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I am always particularly insecure and feel that I am always alive to show others. I feel that I have changed since I went to college. What is wrong with me?
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I don't like sleeping in the dark, so I will discuss with you how to spend college life from the following six aspects.

First, talk about the environment.

Before entering the university, everyone will have such a vision for the university campus-it feels like a paradise, where there is not much homework and burden, only to learn what they like according to their own preferences and step into the glory of the ivory tower. However, when you get to college, you will find that the situation is not as good as you think: the school is not good either, and you don't know how to spend a lot of your spare time, feeling confused and bored.

Everyone has learned that biology has the ability to adapt to the environment in the "seven characteristics of biology" in senior high school biology class. Now everyone should get familiar with the environment, adapt to the environment, and then make good use of the environment to realize themselves!

After entering the university, everyone should establish self-confidence. Only in this way can we live like individuals! In college, everyone has no history and background, which means it doesn't matter who you were before, others will know you from now on. Here you can change from introversion to extroversion, and then develop your potential.

Second, talk about the plan

Everyone should have his own plan, and the plan is the goal. That is, what to do in the first year of four years; What to do in the second year; What to do in the third year; What to do in the fourth year; In other words, what kind of achievement or level should be achieved after each year or semester. People with goals are like kites with traction lines; A coordinate system with a behavior reference. For example, your classmates drag you out to play, but your goal is to pass Band 4. Because there is a conflict between playing and CET-4, you should refuse your classmates and sit down and carve English. Only in this way can you say without shame that I am a qualified agricultural university graduate in four years! Only in this way can you become an all-round talent in four years!

Third, talk about community and student work.

Before you do it, you should build up your confidence. In this way, we can be human! Let alone "I must be better than them!" "We want to say," after my efforts, I must be better than them! As the English proverb says, "You never know what you can do without trying! "Under the premise of not affecting your study, you can join various organizations of schools such as clubs according to your own preferences. In college, you don't just study like high school. Here you should consciously improve your comprehensive quality. If your speaking ability is poor, accompanied by palpitation and weakness of limbs, you should take part in more speaking competitions and some speaking-related clubs. Only in this way can we improve our ability in this field. Don't flinch because of fear and nervousness. In fact, the main reason why you are breathless and weak on the stage is fear of failure. This is unnecessary. If you compare a person's life to a line segment, then you are now a cross section of this line segment, and now people are passers-by in your life. What they think of you won't have much influence on you, but your participation in this competition is different. You learned something and gained the ability. This is a mercenary, so you should take part in it to improve your ability. Your life will be colorful only if you are not afraid of failure. So that your college life will not become a black-and-white photo. But remember: the premise is not to delay learning. Because students are learning after all, don't pretend to be masters. In class, you should put aside your work and activities and concentrate on listening and taking notes. Doing work and taking part in activities doesn't let you occupy study time, but let you occupy play time. In other words, when others are studying, you are working, while others are playing, you should calm down and study. Only in this way can you work and study correctly. If one day, you suddenly find yourself unable to concentrate on the class, then you should consider postponing some activities or quitting some jobs to ensure the smooth progress of your study.

Fourth, English learning.

Many students here have a good foundation in English, but I believe more are poor. Most students will say: My English is poor, which is my biggest headache and troublemaker. Right? My English level is not necessarily better than everyone here. I am reading Li Yang's Crazy English recently. I don't want everyone to see it, but the spirit is helpful to our English study. The main spirit of his crazy English is "as fast as possible, as loud as possible and as clear as possible!" That is, read as fast as possible, read as loudly as possible, and read as clearly as possible! And copy down some used sentences or turn them into practical sentences, write them on paper and carry them with you, and read them anytime and anywhere. And do it anytime, anywhere. When your pronunciation is standard, the process of reading is also the process of practicing listening. So you can take the language environment with you. And inspire your love for English. English is a language, a living language, not just a course. It develops and changes in application. For example, it used to be "How are you?" But it is out of fashion now. What is popular now is "How are you?" The answer is "I did well." Therefore, some things can't be solved by just picking grammar. Understand? All this needs to be persisted. No sweat, no sweetness! On that day, the high scores easily passed the CET-4 and CET-6. You may say: it was a miracle, but I did it. You may find that it is important that I start to use English. When you see a beautiful girl: She is so beautiful that it makes me suffocate. In this way, after English is integrated into your life, you will establish feelings with English and become interested in learning English. Interest is the first teacher. I believe you will love English, too!

Verb (abbreviation of verb) about learning.

Here, I will be divided into three parts.

(A) to maintain good study habits

College courses are not as stressful as high school, but don't relax just because you go to heaven. In fact, the competition in universities has just begun. It's best for everyone to maintain good work and rest habits like high school. If you relax for the first time and the second time, you will not be so nervous for the third time. From tomorrow on, you should study hard, make progress every day, and don't skip class. Perhaps, you have heard the villagers say, "Elective courses must escape, and compulsory courses must escape." . I don't agree with this view. I think everyone comes here with money to learn knowledge. Don't pay for not attending classes and take advantage of those teachers. Students of science and engineering, in particular, learned a technology and later lived by technology in society. Learning now is like picking vegetables in the basket and picking food in the warehouse! The more you recite, the longer you will eat after graduation! So study hard and make progress every day. (B) to maintain a good lifestyle

After coming to Agricultural University, you may find that there are few places to play here. At most, I just play games, surf the Internet and play poker. I hope everyone is here, and don't go drinking as soon as you have nothing to do. Just like a couplet: have fun all night, have fun. The horizontal approval is: holiday! This is not good, especially for health. Did you have transaminase before the college entrance examination? According to the survey, more than 50% of college students' transaminase deviates from the normal level, which is caused by alcoholism. So, don't drink too much for your health and study! It is ok to drink less beer when you are happy. It relaxes muscles and promotes blood circulation. For example, the China team qualified a few days ago, so I am very happy to have a bottle of beer! But don't drink too much. (3) We should constantly improve ourselves

1, departmentalism

Don't be afraid of failure. Fail, be wrong, know the mistake, know where the mistake is, and correct it, just to avoid making similar mistakes next time. You should be happy with the wrong value, because it is better to be wrong now than later. University is a training ground, so we should dare to try and run in. Only in this way can you give yourself an accurate position and know what you will do in the future. We should not only learn from our own failures, but also learn from the failures of others and the experiences of successful people. Read more, if you read a book written by an 80-year-old man and absorb it. Then you live for another 80 years. A book is a good thing, but if you don't read it and learn from it, it is just a pile of waste paper!

2. Skepticism

When you go to college, you should learn to look at problems with suspicion and distinguish between people or things. Take the rumor of plague as an example. When you hear about the plague epidemic, you should first ask the librarian or go to the library to check the information about the plague to determine whether it is plague, instead of moving a box of instant noodles without saying anything. If you look at the information, you will know that an epidemic in Egypt died12 million people; 26 million people were killed in the epidemic in India. If it's a plague, it can't be just two people falling. Therefore, we should have our own opinions when looking at problems and doing things, and don't follow the trend. Six, about love

When you get to school, you may notice that there are many handsome guys and beautiful women on campus. Maybe some students envied the university very much when they were in high school, and envied the unrestrained love in the university. When I got to college, the emotional tide that had been suppressed for six years (three years in junior high school and three years in senior high school) suddenly burst its banks and suddenly turned into crazy love to find my other half. Indeed, our agricultural university is beautiful, with flowers, grass and saplings; In spring, when lilacs are in full bloom, the campus is full of flowers, which is a good place for study and love. However, if you fall in love at the moment and can't extricate yourself from flowers, birds, fish and insects, I think you will lose more than your studies! Maybe you will say "money". Indeed, love sometimes needs money to run, but more importantly, time! If the money is gone, you can still earn it back, but can you still make time? What's more, the success rate of Agricultural University is only 5%, and most of them have no results. I am a traditional person. As for love, I think the purpose of love is marriage. If there is no result, the process is meaningless. It's like you studied hard, but you failed in the final exam, so you didn't study. Maybe you will say how meaningless it is. It is a life experience and a beautiful memory. This statement also has some truth. However, do you spend so much time, money and feelings just to experience this experience and this memory? Perhaps the pain of lovelorn is far greater than this experience and this memory.

Have you read romance novels? If you watch more, you will find that most of the protagonists, especially the leading men, are famous families, so we don't have to worry about eating at all. We just have to walk around before and after the flowers, but we are different. We want to eat. To put it mildly, romance novels are art, and art comes from life and is higher than life. Above life, it assumes that the material foundation has been laid, but we are different. We live in reality. In reality, the spirit is based on the material foundation, and the material foundation is based on our own abilities, not like in novels. Love in books does not exist. You may say, I will take good care of her, which is very good and touching, but how will you take care of her? Is it something disgusting like "I love you, you are my sun"? Love needs responsibility and material foundation, not a love letter or a few movie tickets. You might say, I'll give her everything I have. Perhaps the speaker is excited and the listener is moved. I don't doubt the truth of your sentence, but what do you have and what do you give her? Even you don't know. Clothes and pants are all paid for by your family. You have to say, "Dad, give me two dollars." If the price of a haircut goes up one day, you should say, "Dad, give me two more dollars. The price has gone up today. " That's who you are. Who are you to say such a thing? What capital do you have to give your loved ones everything they need? What capital holds up a clear sky for the person you love? You can't sit in front of a broken house. You said "I love you" and she said "I love you". So, you might as well calm down, bury your feelings in your heart and let it be your motivation! Then to struggle, to learn, to accumulate capital. Until one day, you have the capital needed for your love and the qualification for love, you tell her three words buried in your heart for a long time-"I love you!" " ".When you say these three words that have been practiced for thousands of times in that trembling voice, I believe that you have a deeper understanding of love, then your love will be more perfect and sweeter! Instead of following your feelings superficially as you are now.

Finally, I send you a poem: "Drinking wine that is not good enough will not make people intoxicated. I will drink it slowly from the jar with the luster of the harvest season. "