In recent years, there have often been some dormitories, that is, a dormitory, and they have all been admitted to prestigious schools after graduating from college; However, it has not been reported that some dormitory members have failed their courses, which makes graduation difficult.
Dormitory is an environment where everyone gets along day and night, which has a great influence on each other. I remember when I was in college, I used to communicate with my roommate. I said, whether you like it or not, when we graduate from college, each of us will have the shadow of other members of our dormitory.
To get along with roommates, we need to grasp two principles. First, if you are with others, try to respect their living habits and try not to disturb others' rest. For example, if someone needs to go to bed early at night, then it can be agreed that the dormitory should turn off the lights in advance, and others should try their best to be quiet.
Another principle is self-centeredness, that is, don't deliberately cater to others. He has his habits, you have your habits. You should cultivate the ability of independent thinking and action in college. If your roommates are playing games every day and you want to learn something, you don't have to cater to them and play games with them just to get along. You should teach yourself. But under this condition, you should handle your own mentality, and never have a superior mentality, which may cause your roommate to dislike you.
If you are free at ordinary times, you can actively participate in group activities in the dormitory. For example, if someone has a birthday, everyone will go out for dinner, eat together and sing karaoke; I have delicious food and learn to share it with my roommates. One can't only deal with like-minded people forever. We learn to meet all kinds of people. Learning to get along with people with different living habits and hobbies is the proper meaning of a university.
Respect other people's living habits, but also maintain the independence of their own thoughts and behaviors, which is the principle that should be followed when getting along with roommates or other people.