Speaking of social fear, it is actually a very mysterious thing. In the past, you were cheerful and generous, but after entering the society, you became the spokesman of social fear.
People who have never experienced social fear must laugh it off, but those who have experienced social fear feel that they have spoken their minds.
In order to serve customers, society does not dare to force itself to participate in everyone's chat, but it will also encounter many problems, such as trying to pick up the other person's topic but finding that it has been changed to the next topic, and the jokes told are still very embarrassing.
In order to appear gregarious, Lian Xiao always depends on when others laugh, so as to grasp the timing and rhythm. After several attempts, he was exhausted physically and mentally and just wanted to hide in the toilet to ease his mood.
Ordinary people will never understand how difficult it is to be afraid of society. People with social barriers have to work many times harder than others if they want to chat with others normally.
I have to say, in order to overcome social fear, I really made a lot of efforts.
People who are afraid of social activities tend to think too much and get hurt in social activities, which makes them afraid of social activities. If you have such a person around you, please give her more tolerance and help her go further on the road of overcoming social fears.