There is no denying that the cultural level is a little poor. My parents are junior high school students. In the last article, I mentioned the rural people's thirst for knowledge. At this point, my parents' intervention in children's learning is very strong. When I was a child, I got up late at school and didn't want to go to school. My mother kicked me from home to school, including some corporal punishment such as twisting my thigh. As a seven-year-old child, I have a preliminary sense of honor and disgrace, which made me know my fellow villagers in high school, and I always remember being beaten by my mother when I was a child.
Slowly, the author is used to studying hard and studying life, but in some ways, it conflicts with his parents' life. The author mentioned that both parents are junior high school students, and as the parents of junior high school students, the requirements for the author are only grades. For example, once in primary school, the author won the tenth place in the class, and my mother's attitude towards the author was to severely scold the author. My mother's friends may say that the author has been studying well, and my mother can't accept the author's unexpected failure, but this makes the author of 1 1 think that his mother only likes children who study well, and since then the author has started his own way of studying hard.
Junior high school students study in a township middle school, get up at 5: 20 in the morning and go home at 8: 30 in the evening. By the way, I have a biological sister who grew up at home. This girl made outstanding achievements in a small town in junior high school, but in high school, her face seems to be overcast every time she goes home. Under this influence, the author pays more attention to her study and ignores her daily life.
In the third grade, I met a class teacher who was not a teacher, but was detrimental to teachers' morality. This teacher is the kind of person who is eager for quick success and instant benefit. In winter, she asked her classmates to get up at 4: 50 in the morning and go home around 10 in the evening. Because of lack of sleep and low immunity, I suffered from rhinitis and my grades were abnormal. I fell out of the top ten, was scolded by my teacher in public, and complained to my father. My father didn't think about it, just accused me. So the author worked hard, stayed indoors during the winter vacation, worked hard, took the monthly exam at the beginning of the year, and got high marks to show the champion to others. However, the author has been dissatisfied. Although he was tired of studying, no one realized it. Although the symptoms of depression began to appear, no one knew.
The author graduated from the third grade, just as her sister's college entrance examination ended. Although my father didn't go to high school, he longed for the phoenix nirvana of his second daughter. The eldest daughter's college entrance examination is 554, which is six points lower than the provincial one. Father is puzzled by this, and there are many voices of crying and complaining at home. Although the author was admitted to a key high school in the county in the year when he was studying, his father did not celebrate, but in the dark, he exerted pressure again.
When I was in high school, I entered the county high school with a lot of talents. The author was both stressed and excited. The liberal arts is divided into subjects, and the author entered the liberal arts. At this time, the group learning mode is on the rise, and the author can learn from the leaders of liberal arts every day. But when it comes to family affairs, everyone praises his parents, and the author is puzzled and afraid to speak. Rebellion happens from time to time, and I gradually wake up. I am dissatisfied with my parents' various behaviors and full of grievances.
High school is busy, and the author is interested in high school, so he has no intention to make friends. He works hard every day and sometimes he is tired of learning, but he doesn't want to slack off. After the college entrance examination, I entered the university, full of joy, but the blow also followed. There are four people in the dormitory, only the author has many children, and the other three are the only children of his parents, who are pampered and well-off. Although there is a sister at home, the relationship between them is often as cold as ice. My sister is strong, and my freedom is hard to find. However, this matter is insignificant compared with another. The author also has a younger sister outside the house, who was given away as a child. After many years, the tutor's temperament is different. My parents know that her foster mother died, and she has accomplished nothing. At that time, the author was studying in the Finance College of 2 1 1. My parents know that my fate is not far away, and I hope to have a daughter on my knee. Although my elder sister is married, the married family and her mother's family are both within the jurisdiction of a county, but she is not satisfied. My father misses family ties. However, my mother was sent out because of her family. The friction between the two, the author has been exhausted by things at home, and felt the injustice of fate.
However, God did not care for the author. After years of hard study and fatigue, the author fainted at school, and mom and dad knew that they were out of their depth. But my mother is ignorant, saying that the author's achievements are of little significance and great significance. I have mixed feelings in my heart, and my mother's harshness in those days is vivid in my mind. However, today, I am very sad and full of grievances, and no one has told me. My mother's health is getting worse and worse, which makes the author change his ambition. To put it mildly, I hope you will be independent and powerful in the future. The author is dissatisfied. Independence and strength are a requirement. My mother took good care of me and demanded a lot of me, and suddenly things changed. I don't ask if the author can adapt. In a word, you have grown up and need to stand on your own feet. No matter whether I ask or not, I have never felt my mother's temperament, so optimistic. In short, school is a paradise, you just need to study hard. The author smiled bitterly in his heart. Is heaven and hell what my mother thinks? Since then, my mother has been wandering around the square, learning to dance and getting together with friends. When I went home, I felt very burdensome.
Vernacular:
After I entered the university, there were four people in the dormitory, all of whom were only children except me. Speaking of our family, the other three people are sure of their parents. Only I am dissatisfied with my parents and don't want to talk about my family, because when I mention it, all three people will convey a sense of strangeness to your family.
I have a sister at home, so I don't care if the sisters don't get along. Suddenly there was another sister, and one day my dad told me directly that it seemed that you would stay in Heyang County in the future. From this incident and sending this sister out, I gradually feel that my parents often make us make sacrifices because of their personal needs. I gave it to my sister because she is a woman. Because I am a girl, I need to work harder than boys.
That's not enough. What makes me even more angry is that my parents really decide my life direction for me according to their own needs. Let me study when I was young, and let me take care of myself when I grow up. Many parents think this is right. This is for your own good, but is it really good for me? The so-called good to me, have a real understanding of me, ask me what I need?
I have been studying for 16 years, and learning has accompanied my habit of 16 years. Have your own plan and direction on the road of learning. You suddenly told me that my plan and direction were put aside and you wanted me to be something else. Have you ever respected me? When I came to school, I studied very well, and asked me to stop studying, clean up according to your requirements, and then clean up for you. Do you really treat me like a nanny?
Just now, I read some parents' statements that children are private property, so what I say below is expected to surprise people who whitewash peace.
My dad said: 1 beat me into a fool, and then he raised me.
2 ? Send me to a mental hospital.
Throw me off the viaduct.
Other things I did, such as my arm being grazed by him in summer.
What I did, I jumped out of the car, and then what my father did made my comforting mother leave me and plan to drive away.
Chengdu railway station, ignore him, walk alone in front, and then he said, believe it or not, I'll take you to the hospital.
He doesn't know how many sleepless and self-denying nights I spent with his words and actions. In the process of demanding children, have you also planted the seeds of demanding children from parents?