Many children yearn for college time, because going to college means they can stay away from their parents and never have to be disciplined by them again. College time also means the beginning of children's independence.

After going to college, besides studying, the most important thing is the children's living expenses. Some parents are afraid to give too much for fear that their children will spend money indiscriminately, but some parents are "generous" and transfer thousands of dollars to their children every month.

It is even more pitiful for those children who have less living expenses. Children should not only live carefully, but also ask their parents for "living expenses" if unexpected expenses occur, not to mention how sad they are.

Therefore, even if they leave their parents, college students should know how to "please" their parents, otherwise they are likely to have no food.

In order to ask parents for money, children can be said to have used "eighteen martial arts." Because they can't go home directly, children will ask their parents for living expenses on chat tools, so expression packs have become the first choice for children to ask for money.

The expression pack of the college student below looks cute, but his parents are so rude. The child sent his father an expression pack with an empty wallet, and the parents said they didn't understand it at all. A question mark makes the child not know what to do.

The child may be thinking in his heart, is it so obvious that he can't see it, and parents can only pretend not to understand, which is also helpless.

This college student's expression pack is very useful. She sent a bowl directly to her father, which read "Be kind" and soon arrived.

And those college students who can talk and coquetry are deeply loved by their parents. Everyone likes to hear compliments from others, and parents are no exception. So the following college students come directly to praise, and the living expenses will soon be available.

For those children who spend their living expenses quickly, they either spend too fast, don't know how to manage money, don't know how to plan their own money, or the living expenses are really not enough.

Therefore, parents should let their children learn how to manage money before they go to college. Many children have no concept of financial management, mainly because they have no concept of money since childhood. Parents buy them this and that, so it is also a good thing to give their children pocket money.

Many parents worry that their children spend money indiscriminately when they are young, but they never think that when they grow up, once they start to master pocket money or make money by themselves, it will be easier to buy things casually. In addition to living expenses, freshmen should also pay attention to the following issues.

* Learn to let go and make children more independent.

Now that the child has gone to college, parents should learn to let go, let the child face difficulties in college and learn how to get along with roommates and teachers.

Many children find it difficult to adapt to the new environment when they grow up, and college is also a challenge for children. Parents should know how to let their children face these independently, and children always experience some setbacks in their growth.

* Know how to properly participate in children's college life, and don't ignore it.

Letting parents let go does not mean completely quitting their children's lives. Parents should know how to help their children occasionally. When they encounter difficulties, they should encourage their children more and be their biggest backer.

Support children's choices, let them live a colorful life in college, never take care of all their affairs, and it is more important to learn to guide them.

* Communicate with children more and observe their psychological changes.

Now that children have grown up, parents should learn how to communicate with their children, stop treating them as children, and communicate with them in an adult way to bring them a correct view of right and wrong and values.

Moreover, parents should always pay attention to the psychological changes of college students. Some college students may not be able to adapt to the new environment for a while, so they have some negative psychology. At this time, parents should know how to untie their children's hearts.

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I hope parents can treat their children well and help them find the direction of life and become a valuable person.

Today's topic: How to ask parents for living expenses?