You never know where you will be in three to five years and who will be by your side. At that time, you may even laugh at how sad, regretful and helpless you are about losing the principle of love.
1, don't fall in love for the sake of falling in love during college. I hope every time you fall in love, it's because of two of a kind, not because you want to fall in love or feel lonely. Love is not a compulsory course in college, but your diploma is a necessity! Let it develop naturally.
There are many interesting things in college. Love is not a compulsory course, but you need it in your future. Don't waste youth. You can be together if you have the right one. If there is no suitable one, there can be a great university.
2. If you like someone, don't shrink back. Confession may fail, and it may be painful after failure, but don't be afraid and think too much. This does not mean that you are not good, nor does it mean that others are blindly calm. Let go and make room for another person who loves you.
3. Be together and cherish it. Don't do it after being together. Everyone is the treasure of their parents, and their hearts are long. He is nice to you not because you are awesome, but because he likes you. Don't listen to things on the Internet. I don't love you if I don't buy you anything. I don't love you if I don't do anything for you. Don't listen to those love chicken soup, it's poisonous!
4. Love is not a unilateral effort. One day, the other party's unilateral contribution will exhaust Ta's energy, and your unilateral contribution will raise a vampire who doesn't know how to repay.
5, boys are not omnipotent! He is an ordinary person like you, don't mess with others!
6. When you meet a so-called straight man, don't just complain that others don't understand you. They still think we girls have strange ideas. The best way is to communicate, communicate well and communicate effectively! Absolute communication Qian Qian, really not let him fuck off!
7. If a relationship makes you terrible, then calm down and think about whether this relationship is still meaningful.
8. The above does not mean that girls should be condescending and cater to boys! You are also the baby of your parents. Be kind to yourself, don't be carried away by love and sweet words! You have to believe that you are not the first in the world, but at least you are unique in the world!
9. The most important point! Protect yourself! Not just physically!
10, if you have the idea of getting married, respect your parents' ideas. This may not be a suggestion. Most parents are imperfect parents, and most of them still love their children deeply and protect and care for them in their own way.
In this life, you should learn how to love yourself and others. Your selfless dedication is irresponsible to yourself and to love. Loving oneself is a kind of personality independence. Love yourself before you love others, really.