(1903-1965), translator, writer and painter, was born in Wujin County, Changzhou City, Jiangsu Province. & gt, can be said to be the most legendary, talented, bumpy and famous one. She pursued freedom all her life, insisted on justice and never gave up suffering. Even though she was misunderstood and disputed, she kept her independent personality. He has a wide range of interests, knows everything about astronomy, geography, science and drama, is proficient in Britain, France and Germany, never forgets, is born with beauty, outstanding beauty, melancholy temperament and arrogant personality. In the university days in Beijing, people called it "the queen". & gt Lu Xiaoman's father Lu Zifu (1873-1930), also known as Lu Ding, was born in Wujin, Changzhou. Juren in the late Qing Dynasty, graduated from Waseda University in Japan. He is a proud disciple of Japanese star Ito Bowen. During my study in Japan, I attended the Alliance of Dr. Sun Yat-sen.. * * * After the establishment of Nanjing * * *, Lu Ding was appointed Director of the Tax Department of the Ministry of Finance and President of the Savings Bank of China. Lu Xiaoman's mother Wu Manhua is the eldest daughter of Wu Qihe, the first (deputy prime minister) of Changzhou Baima Sanshitu, and her grandfather Wu Guangyue is the governor of Jiangxi. Wu Manhua is versatile and has profound attainments in poetry, painting and ancient literature. & gt Lu Xiaoman spent his childhood in Shanghai. At the age of six, she went to Beijing. At the age of 7, she entered the primary school affiliated to Beijing Women's Normal University. From the age of 9 to 14, I studied at Beijing Girls' Middle School and then transferred to Beijing Sacred Heart School. In the same year, Lu Ding invited an English female teacher to teach English for her. Lu Xiaoman was born super smart, never forgets anything, and is willing to study hard. 16, 17 years old, proficient in English and French, good at playing the piano and good at painting. As a student, Lu Xiaoman is not only brilliant, but also beautiful and charming. She has both the agility and liveliness of a Shanghai girl and the beauty and dignity of a Beijing girl. At school, everyone calls her "Queen". Every time she goes out for activities, dozens of Chinese and foreign college students often give her bags and clothes, but she is extremely arrogant and dismissive. & gt& gt Beiyang Foreign Minister Gu Weijun asked Sacred Heart School to recommend a beautiful young girl to work in the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, and Lu Xiaoman became a natural choice. Since then, Lu Xiaoman has been an English-French accompanying translator in Gu Weijun. 18 years old, Lu Xiaoman gradually became famous in Beijing society. She is good at poetry and painting, can write small letters, can sing and act, and is warm, generous and polite. What is more attractive is her gorgeous and moving smile, light posture and soft voice. During her three years as a translator in the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, Lu Xiaoman showed her astute and patriotic side many times. Because at that time, translators not only had to translate each other's words, but also improvise. Seeing foreigners' contempt for Chinese, she answered blows with blows and dealt with it skillfully. It can be said that Lu Xiaoman perfectly demonstrated the talent and beauty of women in China in the new era when she was a girl. & gt Lu Xiaoman, with both talent and beauty, is the prototype of Huang Rong in Jin Yong's works, and Lu Xiaoman's life story has also become a romantic and legendary love story in Qiong Yao's works. There is an important reason here, because Jin Yong and Qiong Yao are distant relatives of Lu Xiaoman. Jin Yong's mother is his father's cousin (so Jin Yong is his cousin), Jin Yong's cousin is married to his uncle (so Jin Yong is his uncle), and his grandfather is Yuan, the first president of Bank of Communications (Yuan's brother, Changzhou native Yuan is the last emperor of Emperor Xuantong). Born in Changzhou, Yuan Henry is married to Lu Xiaoman's mother Wu Jia. So there is a bizarre circle of relatives: Xu Zhimo-Jin Yong-Qiong Yao-Yuan Henry-Wu Manhua-Lu Xiaoman, which reflects the interesting chain of relatives of another Changzhou tycoon: Zhuang Yunkuan-Sheng Xuanhuai-Chen Hengzhe-Qu Qiubai-Wu Zuguang-Zhuang Fenggan and Zhuang (brother and academician of Chinese Academy of Sciences). Besides, Qiong Yao's mother and aunt are also famous talented women in Changzhou. Qiong Yao's elder sister, Yuan, is the first female director of tax bureau in China and the first female diplomat in China. She co-founded hanyu pinyin with Zhao Yuanren, a famous linguist in Changzhou. Yuan Xingzhuang, Qiong Yao's sister-in-law, is a famous female writer, and her masterpiece is Biography of Heroes of New Children. As the saying goes, "The world is not big, please see how small it is"! & gt 1922, Lu Xiaoman 19 years old, people are getting more and more beautiful and graceful. This year, she left school and was ordered by her parents to marry Wang Geng (a native of Wuxi County, Changzhou City). Wang Geng graduated from Tsinghua University, studied at Princeton University 19 15, and then at the United States Military Academy at West Point. In this marriage, Lu Xiaoman was completely passive, and she felt that she and Wang Geng had great differences in temperament and hobbies. In the third year of marriage, Wang Geng was appointed as the police chief of Harbin, and Wang Geng invited Lu Xiaoman to accompany him. Lu Xiaoman lived in Harbin for some time. It is said that because Lu Xiaoman was a well-known social figure in Beijing at that time, after she arrived in Harbin, her posters were plastered all over the streets of Harbin. Because of their temperament, after half a year of marriage, their estrangement became an undeniable fact. At this time, Xu Zhimo, like a whisper, broke into Lu Xiaoman's heart. & gt After Xu Zhimo was ordered by his parents to marry Zhang Youyi, he deeply felt the lack of affection with his wife. Zhang Youyi is a virtuous woman, but she is not suitable for a romantic poet like Xu Zhimo. 1922 In March, Xu Zhimo divorced Zhang Youyi in Berlin. From 1920 to 192 1, Xu Zhimo saw Lin in London. This is his ideal woman, beautiful, pure, naive and lively. The two of them had a happy time in England. After returning home, he still can't forget this fresh and refined "Miss Lin". However, after returning to China, Lin was engaged to Liang Sicheng, the son of Liang Qichao. During Tagore's visit to China, Xu Zhimo was able to get in touch with Lin again and rekindle the old feelings. But Lin made up his mind at this time, and soon he went to study in the United States with Liang Sicheng. Xu Zhimo was depressed to the extreme. It was at this time that Xu Zhimo met Lu Xiaoman who also endured tears. Their meeting gradually turned their tears and depression into joy and hope, and this amazing love that attracted much attention began. & gt As for the occasion when Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo met, it was probably at the dance. The two of them, one is beautiful Jiangnan; One is a talented person in Jiangnan who is personable; One is a rose with dew, the other is a lyric new poem. When dry wood meets fire, how can it not spark love in generate? Lu Xiaoman's calm heart caused a stir. Although her husband has received higher education, he is still a soldier on the whole. He doesn't understand women's psychology and won't please him. The kind Zhimo opened a beautiful window for her, a poet who can write romantic poems, a charming romantic talent, and what is more difficult is that he can read Xiao Man's painful and profound world. So Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo finally came together after a half-life struggle. The famous painter Liu Haisu helped them get married, and Liang Qichao married them. & gt& gt After Lu Xiaoman got married, Xu Zhimo returned to Shanghai, which is the longest-lived city in Lu Xiaoman. Her life in Shanghai can be divided into three stages, from birth to her childhood in Beijing at the age of seven. 1926 stayed in Shanghai before going to Shi Xia and Haining after marrying Xu Zhimo. This is her second handshake with Shanghai. Although the time is short, Lu Xiaoman's heart is covered with honey, because she has a partner who is waiting and pursuing hard. 1927 to 193 1 This period was a stage before Xu Zhimo's accident. She lived a luxurious life and let herself go. 19365438+ 0 years after Xu zhimo's accident, and the second stage is 1949. She was violently shaken and people became negative and silent. After liberation, it was the third stage, and she rallied and gained a new life. Lu Xiaoman's shocking emotional world was not accepted by the mainstream society at that time. Liang Qichao, the witness of marriage, including Xu Zhimo's parents, and some conservative and stubborn public opinions are biased against Lu Xiaoman. And the death of Xu Zhimo, the blow to Lu Xiaoman is not only personal spiritual destruction, but also the accusation of Lu Xiaoman by the whole circle. & gt 193 1 year1month1day, Xu zhimo flew to Nanjing by Zhang Xueliang's special plane and returned to Shanghai on 13. 18, Xu Zhimo took the early train to Nanjing and lived in Hejia. Xu Zhimo originally planned to fly back to Beijing by Zhang Xueliang. Before leaving, Zhang Xueliang informed him that something had to be rescheduled. In order to catch up with Lin's lecture on ancient buildings in China given to foreign guests in Peking Union Medical College Auditorium that night, Xu Zhimo couldn't wait to fly to Beijing by postal plane the next day, that is, 193 1 19. Before boarding the plane, he sent a short message to Lu Xiaoman, which said, "There is heavy fog in Xuzhou, and I have a headache and don't want to leave. I'm going back to Shanghai. But in the end, he left. Due to heavy fog, the plane crashed into a mountain and exploded near Dangjiazhuang, Jinan at noon 12: 30. Even the three people on board, Xu Zhimo, just turned 36 and didn't survive. Lu Xiaoman was 29 years old. & gt Lu Xiaoman cried several times in the funeral parlour. After waking up, he insisted on going to Dangjiazhuang, Shandong Province to pick up Xu Zhimo's body, but was persuaded by relatives and friends to leave. After Xu Zhimo's body was transported back to Shanghai from Jinan, Lu Xiaoman saw the only relic at the scene: a long scroll of landscape painting. This painting was created by Lu Xiaoman in the spring of 193 1. It can be called Lu Xiaoman's early masterpiece, with beautiful style and natural beauty. More precious are the inscriptions by Hu Shi, Yang Quan, He, Liang Dingming and Chen Dieye. Xu Zhimo took this hand scroll with him because he was going to Beijing to find someone to supplement his questions. There was no martyrdom because the hand roll was placed in an iron basket. Lu Xiaoman looked at this picture and thought of all the benefits of Xu Zhimo. Tears rolled down his eyes and he had mixed feelings. Since then, she has been cherishing this painting, as if guarding her life. After Xu Zhimo's accident, Lu Xiaoman received the biggest blow and criticism, and some friends of Xu Zhimo didn't want to associate with her anymore. Xu Zhimo's friends believe that Lu Xiaoman's refusal to go north led to the tragedy. & gt After Xu Zhimo, Lu Xiaoman stopped going out to socialize. From then on, Lu Xiaoman was unkempt and unkempt, and looked a few decades older. Lu Xiaoman's yearning for Xu Zhimo can also be seen in several articles she wrote after Xu Zhimo. More than a month after Xu Zhimo's death, Lu Xiaoman wrote Mo Weeping. This article is sincere and sad. 1autumn of 964, Lu Xiaoman was admitted to hospital. When Lu Xiaoman was in hospital, his old friend Liu Haisu happened to live in the next ward. The two met in the ward and felt deeply. They talked about the distant past, about Zhimo, which has been underground for more than 30 years, and about those friends of that year. A few days before Lu Xiaoman's death, she asked her niece, Lu Jiangqi-chao, to give Xu Zhimo's cousin a long couplet and a long scroll of her own landscape painting, and the pattern of the Complete Works of Xu Zhimo to Xu Zhimo's cousin for safekeeping. 1On April 3rd, 965, Lu Xiaoman, a talented woman and beautiful woman, died in Shanghai Huadong Hospital at the age of 63. & gt Lu Xiaoman's life is divided into two parts. The first half, from the narcissistic princess queen career in girlhood to the celebrity career being sought after and surrounded by people; In the second half, after Xu Zhimo's death, she got up and smoothed her clothes, dressed formally, humbly and Jing Ya in plain clothes, washed away lead China, gave up smoking and painted. This kind of her is exactly what Xu Zhimo hoped to see before his death. & gt I left quietly, just as I came quietly, waving my sleeves without taking away a cloud. & gt Hu Shi said: Lu Xiaoman is a must-see scenery. & gt Yu Dafu said: Lu Xiaoman was Prometheus who shook China's literary and art circles in the 1920s. & gt Liu Haisu said: Lu Xiaoman's old poems are fresh and beautiful, graceful and graceful, and the paintings are quite conventional in the Song Dynasty. He is a talented woman and a beautiful woman. & gt Xu Zhimo said: Her eyes are also talking, and her eyes are shining with secrets. & gt