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Can college roommates be real friends?
? In my opinion, the probability of college roommates becoming real friends is very high for the following reasons:

? First, the friendship between classmates and roommates is really hard to get. College roommates, who are both their classmates and live under the same roof, are double fates. Who can say it's not rare? In the vast sea of people, it is already a deep fate to become alumni and classmates. If you can live in a room again, it is estimated that you will have to look back more than 800 times in your last life before changing it. Since such a deep fate, we have no reason not to cherish it. On the basis of cherishing each other, it is easy to become sincere friends.

? Second, getting to know each other in the best years is conducive to the cultivation of feelings. When we were in college, most of us were around 18 years old, and many of us were studying in a different place for the first time. When people's feelings are so simple and dependent, it is particularly easy to make friends. Especially roommates who have been together since freshman year, four years together will be very beautiful. These four years are the most carefree, simple and beautiful time in life. Everyone is a blank sheet of paper, and if people around us smear it, we will also accept it gladly. Even after that, when we step into the society and start to change, we will still miss that simple self and classmates. Seeing my former roommate is like seeing my younger self.

Third, there is no major interest dispute. If you want to be a sincere friend, you must have no big conflict of interest. Roommates compete for at most one scholarship, which is also based on grades. There's no need for intrigue, it's life and death. As long as there is no big interest dispute, the probability of naturally becoming true friends is much higher.

So in my opinion, as long as we cherish each other and get along well, college roommates can basically become real friends.