Individual level cannot represent the level of a university. Any university, from Tsinghua Peking University to three higher vocational and even private universities, even if you can learn one percent, even one thousandth, one ten thousandth of your university, you can still be invincible! Similarly, the level of college can't limit your personal development. As long as you are a dragon, you can smoke anytime and anywhere!
Whether a person can succeed or not has nothing to do with universities, majors, teachers and the surrounding environment. What is decisive is his own mentality and his own efforts! So, remember three things:
First, even if you are a student of a famous university or a key university, it's nothing. It only means that you did well in the exam before the university, and the size of the university has nothing to do with you.
Second, even if you are a student in two universities and three higher vocational colleges, don't be discouraged. You can still make extraordinary achievements in ordinary universities. You can't be proud of the school, but the school will be famous for you in the future! There is a poem that can prove: How did Huiji die between valleys? ! How can a hero be tired in a third-rate place ! I am not an ambitious person, but I am still willing to gallop across the country and the world! I am not a hero, but I still want to travel for nine days and work hard!
Third, whether you like your major or not, whether your major is popular or unpopular, don't pay too much attention, because you don't need professional courses in college, and there are very few professional and work-related courses! What it needs more is your comprehensive quality and continuous learning ability! There is a periodical "How to Deal with the Relationship between University Major and Interest" for you to break down.
So how can students who have just entered the university win at the starting line and create a good prelude for their wonderful and perfect university? Personally, I think:
First, change the mentality.
Psychologically, we should complete the transformation from high school students to college students in words and deeds. High school students are determined by their academic performance for life, but universities are not. They cultivate all-round talents with comprehensive qualities. Grades are very important, but on the one hand, it is one-sided to only value students with high scores in professional courses in universities. In high school, teachers set an example, and in college, they all rely on self-study. It is his duty for the teacher to attend classes. Whether you listen or not is beyond his discussion, so you must take the initiative to learn. In high school, everyone was busy studying, and there were few opportunities to show their talents, but universities were not. It wants a hundred schools of thought to contend and a hundred flowers to blossom! University is an era of individuality, a place to show charm, a space to release passion and a cradle of talents, so everyone should turn himself into steel in the university stage!
Second, be familiar with the environment.
I suggest that when I am a freshman, I should not only study hard, but also "play" in the vast sky. I once set a record of going out about five times a week when I was a freshman. Why? One is to be familiar with the geographical environment, and the other is to seize business opportunities and pave the way for your future sponsorship or work. In addition, everything on campus should be tried, such as teaching buildings, facilities, crowds and so on. In short, we should strive to have a general understanding of the university and the city where the university is located from a macro perspective, all of which are complementary to the growth and take-off of sophomore and junior!
Third, develop good study habits.
Freshman's personality and habits may have an impact on your life, so you must be strict with yourself when you are a freshman. There is a saying in Sun Tzu's Art of War: Seek the best, the best, the worst and nothing. If you relax yourself in your freshman year, you will basically be separated in your junior year and senior year. Specifically, first of all, study hard, don't skip class, it's not the time for you to skip class, or you won't be able to get through sophomore, junior and senior. It is best to get good grades in the mid-term and final exams and get scholarships. Secondly, go to the library to read more books. Freshman is the best time for you to read miscellaneous books in the library, because juniors and seniors are either busy taking the postgraduate entrance examination or graduating, and have no mood or time to expand their knowledge.
Fourth, set foot in "officialdom" with "kingly way"
Student cadres in universities are nothing. I was a monitor and president of the student union. Don't look so mysterious. It takes a slap in the face to treat guests and give gifts, and crooked ways make people laugh! What I want to tell you is that this is created by kingship, and the so-called kingship is the right way. In short, the position obtained by treating guests and giving gifts has no gold content. If you can become the mainstay of the student union and student associations and make it inseparable from you, you will succeed! How to explain it? To put it bluntly: what you do is very important and indispensable to the student union and student associations, but the premise is that you can do better, or you are one of the few people who do well, then the student union depends on you, so that you can easily enter and become a pillar! Of course, it's easier said than done. The specific operation depends on your own understanding!
Fifth, work more on weekends and holidays.
Freshman's extracurricular life is very rich. Freshmen generally work in the student union, and most of them take part-time jobs. Why? Because freshmen are "so gullible"! At this time, as a freshman, don't complain, don't feel that you have suffered, because everyone has come this way. If you don't do it, your university will be short of many things, so as long as you like it and have time, I suggest you travel more and don't be afraid of failure. You have enough time and opportunity to correct the mistakes made by the university, and you will not be able to do it after graduation!
Sixth, take part in more activities, grasp your own interests and find your own strengths.
Many university activities are attended by freshmen and sophomores, especially freshmen, who account for more than half of the participants. At this time, various student associations are recruiting new students, and posters of various activities and competitions are exploding, so what you have to do is to participate as much as possible, and don't be afraid of failure! First, you can exercise your social skills, and second, you can find your hobbies through competitions and other activities to make your specialties longer! In addition, it is best to make a name for yourself at the welcome party, such as delivering programs, participating in organizing plays, being a host, etc. For details about the party, please see this journal "Teach you how to hold a high-level party in college! Attachment: Detailed planning and division of labor. 》
Like the above two journals, this advice for freshmen is also aimed at college students in general. The university has just begun. Don't act in a hurry. As long as you can do these things solidly, sophomore and junior are the time for you to take off.
Part II: For the friends who are about to enter the sophomore year.
Freshmen have just arrived at the university, juniors are busy taking the postgraduate entrance examination, and seniors are busy graduating to find a job, so sophomore is the mainstay of the university!
After a series of "For College Students" written by seniors, juniors and freshmen, the sophomore series will be released today. At that time, the perfect university will be in your hands in four years!
Why is sophomore a mainstay of the university? It's very simple, you see: more than 65% of the senior management of the student union are sophomores; In club activities, about 60% of the club presidents are sophomores; In the work-study program, 60% of the main students are sophomores; In various social activities, such as sponsorship, weekend and holiday promotion, the organizer is still a sophomore!
So sophomore year is the adolescence of college. There is neither ignorance of freshmen nor graduation pressure of juniors and seniors. In short, it is free and unrestrained, and it is the most chic time in college. So how can we play sophomore year and then jump junior year to make a blockbuster senior year? Feng Jing just shared his words with all his younger brothers and sisters, hoping to achieve something!
First, look back.
Freshman has passed, and with the entrance of new students, you are also a senior in senior three and senior four. Are you ready to be a senior or a senior? Do you know the difference between seniors and freshmen? If a freshman asks you: Brother/Sister, what should freshmen pay attention to? Can you give me some advice? I don't like my major, what should I do? Excuse me, my sophomore friend, can you answer? Therefore, before the freshmen finish military training, even during the summer vacation, you should seriously reflect on what your freshman did. What achievements have you made? What are your shortcomings and feelings? What should you do as a sophomore? What progress do you want to make in Grade Two? You must think deeply, and you'd better write it in the form of a diary summary and publish it. Don't be afraid of criticism from others. The so-called growth is the process of being criticized and corrected.
Second, set some goals for your senior two.
All the goals can be quantified, and those who say that I must study hard and I want to be better than last year are vague. Only quantification can be more intuitive. For example, you can set the following goals for Grade Two:
1. Senior two plans to read 100 books.
I plan to make more than 30 like-minded friends.
3. Plan to participate in promotion and other work 10 times.
I plan to earn 5000 yuan by myself to help my studies.
5. I plan to pass CET-4, and my score is above 520.
I plan to get the first-class scholarship.
7. I intend to be the minister or vice-chairman of the student union.
8. I plan to memorize 2000 more English words and 10 beautiful articles.
9. Plan to write 30 articles.
10, I plan to travel five times.
1 1. I'm looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend.
12, I'm going to buy a watch for my father and an MP3 for my mother.
13, I want to organize two activities and a weekend promotion.
14, I want to pull three batches of sponsorship for the student union or the student union.
Only by setting quantifiable goals according to your own special situation, suggesting about 20, writing them down, sticking them in your sleeping place, or simply keeping them in mind, and then completing them in batches and sections in one year, can you make your sophomore year a bumper harvest, don't you think?
Third, arrange your time reasonably.
Sophomore is in a high-speed growth period of the university. Although the quality, skills and ability are not as good as those of junior students, they have also advanced by leaps and bounds with the development of time. So, at this time, you are at a critical point. If you progress, you can soar to Wan Li, and if you retreat, you can roll 8,000 feet in the abyss. Therefore, you must arrange your time reasonably. You should plan your weekly and monthly time for playing games, falling in love, shopping, attending classes, going to the library, participating in student club activities, participating in business activities and so on. Don't be extravagant. The university is actually very short. I graduated for so long. Now I occasionally feel that my freshman year is close to me. So sophomore friends, for your own future, for your own future, the university, you must work hard, otherwise graduation from senior year will be a nightmare for you!
Fourth, everything is ready, be diligent first.
The above three points, I have said the most urgent thing in my sophomore year from a macro perspective, but whether I can achieve something depends on my understanding. For example, if I say that I have to read 100 books in my sophomore year, I may see different things in different people's eyes. All the goals I mentioned in the second point are diligence first. If you do nothing, you will get nothing. Without practice, you don't even have the capital to do one thing or comment on one thing.
In any case, you should prepare and pave the way for yourself to enter the most glorious period and the most capable stage of the university. No matter where your interest is, try to turn it into a specialty! It is estimated that by the time you are a sophomore, you have understood that an honest man can't work in a university. As long as we are within a certain range, we should be as active as possible, exercise our ability and enhance our courage, so as to achieve something.
Fifth, full of passion and high morale!
Passion and creativity are indispensable conditions for a young man to succeed. Passion may not succeed, but it will not succeed without passion. Therefore, it is particularly important to cultivate the passion of sophomores. After getting up every morning, be full of fighting spirit, give yourself the strongest spiritual encouragement, and believe that you can do it! The exercise method of keeping passion needs lasting exercise, such as: being with positive and optimistic people, being with confident people, being with happy people, reading inspirational books, listening to exciting music, taking firm steps and contacting inspiring things … so that your passion can last!
In short, everyone is different and there is no uniform standard. If you want to achieve great success, you must combine your own characteristics and universal laws to create a distinctive sophomore life!
The third part: For friends who are about to enter junior year.
The junior year is the young and middle-aged period of the university, and it is also the golden period of your development in your career, student union, student union and amateur activities, and it is also the period when you have achieved the most brilliant results in the university except graduation! If you have been in college for four years, you can't be a "vassal" in your junior year, basically your university will be qualitative, and you can only hurry to prepare for graduation in your senior year!
I have said this before: as long as I can stand out among tens of thousands of people in the university, I can still make a splash in society after graduation, and that is only a matter of time! Becoming a well-known "campus star" with countless fans on campus is not the goal pursued by our university, because the fame and fortune of the university are illusory and will collapse with the moment you leave the school! However, for the junior students before the senior year, this is precisely the yardstick to measure your Excellence. You say you are awesome, so can you make your class, department, school and even a certain range of college students and teachers recognize you through practical actions? If not, then you are not awesome!
The achievements of junior year in business, student union, student association and extracurricular activities are the concentrated expression of your comprehensive quality, and also the extremely high stage of your university ability explosion and potential exploration. Now is not the time for you to be modest, but the time for you to make achievements against the current! Grasp the junior year, you can resign and get married, and you can go to graduate school and take the civil service exam. If you are promoted, you can study abroad. As the saying goes, you can "welcome guests and have a bright future"! So how do you master your junior year so that you can play all over the university without regret and make a blockbuster when you graduate? Feng Jing tells you from personal experience:
First of all, modify and determine the ultimate goal of the university!
Why is it a revision? Because you should set a college goal when you are a freshman, but the goal set at that time will be shaken, changed or even completely denied with your broad vision and psychological maturity. Therefore, it is imperative to revise and determine the ultimate goal of the university, and everything else is for this purpose. If you can't do this, everything else will be empty, which means nothing! What is the ultimate goal of a university? Let me explain to you:
(1) Find a satisfactory job through the knowledge, skills and comprehensive quality of four years' study in university.
(2) In the face of increasingly competitive employment pressure, choose postgraduate entrance examination for further study.
(C) In the face of increasingly competitive employment pressure, choose to study abroad for gilding.
(four) admitted to the national civil servants, provincial civil servants, Selected Graduates and other state organs and units.
(5) Have passion and great perseverance, and you can choose to start a business under various conditions, with great risks and high returns!
This is the ultimate goal of several universities I know. You can consider it carefully according to your own situation and decide to fight for it!
Second, learn what you like and will be useful in the future through your compulsory courses.
In short, if you like your professional courses and want to develop in this field, study hard; If you don't like your professional courses, you can fail, and then choose your favorite knowledge that is useful for future survival and study hard! In addition, I have mastered some skills and obtained some certificates, such as CET-4 and CET-6 certificate, computer certificate, tour guide certificate, human resource teacher and other qualification certificates.
Third, according to my hobbies, I have made small achievements in business, literature and literature.
Give a few examples:
(1) If you want to start a business or engage in business-related work after graduation, junior year is an excellent opportunity to verify your abilities and talents. If you are the material in this field, try to occupy your own place in the campus business circle, and it is best to become the industry leader. The profit you create is an intuitive manifestation of your ability!
(2) If you like literature, you can get to know the literary groups in the society through the introduction of friends or community activities, and then go there to study and learn from the classics, and it is best to achieve something.
(3) If you like to find a job in sales promotion after graduation, then your university will make full use of every opportunity to do sales promotion or promotion activities on May 1, 11 and holidays, preferably on a large scale. Similarly, how much money you earn is also an intuitive manifestation of your ability in this area.
Fourth, outstanding performance in the student union and student associations.
The most intuitive embodiment is: junior year, you can be the person in charge of the club, you can be the chairman of the student union, and you can be the chairman and vice chairman of the school student union. Why do you say that? There are two reasons: first, it is the result of your hard work and the concentrated expression of your comprehensive quality before your junior year. You can do it, which shows that you really have something extraordinary. Second, after you do it, there will be many unexpected opportunities to further improve your overall quality and make a qualitative leap. For example, in the student group, the chairman and the head make the final decision, and the chairman and the head have the most contact with the public. Of course, everyone knows some hidden rules, so stop here.
Verb (abbreviation for verb) Let a hundred flowers blossom and a hundred schools of thought contend.
This is not the most important, but it is essential. The four items written above are suggestions for junior students in general, but their personal conditions are different, their personalities are different, their hobbies are different, and their specialties are different ... So the fifth point is to play with their own primary life. This "play" is not "play". You have to play with meaning, taste and specialty. As for flower girl Flower Girl, who takes games as the main line and falls in love as her career, it is beyond the scope of my topic discussion today!
Part four: Give it to friends who are about to enter senior three.
"Employed" and "raised salary" are new words in the financial crisis. Many people haven't found jobs yet, and the employment office has an agreement to build the official seal of the unit; Many people earn less than 1000 a month, which is counted by the statistics department to be more than 2,000. In a word, the employment situation of college students is good. What is the truth? Just look at the senior students of Grade 04 and Grade 05 around you. ...
Are you confused when you are about to enter your senior year and enter the society? I think I should do everything, but I'm not in the mood to do anything; Even if I am in the mood to do it, I feel that there are too many facts to do and not enough time; I want to catch everything, but I feel that I can't catch anything. The pressure of employment and further education makes me breathless! If you are the head of the club, the president of the student union, or make some achievements that attract the attention of the whole school, is it more stressful? Yes, you were a bunch of cows in college, and you always were cows, so you want to keep going until you graduate, right? What if graduation is not good? Don't be afraid. Will Feng Jing give you some advice? If you want to see it, you should put down what you are doing and understand the linked log together with the related log attached. Otherwise, let's stop here.
First, rest assured that the burden, towards a new life!
It's better to retreat and form a net, and those who meet in a narrow way win! Graduates must adjust their mentality, take the successful examples of their predecessors as their role models and goals, and give themselves a good start and hope. Meanwhile, don't complain about others. When you come, you will be safe. In the face of worldwide employment difficulties, you should know that those who meet in a narrow way win! The financial crisis only affects some people, some uncompetitive people. Instead of impacting some people who study hard, have strong comprehensive quality and are gifted, it is an opportunity to sail against the current!
Two. Past ≠ future
When I gave a speech at the university, I don't know how many times I said: Time flies, only passion and strength last forever! Being unknown before the third year of high school does not mean that there is still no progress when you graduate; Just because you were radiant before the third year of high school doesn't mean you are radiant after graduation! I'll give you two suggestions: First, if you didn't study hard before senior three, then senior three must study hard. In senior three, I got up at five o'clock every morning to study ... I have seen many such examples. Freshman, sophomore and junior have a wide range of gameplay (meaningful gameplay), and senior students will settle down to study. As a result, most people get good grades when they graduate, or second, if you hold any position in the university, then Feng Jing tells you with personal experience: resign decisively! Because, for the school, whether you are the chairman or the principal, you are a tool for the school to manage students! If you accomplish nothing after graduation, no one will give you face even if you are the chairman; If you make a blockbuster and make achievements, then all the leaders and teachers will give you face and even celebrate for you!
Third, the width of the sea depends on diving.
I have been working for almost a month now, and I don't want to teach any more. Now this society can prove your ability: salary, status, so-called spiritual wealth and so on. And this society will test you with these two things. If you can't do these two things, you can preach again. If not, you can talk about it! What happened to the doctoral student? How convincing is a doctor with a monthly salary of more than 10 thousand in front of a person who has not graduated from a primary school and earns tens of millions of dollars a year? The best explanation for this phenomenon is that "the granary knows etiquette, and food and clothing know honor and disgrace". Spiritual wealth and service to society can only be said if you have enough capital. If you keep pace, you will be able to help the world at the same time. If you are poor, you must protect yourself. How can you help the world and people if you can't protect yourself well? !
Therefore, my advice to my senior friends is: first, I can support myself; Second, under the guidance of correct values, create wealth and create more and more wealth. Just like a saying in the enterprise: if the company is not profitable, it is equal to crime! That college student can't make money after graduation. What is it? Therefore, all your goals must be summed up in the words "creating profits". What is patriotism? Not receiving unemployment benefits from the state is patriotism. If you can create some wealth and make more people earn money, you will be very patriotic!
Then the sea is wide and the fish jumps. How to jump? I am in "How can a girl who thinks she is very ordinary control her four-year college life and be more likely to forge herself into a top girl?" ! Feng Jing's first diary written specifically for girls! "Wrote a passage like this:
As I haven't graduated yet, I can only discuss with you several ways out after graduation. As for these outlets and their development prospects, I haven't graduated yet and I'm not qualified to evaluate them.
(1) work; Now the world is facing a once-in-a-century financial crisis, and last year's migrant workers and unemployed college students, 24 million people have not found jobs this year alone, and this number will become more and more huge! In short, the chicken is less and the rice is more, and the narrow road wins! Therefore, whether you can find an ideal job really depends on your personal skills, resources and opportunities!
(2) Postgraduate entrance examination; Out of their own ideals, even in order to avoid the impact of the financial crisis, many people choose to take the postgraduate entrance examination, which is also a way. Whether it is feasible or not, I have already written it in other journals, so I won't go into details here. If you are interested, you can consult my other original journals! However, there seems to be such a rule: if a position requires strong professionalism, the employer will generally choose a doctor. If the professional requirements of the position are weak, undergraduates can be competent, and there is almost no need to spend more money to hire master students. Of course, on the whole, graduate students are more competitive than undergraduates. You can't say sour grapes just because you don't take the postgraduate entrance examination.
(3) Assessing civil servants; National civil servants, Selected Graduates and local civil servants have become more and more popular in recent years, and the examination team has become more and more huge! The difficulty, quantity, reading volume and fierce competition of its topics have been rising. It is normal for thousands or even tens of thousands of people to compete for a position. Of course, this is a relatively stable and comfortable job, and basically anyone with normal IQ can do it. However, if you stay in the office for a few years and don't make progress, it will basically be abolished.
(4) starting a business; Entrepreneurship is not a man's monopoly. According to some surveys, the probability of success of women's entrepreneurship is higher than that of men 15 percentage points. This has a lot to do with women's meticulous thinking and relatively light pressure. Therefore, if you are interested in business and have the resources and talents in this field, it is also a good choice for girls to start a business!
(5) going abroad; Going abroad has always been a hot topic, especially under the stimulation of employment pressure in recent years and the government's policy of returning overseas, many students with good family economic conditions have chosen to study abroad. I haven't been in school, so I can't express my opinion. I think it is right to analyze a method for everyone, and students with conditions can consider it.
(6) getting married; Some girls, after several years of stable love, are ripe for marriage, so they will get married as soon as possible after graduation and then start their careers! Of course, this is also my preferred way. Before meeting my wife, I originally planned to get married before the end of 20 10 on the way to meet the right girl in the employment unit or start a business after graduation. Fortunately, I found a good girl like Zhang Qi as my wife, so I will wait for her! Why do you mention marriage? Because I wrote a diary about love and career last September 13. In my eyes: marriage is the motivation for boys to strive for their careers, and career is the material guarantee for boys to improve their marriage taste! A career without marriage and a marriage without a career are deformed!
Fourth, the sky is high and birds can fly.
I always believe that as long as you stick to your dreams, never give up and keep working hard, you will certainly achieve your goals. If not, it only shows that your efforts are not enough! Whether a person can succeed or not has nothing to do with the school, the major or the surrounding environment. The only thing that matters is your mentality! Nothing can stop you as long as you want to succeed! I look forward to your future success in business, your words and deeds in politics, or your surprises in academia!