Love is not vanity, which was originally a very simple proposition, but many college students will make this common-sense mistake. Many people think it is a great honor to find a school flower, a tie flower or a handsome Hanamichi Sakuragi class. Others feel humiliated when they see that their classmates are in love, but they are single. They secretly make up their minds to find a couple to save their dignity. Falling in love and interacting with girls (boys) are two different things, but you can only know one person when falling in love, and interacting with girls (boys) will make you know many people, so it's not that falling in love can make you know more. Although love is not a compulsory course for college students, it is not a forbidden area in universities. In fact, the seeds of love are the easiest to germinate and bloom during college, and there will be better results. And college students will be more pure than entering the society to fall in love. However, have you ever considered economic issues when you fell in love in college? Maybe your family conditions are relatively rich, but they are all hard-earned money of your parents. Do you feel guilty when you spend it? This should remind people who fall in love in college that they must be independent, otherwise love will bring you more pain and disadvantages. People who fall in love in college must be independent, otherwise falling in love will bring you more pain and disadvantages. College students' love is an optional course, not a compulsory course. The so-called elective course means that it's up to you to decide whether to take it or not. You can make your own choices, and no one will force you. It is true that not falling in love in college is an experience, and an experience is somewhat regrettable, but imagine what elective courses offered by the university are worthless and meaningful? But not everyone chooses courses that have not landed? Everyone has his most important thing at the moment, but not everyone is in love. Then, when love conflicts with other classes, there will naturally be different choices. Moreover, laying the foundation for later life does not have to be done through love. Normal communication with the opposite sex, positive attitude towards life and tolerant attitude can bring happiness to the future marriage and family. The prevalence of love in universities is the need of college students' growth, but it has always been a serious problem that we should face seriously. Love or not is a free choice, but we are responsible for ourselves. Emotional things are unpredictable. "I was lucky, but I wasn't killed." There's no need to try. The important thing is to constantly improve yourself in recent years so that your romantic love can stand the wind and rain. The reason why I take college love as an elective course is that college students' world outlook, values and outlook on life are not yet finalized, and they are full of feelings, fragile in reason and impulsive. Hastily falling in love before deeply understanding the meaning and essence of love, the pursuit of love is often too idealistic, and it is difficult to conclude pure and perfect love. Personally, I think there is a problem that has been hit by failure. Some students regard college lovers as short-term partners and break up after graduation, which is not serious. Even if some people are really lovelorn, they can laugh it off and not indulge in it. However, some students attach great importance to feelings. Once lovelorn, people often "lose their manners" and "lose their will", unable to extricate themselves and suffering. In such an emotional whirlpool, personal rationality is so pale and powerless. Such a tree of love is not evergreen, but may bear bitter fruit. Sweet love is like wine, but if you drink too much, you will become addicted and often get "drunk and don't know where to go". Young men and women, intimate, a day of sight, such as across Sanqiu. Once his lover is not around, he will fidget, miss tea and rice, stay awake at night and be in a trance, which will seriously affect his normal study and life. But don't forget that you are a student and your major is not love. It's just a newspaper, a novel and an essay. College students don't necessarily learn to get along with the opposite sex when they fall in love. Getting along with the opposite sex includes many aspects, but falling in love is only an emotional matter and can only provide experience for falling in love again in the future. After graduation, everyone rushes for life, and their love concept and value orientation will change. It is definitely not enough to cope with the "naive" concept of love in college. In any case, learning is still the main task of college students, and there is no need to make plans for future marriage too early. Therefore, during college, there is no need to feel sorry for not falling in love, and the road ahead is still very long; There is no need to be complacent when you are in love. It's just a coincidence. Just like a beautiful essay, some people feel honored to read it, while others don't have to regret it for life. After all, not everyone has the opportunity to appreciate beautiful prose, so let everything go with the flow. If you can find someone from two of a kind in college, and both of them have enough confidence and courage to face the difficulties and challenges in the future, it is not impossible but necessary to fall in love. Although love is only an elective course, why not take this credit seriously when it comes to results? ! !