First, this man works hard and is self-motivated. The feeling given to boys since childhood is that they can't afford him. I like to buy everything, and I say I have no money to buy it. At that time, he should realize the importance of money in his heart. It is estimated that they will work hard to earn money and buy things. In their minds, they may be the most reliable only if they earn money by themselves. Only by working hard can they buy what they like and live the life they want. Once this concept is implemented in his mind from an early age, he will be deeply influenced by this concept all his life. No matter what he does, he will work hard, especially self-motivated and have a clear plan for his future. Moreover, because of the poverty of raising a boy, he was asked to do all kinds of things and experience all kinds of things from an early age, and honed his hard-working quality from an early age. In the future, he will be a person who is particularly patient, hardworking and persistent in his work and life. These qualities will accompany him all his life.
The above is a good influence, and of course there is another extreme.
Second, jealousy or inferiority. This is a bad influence, and this influence also has two extremes. One is too self-abased. Because I was brought up in poverty, I have always had nothing and can't afford anything. Looking at others with everything, a comparison will gradually produce personal inferiority because of material inferiority, and you will feel that you can't compete with others anywhere. The other is jealousy, and finally go astray. Because I have nothing, I can easily buy what others want. Over time, I will feel jealous, avoid others, and go astray in order to make myself better.
No matter poor son or rich son, we must master a degree, otherwise it will be counterproductive.