After entering the university, if you get rid of the discipline and bondage of your parents, two people will be more free and more real together, so you will get so deeply involved in this relationship that you forget yourself. So, how can we get rid of this dilemma?

First of all, you should believe in fate. Maybe you like each other very much, but it is doomed to be in vain. There's nothing to be reluctant to part with. Maybe separation is the best choice. Remember: the road you take, the things you pass by, the people you meet and the regrets you leave behind are all to be experienced. Right and wrong are involuntary, gathering and parting are involuntary, and there is no need to be sad. Everyone has his own destiny. Secondly, time will tell. No matter how obsessed you are with someone, you can't stand time. Who cares when you feel bad? Be yourself and live a good life. There must be something better waiting for you. Finally, we should have an optimistic attitude. What is more regrettable than loving but not being together is that you broke up when you were together. You've been together, and it's enough to have good memories. The adult world needs dignity and liberation!