cocktail I have ever had, and it happens to taste good. There is a story behind most cocktails, which opens the topic between you and girls, from wine to people. Why not talk about money?
5. Take dancing as the primary purpose on the dance floor.
I believe that the primary purpose of many people taking girls to the dance floor is to improve Kino. Indeed, relative to the overall environment, the dance floor can be regarded as the highest energy place in the nightclub. But if the purpose of your transition to the dance floor is only to upgrade Kiss or Kino, etc. Then I'm really disappointed in this place. In my opinion, the ultimate goal of dancing on the dance floor is to mobilize the emotional upgrade of girls. Women are usually more emotional, so they have a stronger need for emotion. If you want to arouse girls' emotions, you must first have a positive emotion, so please dance wholeheartedly on the dance floor to drive your goals. Believe me, positive energy is contagious.
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Picking up girls in nightclubs is a must for men.
What can I do in nightclubs besides drinking and dancing? Pick up girls! Correct answer, so what are the strategies for pursuing girls in nightclubs? Let's have a look!
Trick 1: refuse to form a group
Dude, you don't go to nightclubs to buy home appliances online. The number of girls in nightclubs is limited, and the quality of them is rare. A group of people come. Who do you want to rob? Moreover, there is a psychological problem. If you are alone, girls will feel less threatened and may even approach you on their own initiative. If you take a pack of wolves to eat sheep, it's strange that the sheep don't run.
Tip two, the three-second rule
The three-second rule means that you should approach a woman within three seconds of meeting her for the first time. This is to prevent men from thinking too much and being nervous, and also to avoid staring at women for too long and scaring her away.
Nightclubs are dimly lit and noisy, which is the best time for "hunting". If you have a crush on a girl, don't stop making eye contact with her, because human eyes can talk. Watch it for a while, and then you go up to her and say, "Hi! How was your game today? Are you just gonna watch me do nothing? Let's go dancing together! "
Trick three, grasp the rhythm
It's hard. You'd better know some music. Different music rhythms have different contact ways. At first, any form of direct contact will alert her. But with the change of music rhythm, casual touch happens to have a better effect. In particular, some Latin styles have cheerful rhythms, big movements and many opportunities for contact. At this time, seize the opportunity and don't miss the good opportunity.
Smile like a flower
Trick four, a positive breakthrough
This statement sounds a bit explicit, but it is actually a psychological insight. Many novice nightclubs are always embarrassed at first, and always like to dance back to back with girls or follow them. In fact, this is a psychological misunderstanding, behind which they are most afraid, because she can't see you. Dare to face each other, it is possible to enter the next link.
Trick 5: moderate drinking
When buying drinks for girls in nightclubs, don't drink anything strong, because we just want to find a girl and have fun together. So drinking is also very skillful. Try to choose something soft. And you can't drink too much yourself. If you fall, you can't be a girl.
The sixth trick, look at the tips.
Nightclubs have all kinds of hints. If you are an old bird, you must know that when you invite a girl to dance, she doesn't object, but she doesn't take the initiative. She looks around from time to time to prove that you are not recognized, and you can dance the next dance with someone else. Also, if you dance next to a girl and her reaction is to recall all wingmen, then you should leave quickly. Calibrate the bull's-eye and choose the one that suits you best.
More tips: debauchery in the middle of the night is not equal to debauchery.
In fact, the "night pu people" who hang out in nightclubs are not all like the drunken nightlife and the indulgence of the wine pool in the movies. There are also many people who call their friends just to release stress. Therefore, with a sunny mood, it is a very unforgettable thing to invite an excellent girl to spend such a relaxed and happy time together. So, don't "pick up girls" with the intention of hooking up, taking advantage or even doing something, or you may be splashed with wine by girls. ...