Studying in high school, simple-minded. If I think I get along well with you, I will make friends with you. If I don't get along with you, I'll play with each other. Once you really become friends, the relationship is unusual. I occasionally skip class, laugh in class, steal vegetables and even go to the toilet hand in hand.
These will all become beautiful memories and enhance friendship. Some people will talk about their grievances. Now I think that high school is really wonderful!
I didn't know what the world was like until I got to college. This is a small society, not just talk. Everyone has his own abacus. Once there is a conflict of interest, there will be no classmate friendship.
Now a sophomore, there is basically no intersection with other students in class. In class, everyone sits together in the dormitory, and no one needs to know anyone. Generally speaking, I have a good relationship with my roommates, but no matter how good it is, it is not as good as a person who patiently tells you questions in high school.
I remember when I first entered the university, I heard a sentence: "High school is a high school for a group of people, and the university is a university for one person." Many students feel unprecedented loneliness only when they go to college. At this stage, they will miss their high school friends very much.
A study by the University of Kansas in the United States shows that adults need to invest precious time in making friends. It takes about 90 hours to become friends from strangers and about 200 hours to become close friends. Life in junior high school and senior high school is really a typical group life. Boys and girls even eat in groups and go to the toilet in groups.
So in general, being bored with each other every day can certainly cultivate feelings. It's different when you go to college. Everyone has their own busy things, and there is little time to get along. Sometimes people in a dormitory seldom meet each other. It's a bit difficult to cultivate true feelings.