College is very different from high school. There is no teacher's supervision in study, and there is no careful care from parents in life. Whether studying or living, you can only rely on yourself. Everyone is the apple of my parents' eye. It is normal that this kind of life is difficult to adapt to for a while. You may feel very tired at first, but after you get used to it, you will feel that this life is actually very fulfilling.
Second, I don't get along well with my roommate.
In the dormitory, not as good as at home. I have a lot of things to do every day, especially when I get along with my roommates. Because of personal living habits and personality differences, it is inevitable that there will be some conflicts, which will lead to estrangement between them. If there are contradictions, try to avoid disputes, and it is best to calm down and talk calmly, empathize and understand each other, which is conducive to the harmony of dormitory relations. If it is because of some living habits, we can discuss and formulate dormitory behavior norms together, and everyone can abide by them together, which can avoid many unpleasant things.
Thirdly, I want to know whether I should join a student organization.
Some students don't know whether they should join student organizations, such as student unions and mass organizations, or whether they should run for class cadres. In fact, this kind of student organization does not need to "participate", so you don't need to struggle. Freshman wants to participate in more activities and accumulate some experience, so he can boldly register and try. Joining such an organization can exercise your personal ability well. But if you are more inclined to lay a solid foundation of professional knowledge and learn the contents of professional courses better in the future, then you don't have to attend. You can spend more time reading in the library or improve your learning ability and level by other means.
Fourth, how to arrange your life.
It is normal to feel confused when you are a freshman because you don't understand college life. Don't feel too anxious. You can set a small goal first, make a short-term plan according to this small goal, and arrange your life according to the plan. For example, what exams you pass, what prizes you win and what competitions you participate in, in the process of constantly achieving small goals, your university can not only gain a lot, but also enrich itself.
Fifth, do you want to do it yourself?
After some students feel confused, they begin to follow suit, such as following suit for textual research, following suit for postgraduate entrance examination, and following suit for community activities, regardless of whether it really suits them or whether they really need it. Long-term blindly following the trend will not only make you unable to find a clear goal, but also weaken your thinking ability and decision-making ability for a long time. If you are used to being sloppy and following the crowd, you will gradually lose your mind and become more and more confused in the future. So everyone must have their own ideas in daily life and make decisions that really suit them.