First, why do you want to set goals? (Importance of goals)
1. Born Tracy put forward that success equals goals.
2. Liang Kaien: If you don't have a happy goal in life, pain will make use of it.
3. The double sorrow of life (1) The goal is not achieved (2) After the goal is achieved, stop.
The motivation of life comes from long-term goals. Goals and blueprints determine our fate and results.
Your story comes from the difficulties and challenges you met in the process of achieving your goals. The greater your difficulties and challenges, the more colorful your life story will be.
Second, how to set goals?
1. Set yourself 10 1 Goals from 10 aspects (1) Health: 10 (2) Family: 10 (3) Interpersonal relationship:/. Be specific. (4) Occupation: What kind of person do you want to be in a certain field, and how do you do it? (5) Travel around the world: 10 goal (6) Investment and financial management: 10 goal. (7) Leader: 10(8) Material: 10. What do you want to buy? For example, buy an Apple mobile phone, buy a house and a car, Lv bag (9) Thanksgiving (10) Submission: 10 (10 people miss most).
Write down your goals.
When you write down your goals, the universe will equip you with all the manpower and financial resources you need.
3. Be sure to set impressive and incredible goals.
Each of us comes to this world only once and lives only once. If you don't toss at this time, then you will never want to toss.
4. Set the four conditions that the goal needs to meet.
(1) Have a boiling passion: the pattern is bigger. Small plans have no exciting power, so there is no desire and desire. You will give up, because this is not what you want at all.
(2) There are calculable scales. A goal without standards is not a goal, but a scale and a deadline must be added. For example, a book was published in a certain year and sold 50 thousand copies. Construction workers can carry out construction with blueprints because there are detailed figures on them.
(3) There must be a deadline.
Anthony robbins said: "There are no unreasonable goals, only unreasonable deadlines! Don't overestimate what you can do in one year, but don't underestimate what you can do in ten years! "
Goals without deadlines are an illusion. Your deadline is determined after careful consideration. You must do your best to finish it within the time limit.
(4) Make a long-term plan.
"The degree of your desire is the only limit in your life." In the process of achieving your goal, the degree of your desire is your only limit. What are you thinking now that will determine your future?
Buffett set a 50-year goal at the age of 85, and the blueprint should not be limited by age.
6. Yu said in New Oriental: People live three lives, life, life and mission.
7. There are a group of people in life who study while others are sleeping, act when others are procrastinating, act when others are waiting, listen when others are talking, and persist when others give up.
8. Give up ineffective socialization and meaningless choices.
An old Japanese proverb says: without vision, everything is fantasy; Without action, everything is a nightmare. Your desire is the only limit in your life.
One: Health
1: Walk or run 6 kilometers every other day, with a minimum of 100 kilometers per month, and release screenshots of this week's running every Sunday.
2. Get up before 5.20 every morning (completed before 2018-10) and get up before 4.20 every morning after 20 19- 1.
You must walk more than 10000 steps every day.
Drink a glass of water on an empty stomach every morning.
5. Have a physical examination once a year.
6: 2065438+The weight should be controlled within 70kg before February 29th, 2008.
7: Every meal is only 8 minutes full, and you must eat less or no food or just a little fruit for dinner.
8: Be sure to have a full breakfast.
9. Don't eat ice cream, eat little or no fried food, eat junk food, eat less sugar (sugar can make people suffer from diabetes, cancer and obesity), and never drink beer.
10. Tomorrow10; Go to bed before 30: 00, and go to bed at once in the morning 1: 00, and never stay up late.
1 1. Organize once a day, 10 minutes.
Two: career
1. Annual income 1 ten thousand (before February 2022)
2.? [endif] Xunyuan put into production (20 18- 12- 1)
3.? [endif] Read 20 pages of economic books every day, 10 pages of time management, 10 pages of other books.
4.? [endif] Read about 20 pages of professional design books every day.
5.? [endif] Take notes after each design class.
6.? [endif] Review all the notes once every half month.
7.? [endif] Reflection and Accumulation —— Talking about the ways and skills of customers
8.? [endif] Sales learning and training.
9.? [endif] Set up your own environmental protection housekeeper fine management consulting and sales company, if you can do it for life. Work is both life and life is also work. (2022- 10)
10.? [endif] Make two more friends every month.
Three: contact
1: Know the courtesy and shame. Stick to the right path! Friends encourage and persuade each other.
Read more autobiographies of some great men and learn the way they treat people.
3. Stay away from people with low quality and self-cultivation, handle your emotions well when encountering things, and don't be emotional!
4. Spend more time with people with positive energy and ability, and learn their cultivation and ways of doing things. Associate with people who keep their word.
Don't associate with unfilial and dishonest people.
6: Don't associate with people who gamble, get involved in pornography and lie.
7. Don't associate with chatterboxes, people who are always funny, and people who are full of negative complaints about society.
8: Never swear.
9. Study hard, learn knowledge, constantly improve your self-cultivation and cultural level, and be a literate, quality, cultivated and capable person. When your work and connections shine, money will naturally flow to you!
10: Make friends with people with positive energy, learn their advantages, the advantages of being a man and doing things, their way of thinking and vision, and their mode of being a man. In short, learn all the good things. Improve yourself and make yourself better every day.
Four: family
1: I call my parents every day. My parents are old and worried about our work and life. Don't worry them.
2. inherit the wind. Parents must not blame them for doing something wrong. They often do something wrong and put themselves in others' shoes. Listen patiently when you call, don't have any emotions, and listen carefully to what they like to say.
3. Communicate with my sister through WeChat to learn about Jin Peng and their business.
4. Read more books to educate children and listen to courseware to educate children. Parents' education is greater than all external education, and the level of educating children is improved. Let her go less wrong and unnecessary detours after entering the society.
5. Take your daughter to some adventurous places in a planned way, broaden your horizons, increase your confidence and increase your courage. Create a good spiritual life.
6. Dealing with the relationship between husband and wife, a good family and a good career can be good.
7. Hard work brings a better material life to the family.
Five: Travel
1: domestic tourism is once a year.
2: Take my daughter to travel abroad once in 2020, and then go abroad once every two years.
From 3 o'clock in 2020, take your parents out for a trip once a year.
Six: investment and financial management
1: repay the mortgage on time every month and pay social security every month.
2. In 2020, the annual deposit shall be no less than 200,000, increasing year by year.
Set up a savings account for your daughter and save some money every month.
Lay a good economic foundation for starting your own company in the future.
Seven: material
1: Well-dressed, inexpensive but fit, clean and tidy, but there must always be several big brands of clothes.
3. Take it well: a man's belt and watch are symbols, as long as he likes them, but they should be decent.
4. Use well: use good quality daily necessities for health.
5. Eat well: meet the needs of the stomach regularly. Once a month.
6. Finish a plan at a time and reward yourself with a favorite item.
At 7 o'clock in 2020, I will drive a Mercedes-Benz or Land Rover SUV.
Before 8:40, I want to buy a villa for myself and my parents.
Try to buy a house for my nephew before 9:40.
Eight: Leadership
1: Don't worry about studying. Learn some books or listen to books on leadership in advance, so that you can have professional knowledge in this field in advance and reserve it.
2. Adjust your emotions. A abusive and bad-tempered leader will not be recognized and liked by the following employees.
3. Increase your professional knowledge and improve your professional level.
4. Put yourself in others' shoes, understand their difficulties and situations, use influence instead of strength, communicate emotionally, have affinity, and don't bully others on it.
5. Set an example in everything, and be the power of example.
6. Work is work, not friends during work.
7. Do what you don't want others to do.
Nine: Gratitude
1: gratitude is easy to do. A group of energetic partners, near Zhu Zhechi.
2. Be grateful for your daughter's happiness.
3. Thank parents for taking care of their children.
4. Appreciate the help of colleagues at work.
Ten: contribution
1: Don't be kind, don't be evil, have good thoughts.
2. Small acts of kindness can still help. Donate money to people who are easy to raise in the circle of friends.
3. Help as easily as possible. You need to lend a helping hand on the road.
4. Don't do anything annoying and incorrect.
5. Help friends solve problems in their work and life, but you can't be a good teacher to avoid making people sick.
6. Help your family to do what they can.