The harmonious beauty and joy of college students in a harmonious society are not only reflected in society, but also in the construction of a harmonious society, from peaceful coexistence between individuals and others to making friends. Harmony is about "Noah's Ark" sailing on the boundless sea, not only between people, but also in behavior. An olive leaf symbolizes peace and brings people a sense of security. Just like a bright flower symbolizes beauty, we should learn to be "plum". To be a happy college student, we should not only be happy by ourselves, but also bring happiness to others and pass it on to people we don't know. Try to communicate with me (translated as "communication" or "communication"), which can not only show your charm and Excellence, but also absorb other people's ideas and good habits. In fact, every college student who goes back to school is a blank sheet of paper before entering the society. You can draw the most beautiful patterns on it and write touching words. However, we can be the pen ourselves, and our fate is in our own hands. This is called two-way communication, and it is best to achieve the purpose of understanding and understanding in the process of communication and form a broader range of knowledge. There are "relations", "public opinion" and "image" in the course of public relations, but I think it is unique to integrate the theoretical knowledge in these books into real personal life. There are family members at home, classmates and teachers at school, and leaders and friends in society. Can't say it's not complicated, but like a net, there may be more or less interest disputes in the middle. If these relationships are put on a ball, then the individual is the center of the ball. Surrounded by these relationships, the key to correctly handling these things becomes more important, which requires harmonious coexistence. In terms of public opinion, if history is a mirror, it is precisely their own views and mistakes, which will further improve the cultivation of their outlook on life and values under the guidance of public opinion. But this feeling is a bit big, but it will still have a great impact on us. In the eyes of others, whether you are a positive person or a negative person will have a conclusion. In this respect, public opinion and image will become an inevitable connection. People's "truth, goodness and beauty" and "good and evil" are the views expressed by China people when judging a person's image, instead of "going your own way and letting others speak" as some people say. This seems to be a very philosophical statement, but it is not a very responsible point of view to think about it slowly. Everything we do must conform to the requirements and attitudes of others, and the brain plays a leading role in ourselves. This is just like Marxist materialist dialectical viewpoint, and different cognitive viewpoints and attitudes have different forms. What is the most specific of harmonious social relations? Seeking ambition to dilute the thinking of overseas Chinese? Human relations, the subject of human relations is the individual, that is, ourselves directly. Happiness or unhappiness requires a lot of interpersonal relationships. As the saying goes, "Depend on your parents at home and friends when you go out" to live in peace, and the view that "friends are everywhere" is not quite right. In this respect, we should have a selective relationship, lifelong friends, knee-to-knee talks and mutual trust. Another kind of friend is just a friend. We meet just to say hello, as long as we don't stare at each other. These will all depend on their own personality and psychological characteristics, and it is a good relationship to achieve a non-profit-driven relationship through direct and indirect means. Correctly judging personal social relations is one of the criteria for the happiness of college students. On the premise of combining rational knowledge with perceptual knowledge, we should handle our daily work, study and communication with our own views and attitudes. Some people say that studying in high school is a process of choice. We study hard and choose a school for the college entrance examination. When we enter the university, we will enter the ivory tower, where we can fully enjoy our life. However, only our own psychology can clearly understand our attitude towards entering the university. In a talented society, only money is the standard to measure one's own value, and it is the only standard. Perhaps this statement is a little money worship, but it is all realistic. In the future, money worship will continue to expand. With the development of society, what is the purpose of going to school? Improve your world outlook and values (here refers to your own values). How much I have contributed to the society, the corresponding society will report to me accordingly. It's a little far, but at least it's right. Personality temperament is also the most important point to judge college students. Personality is a way for a person to be steady and behave appropriately. Temperament is a typical and stable psychological characteristic of people, and there is an attitude towards others in the social collective in personality. First of all, being a man and dealing with the world includes integrity and hypocrisy, modesty, caution and arrogance. Consciously, there are decisive and melancholy indecision, calmness and recklessness. Be emotionally generous. Subjective and objective aspects of reason. Generally speaking, it is positive. People's different personalities also show various differences. Temperament and psychological characteristics are linked. It is good for study and life to show your truest side. Everyone's ability is different, and the corresponding position will be different. As college students, they should actively respond to clubs in school, show their beautiful side and enhance their image and influence, which will have a positive impact on their outstanding performance in the future. We will have a bad attitude towards that irrelevant thing, and many aspects will be in a passive situation. Therefore, we should actively show ourselves and show our elegance. Every college student should have a full understanding of himself, so that he can cultivate himself more perfectly in the big pattern of this society. Confucius, a great writer and educator two or two thousand years ago, left a splendid Confucian culture to future generations and taught everything well. Sun Tzu is a great strategist and philosopher. In his works, there are comments on leaders, such as wisdom, faithfulness, benevolence, courage and strictness, which are also very important in today's society. Society chooses talents under such standards. We should approach this area as soon as possible and let ourselves gallop on the road in the future. A person living on a university campus, without the guidance and care of his parents and the restrictions of others, can easily become sloppy and lead to bad consequences. It becomes very important to make a plan for yourself. However, we don't intend to finish the task. We often do our homework today and put off the laundry tomorrow, which forms a bad habit and is difficult to get rid of. There is a saying in the internal management of Haier Group that "what can be done today will never be put off until tomorrow". But only in this way can Haier's glory be today, and the myth that enterprises are invincible in rapid development can be cast. Therefore, we should also have a good plan and stick to it to become a qualified college student. Serving others may not be a good topic in today's society, but we can still win it ourselves. For example, join the ranks of young volunteers, do some good things for others, pick up garbage in party schools and so on. Improving one's self-cultivation will at least leave good behavior for one's own, which is also very helpful for finding a job in the future. Learn self-esteem, self-love and self-control. You should not only abide by social norms and laws, but also respect others. If you don't give others the least respect, others won't respect you. Take the overall situation into consideration and seek harmony, harmony between people and between people and society. Learn all kinds of etiquette and show your self-confidence and self-improvement with your own practice. Join the society to meet the new baptism and be a happy college student. Analysis of college students' stress under the background of harmonious society: College students are not only a special group bearing high expectations of their parents, but also a special group bearing high expectations of society. This "special group" is quite universal in terms of subjective wishes such as eventually becoming talents and embodying self-worth. But in recent years, there have been some worrying negative phenomena in domestic universities, which are not common but not uncommon: depression, hesitation, anxiety, paranoia and fragility, so there have been some retired scholars, some retired scholars and some suicides ... These extraordinary problems not only affect the healthy growth of college students, but also run counter to the basic spirit of building a "harmonious society". The pressure of college students' growth ■ The pressure of the times. Today, the world is in the information age of knowledge explosion. No matter who is not careful, they will fall behind the surging information tide. College students are a special group between mature and immature, independent and not independent. The specific background of the times makes them bear more acute challenges: on the one hand, they must work hard to complete their studies at school, and at the same time, they should be concerned about whether the knowledge they have learned can meet the needs of the future; On the one hand, we must master the most basic professional knowledge, but also have the basic quality of acquiring new knowledge in the information age; On the one hand, we should have innovative consciousness and ability, and at the same time, we should shape a sound personality that can be integrated into a harmonious society. Such high expectations will inevitably bring them psychological tension and pressure. ■ Life stress The so-called life stress mainly comes from two aspects: 1. Economic pressure. The cost of students' schooling generally comes from their families. Due to the development of society and the change of living standards in recent years, the cost of universities has increased significantly. Especially for students from poor areas. In some poverty-stricken areas, there is even a phenomenon that "high school students drag down the whole family and college students drag down the whole family". This will cause greater pressure on poor students who have not yet earned their own living. 2. Self-care and self-discipline pressure. Nowadays, most college students are only children, and they have been influenced by the baton of "College Entrance Examination" since childhood. Learning is everything, and they have long neglected the basic life skills that ordinary people should have. Therefore, many people lack the ability of self-care and self-discipline, and many people are not or are not good at living independently and interacting with others. Faced with setbacks and new environment, they often lack the corresponding self-regulation ability, thus forming the stressors of these college students. ■ Learning pressure Learning is the most basic task for college students. Although the intensity of this pressure is moderate, it is not eternal, but its influence cannot be underestimated because of its long duration. In particular, many college students must further create conditions and make further efforts to meet the needs of fierce social competition. They either struggle for postgraduate entrance examination, postgraduate entrance examination, postgraduate entrance examination, postgraduate entrance examination and postgraduate entrance examination, or attend training courses of various skills in order to obtain various "certificates". Too many study clues and heavy study tasks have brought great pressure to college students. ■ An important feature of employment pressure in today's era is the intensification of competition: job competition, job competition, survival of the fittest, and inappropriate elimination. The whole society is in fierce competition. In this context, the continuous enrollment expansion for many years has already increased the intensity of employment competition for college students. As a large number of rural surplus labor force poured into cities, especially a large number of laid-off workers appeared in cities, the employment problem became more acute. Especially in the units where college students and graduate students choose jobs (foreign-funded enterprises, institutions of higher learning, scientific research institutions, party and government organs) and in the areas where they choose jobs (Beijing, Shanghai, developed coastal areas), the grim situation of "thousands of troops crossing the single-plank bridge" has gradually emerged. Employment has become a topic of general concern for college students, and it is also the main source of stress for college students. Efforts should be made to create an ideal space to relieve the pressure of college students. To relieve the pressure of college students, we should start from both subjective and objective aspects. Ignoring any aspect will not have any effect in the end. ■ Strengthen the education of college students' outlook on life and values and lay a solid foundation for healthy growth. College students are at the beginning of wet experience in age, and they are a group with low maturity and strong plasticity. From freshman enrollment to graduation assignment, there is not only a lot of work to be done, but also a thorough grasp of the correct outlook on life and values. For example, in order to guide students to set lofty goals in life and clarify their historical mission, it is necessary to hold a series of lectures on typical social figures and deeds frequently to enhance students' sense of social responsibility; In view of the hot and difficult issues that college students are generally concerned about, we should carry out ideal and belief education to stimulate students' learning motivation. ■ Provide a good environment and cultivate comprehensive quality. China's socialist construction in 2 1 century needs a large number of high-quality compound talents. In order to meet this demand, colleges and universities must completely change the traditional education model. That is to say, we must change the previous education mode of imparting knowledge and cultivating ability into an education that pays attention to the coordinated development of knowledge, ability and quality, that is, into a comprehensive quality education that pays equal attention to science education and humanistic quality education; Higher education must learn from each other's strong points in teaching, arouse students' enthusiasm and create an innovative educational environment. Let college students increase their knowledge, enhance their talents and develop their personality healthily through corresponding learning activities in a relatively relaxed cultural atmosphere. ■ Adjust professional settings in time to actively adapt to social needs. In recent years, colleges and universities have made great efforts in curriculum setting. After continuous adjustment and improvement, many schools have formed four forms: public basic courses, professional basic courses, professional courses and public elective courses. This change is of great practical significance for bidding farewell to the simplistic and fragmented educational model in the old days and cultivating a large number of compound high-quality talents for contemporary society. However, science curriculum is a complex project, which can't be accomplished overnight. There are still many problems in the current curriculum, which need to be continuously improved and perfected in teaching practice. ■ Effectively solve the life difficulties of college students, especially poor college students. It is a common phenomenon that poor students appear in China University. Most of these students come from poor rural areas or poor mountainous areas, and their living standards are generally lower than the local poverty line. Because there is almost no economic source, life is extremely difficult, and tuition fees have become a heavy burden for them. In order to help these college students complete their studies, many provinces and cities have taken various measures, such as awards, loans, assistance, tuition fee reduction, special difficulties subsidies, "green channels" and so on. However, due to the large number and difficulty of this poor army, it is still impossible to fundamentally lift all students out of poverty. Fundamentally speaking, poor students originate from the national conditions in the primary stage of socialism in China. Solving this problem fundamentally is by no means an expedient measure, but a long-term work that needs great attention. ■ Strive to do a good job in employment guidance for college students. College graduates are the precious wealth of the country. They are not only an important resource in human resources, but also a permanent driving force to promote social development. However, finding a job after graduation has not only become the most concerned problem for college students in recent years, but also the pressure they are most worried about. The difficulty in obtaining employment is of course related to the objective factors that some talent demand markets are shrinking or close to saturation, and it is also related to the fact that the types and regions of college students' job hunting are too concentrated-almost concentrated in the same unit and region. Can such competition not be fierce? The solution to the employment problem is a systematic project, which requires the cooperation of all parties. Among them, in addition to higher education itself, it is necessary to further deepen the teaching reform, which requires not only the correct policy orientation of higher authorities (such as formulating preferential policies to encourage college graduates to "move west" and "move down" and apply for jobs independently), but also the establishment of a more reasonable and efficient employment guidance mechanism, and more importantly, the need for college students to change the simple employment model in the past and go to places where their life values can be realized best. In the final analysis, first, the job market needs to be further improved, and second, college students need to further adapt to the social job market.