1. Express goodwill
On the first day of school, you can bring some hometown specialties to the dormitory to share, and quickly narrow the distance between roommates.
I still remember that every time we start school, we will add an expectation to the school by sharing Hainan coconut cake, Hangzhou glutinous rice lotus root and Anji Lei bamboo shoots.
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When you meet for the first time, try to get along with your roommates, talk more and make jokes, and the relationship will be close.
3. Collective action
As a freshman, your roommate is the first classmate you know after entering the university. Everyone is still unfamiliar with the campus. Working together as partners can help them adapt to college life more quickly. If we can get together for dinner, it will be faster to get familiar with a black meeting.
Running-in period
4. Getting to know your roommate for the first time
In the process of chatting and communicating, observe and understand the roommate's personality, conduct, living habits, values, bottom line principle and so on. This makes it clear who you can be friends with and how to get along more harmoniously with everyone.
Step 5 make a gentleman's agreement in advance
A few days before school starts, we can discuss the agreement of getting along with each other in the future when we just know each other. For example, how to divide the cleaning work, how to adapt to each other's living habits, how to share the daily expenses fairly, and so on. It's all about three chapters, and even drafting a dormitory convention. It is better to make a gentleman's agreement in advance than to quarrel afterwards.
Looking for fellow travelers
In the process of chatting, we can learn about roommates' hobbies and college goals, and find like-minded friends to work together and make progress together.
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7. include
College students come from all corners of the country and have different living habits, family backgrounds and values. We should accept everyone's differences and seek common ground while reserving differences.
The world is not either one or the other, black or white, which is also the first lesson to be learned in universities.
8. Share
When you get along with your roommates, you can share your life and mood appropriately, but don't tell others all your family background before you become close.
9. Friend or foe
Don't be prejudiced against your roommate when you start school, and don't judge a person by his first impression. Get along more, get to know more, and then judge a person.
10. Ways of speaking
When chatting in the dormitory, try not to offend people, and don't take low emotional intelligence as true temperament. And don't talk about your absent roommate. No one knows from whom you will hear your conversation.
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I was unfamiliar with the school when I first started school. I'd better get along with my roommate. In this way, you can know the news notice of the school at the first time. But you don't have to do everything with your roommate. If you have an idea, you can go to the library to participate in school activities alone. Don't mess with your roommate.
12 is equal
When getting along with roommates, you don't have to feel inferior because of family reasons, but don't show off. We are all classmates, just getting along on an equal footing. At the same time, we should also pay attention to protecting personal property and privacy habits.
Living habits—
13. Do not disturb.
When playing mobile phone computer in the dormitory, try to use headphones, or adjust the volume to a level that will not affect others. After turning off the lights, don't make loud phone calls and turn on the lights for a long time, which will affect others' rest.
14. Give and take.
Try not to take advantage of others. If you really want to use your roommate's things, remember to ask for permission in advance. Roommates come and go. If you eat other people's food or snacks, remember to share your things with others in the future.
15. Financial relationship
The financial relationship between roommates should be sorted out at the first time, for example, someone brings you a meal or has a meal together, and settle accounts as soon as possible afterwards (the same is true for others who owe you money).
16. Pay attention to personal hygiene
The dormitory is not your home, so pay attention to personal hygiene. Keep your area clean, don't litter, and remember to open the window for ventilation when eating food with strong smell.
17. You come and I go
Getting along with roommates is a preview before entering the society: people don't have to care too much about getting along with each other, and it is a process of pulling relationships between you and me. But if you are always the one who pays, you must refuse in time and don't be a good person.
18. Separate
If you really can't get along with your roommate, you don't have to force yourself. Find your own comfortable lifestyle and learn to be excellent in solitude. Students outside the dormitory can also be your choice.