First, get married. Ben was born in an ordinary family, and her parents loved each other, so she lived a fairly good life. Originally, my family thought that everyone might live in this small place all their lives. However, the sudden demolition has improved the family's economic situation. Three houses with good location. In addition to a house they live in, the family lives in a down-to-earth manner, and the subsidies brought by rent collection are becoming more and more prosperous.
The girl also found someone she thought she could trust for life during her college years. Because his family background is not good, but the man is a city man, he still has an inferiority complex. However, after meeting both parents, the girl gave up her worries because the man's family seemed to be easy to get along with. So they got married.
Second, an ordinary life. They were both only children when they got married, so their parents naturally loved them very much. The woman's parents will send the two suites obtained from the demolition as their daughter's dowry. The man's parents also bought them a wedding room. Therefore, married couples have no pressure. At present, most young people need anxious mortgages and car loans. These things are beyond their consideration.
In fact, isn't such a day the goal of most people? Especially in small cities, not everyone can have such a sense of happiness. You know, most of the contradictions between husband and wife come from the pressure of money.
Is this girl lucky? Of course, who said it was unlucky? So far, her life seems to be going well. However, after staying in such a peaceful living environment for a long time, any action can make this family become a bee.
Third, a bolt from the blue: mother is ill. This life lasted for two years. Occasionally, the girl's mother felt uncomfortable at work, so she immediately went to the hospital for a general examination. The result was not satisfactory, but the doctor still suggested going to a big hospital for examination to get more accurate results.
The family naturally attaches great importance to it and immediately goes to the big hospital for review. But the result really plunged myself and my parents into long-term sadness. In the middle stage of gastric cancer, although my mother was optimistic, it was undoubtedly a bolt from the blue for my father and daughter. Parents don't have much savings, and the young couple have never made plans for such a thing.
My daughter came up with the idea of selling those two houses to treat her mother. Parents don't quite agree, but I hope my daughter can communicate with her husband more and get his consent.
Fourth, the husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster strikes. Girls naturally think it's okay. In her eyes, her husband is considerate and will definitely agree to treat her mother. Unexpectedly, the husband not only disagreed, but also watched out for girls every day after knowing the news, arguing every day to express his opposition. Even said that if you want to sell the house, then we will get a divorce.
It is not difficult to imagine how complicated the girl's mood is now. The kind husband in her heart should say such a thing to herself. Besides, these two houses were originally given to her by her parents. Why not?
The man's parents are even more furious when they know it. In their eyes, cancer is an incurable disease. They spend a lot of time and money on diagnosis and treatment, and finally they can't escape the tragic ending. Anyway, it's not worth it
5. How should I choose: divorce or insist on selling a house to treat my mother? This kind of problem is usually highly discussed in society because it is basically close to the lives of most people. If you haven't experienced it, at least you've heard of it.
When things get to this point, most people will think: Isn't this a divorce for the New Year? Indeed, in today's society, the status of women has gradually improved, and the divorce rate has also increased a lot. In addition to the awakening of women's self-awareness, it is also the result of social diversification.
In this case, since the girl asked if she wanted a divorce, she already had the answer in her heart, but she just needed the affirmation of others.
Under such circumstances, the woman's parents are still thinking about the couple, and the mother can give up herself for her daughter's happiness and is more willing to spend the rest of her life in her own cabin.
On the other hand, the practices of the man's family are all spurned. At this time, the girl's reflection point should be, if she wants to help her mother and her husband doesn't agree, then one day, she is ill in bed or needs any help, what kind of reaction will he make?
It is not difficult to imagine that although her husband was a kind person in the eyes of girls before, it was because the couple's previous life was really happy. It can be said that there is no pressure, and trivial things are not enough to see his true colors, but now? Of course, they don't agree to sacrifice a house that makes them profitable.
Sixth, after seeing a person clearly, you need to make the right choice: divorce. As the old saying goes, if you rely on the mountain to eat the mountain, the mountain will fall, and if you lean against people, people will run away. Since ancient times, people who can succeed are often people who have their own ideas and dare to do it. Not those who have weaknesses and rely on existing resources to survive. There seems to be nothing wrong with the couple's life, but there are great hidden dangers.
First of all, the living environment of two people from childhood is very different. Although the man is not a rich family, he also lives in the city. What about that woman? Life is relatively happy, but I was born in a small place, and the unexpected demolition has made my family live well, but I have never had a big vision, and even have a tendency to feel inferior in front of the man's family. Matching the right family is a very important factor in marriage, whether it is money or three views.
Secondly, they are satisfied with their present life. Although they live a life that most people envy, they have no intention to take better care of their small family and everyone on both sides, which shows that the couple have no idea of struggle. This also shows from the side what kind of decision the man will make in the face of things that will harm his own interests.
Seven, only through their own, others can't help. Although the woman is in a dilemma, the advice given by others does not represent her own choice. All possibilities and results depend on her own choice. Everything is not accidental, and there is bound to be one thing in the life of husband and wife to break their peace. It's only a matter of time, which is what most families need to face.
As ordinary people, money can solve most problems, and differences between family members can also ruin many things. There is a skeleton in the cupboard. For this girl, her next life may be more difficult than in previous decades, because she will face more choices.
But more choices mean more opportunities, and she will no longer be limited to the man who only values interests, and will no longer be limited to the two houses that can collect rent. But what if she chooses to step back and broaden her horizons? Or do her parents want her to live a quiet life with her husband? That only shows that she is willing to accept the result she planted.
Eight, extended thinking: the status quo of social marriage. It can be seen from this incident that women now have more choices of their own. The results of many surveys show that most young women think that they may not enter the marriage hall, especially those with higher education. They have their own knowledge and can add fun to their lives and seek benefits from it.
The word "independent woman" is no stranger in today's society. It is a commendatory term, although there are many "ordinary men". The reaction after seeing this word is to bring the topic to the issue of women's rights. Doesn't this show that our society is progressing? Everyone has the ability to do what he wants, and no one is an accessory of another.
There is no such proposition as whether to get married or not. People are diverse, and it is precisely because of this characteristic that human beings can reach the peak in a complicated society, and nothing can replace human ideological characteristics. So everyone's choice is understandable.
Even many people are subject to various moral constraints when they divorce, such as what is wrong with enduring it? All these thoughts reflect only two words: sacrifice.
However, should these still exist in this harmonious and inclusive society? If the client wants to, it can't be a sacrifice, it's just her choice. She thinks it's worth it, and her efforts will be rewarded in the near future.
Those who bravely stand up against these inherent thinking, those women who go against the sky and change their lives, are often condemned by morality. However, a truly powerful person will bear the consequences for all his choices. Although he can't change the world's harm to himself, he can stop being the one who hurts others.
In this society full of positive energy, we see that most voices support what they think is right, and what is right often contains people's yearning for freedom, and they will regret what they failed to do.
So everyone should think about their own interests and don't compromise with anyone. Because what stands behind us is a rapidly developing and full of possibilities, everyone's choice naturally has their own coping methods. Just do what you want and pave the way for your life. Only you can be the master of your own destiny.