In love, college students should give priority to having the same thoughts, the same beliefs and pursuits, and take a beautiful heart, noble sentiments and psychological fit as the first criterion for choosing a spouse.

Second, correctly handle the relationship between love and school.

Love is beautiful, it is an important part of life, but not the whole of life, it should be subordinate to the cause and promote the development of the cause. Only when one's career is successful can love be better. Therefore, college students should put their studies first and straighten out the relationship between love and studies.

Third, we should know that love is a kind of dedication.

College students should know that love is not only taking, but also a kind of responsibility and dedication. Once college students enter the kingdom of love, they must have a strong sense of responsibility and dedication to work in order to obtain lofty love.

Fourth, understand and trust each other more.

Love is the unity of mutual love. Both parties who love each other have their own independent personality and spiritual world, and they can neither completely rely on each other nor demand complete possession of each other. Love, like being a man, understanding and trust are very valuable qualities.