You find that your mind is calmer and you are no longer surprised by many things. You find that your knowledge has soared, and at the same time, your knowledge and understanding of the world have changed dramatically. You find yourself more stable and mature. You can not only "know each other a thousand cups", but also understand and respect differences. You find that in the melting pot of great integration, you are completely different from when you graduated from high school. You can't seem to tell me what's changed and different about yourself.
The socialization of universities is infinitely close to the ultimate perfection of real society, interpersonal relationship, specialty and three views. All of them were completed during college. More importantly, you will experience the taste of freedom in college. This is unmatched by middle school and society.
For example, many people will find that there are few female students who often think in the circle of friends. These students love reading, but they are not limited to all kinds of romance. But like boys, they read famous books, care about history, politics and economy, have good humanistic quality and good artistic taste. If you don't go to college, or the college you attend is too poor, it is basically impossible to have such friends. In a person's life, besides career development, besides eating, drinking and having fun, he needs something to enrich his spiritual life. Meeting like-minded friends in college will benefit you for life.
The meaning lies not in others' telling, but in self-discovery. There is no point in going to college. People are the subject of meaning, and it is in the process of going to college that you give it meaning. The ability to give meaning and the consciousness to give meaning are often acquired after receiving higher education.
For some people, college can't teach you anything, while for some people, college can teach you everything. Because a person's fate is entirely in his own hands, what kind of person you want to be, what kind of life you want to live, and when to make changes in your life are up to you.