2. You should live in harmony, and the three views should live in harmony. The difference between the three views is that your independent thinking is completely different. You like romance, but he doesn't like it much. You like watching TV plays, but he doesn't like them very much. People with different views can't get together. Even if you love each other very much, you will eventually be defeated by facts. Think of Song Joong Ki and Song Hye Kyo Jing, the couple of Song Dynasty. In the past, they were more concerned by others, but in the end they had to go into divorce mediation because of disagreement. So be sure to know whether your three views are compatible. If you don't agree, then separate as soon as possible.
Two people should know how to care about each other. When he is uncomfortable, you need to give him a hug. When he is tired, make him tea. Give him some small surprises on holidays. You are loving, but if you want to grow and develop for a long time, you must learn to express your love to each other immediately.