1. It takes time to fall in love, which affects your studies.
Many people think that the study life of college students is very easy, and I have a lot of time to control myself. If I knew the life of college students, I wouldn't think so. Professional study, subject competition, experiment, social practice, preparing for college exams, etc. They are all important things before college students, and they all take time to complete. If you fall in love in college, it is not only your own business, but also time. For college students, love is secondary. If you leave some thoughts to fall in love, it will inevitably affect your study. In the eyes of college students, learning is still the first. To fall in love and affect your study is like "losing watermelon and picking up sesame seeds".
College love is a formality, and the result cannot be changed.
How many couples who fall in love in college finally make a positive result? Although I don't know the exact data, after graduating from college, there are not a few lovers who broke up because of work and foreign land. Many college students have long realized that falling in love in college is an excessive act. Even if it looks beautiful, it will give people a special sadness when they finally leave, which is also a big reason why many people are "single dog".
3. The ability to resist pressure is very weak, and I am worried that I will be hurt after breaking up.
In real life, many people are not very psychologically strong. Once their feelings are opened, they will devote themselves wholeheartedly. However, their feelings are complicated and unpredictable. Last month, I loved it to death. Next month, I will leave coldly. If we break up after falling in love, it will affect my mood and state. As a student, my social experience is insufficient, and many people's psychology is not strong enough to accept the betrayal of their partners. This is one of the reasons why many people don't want to fall in love.