After all, parents and children are related by blood. But if you are an adopted son, you may be regarded as your own by your adoptive parents, but you may not be regarded as your own, or even be abandoned again.
The name Chen Chong is familiar to everyone. She has a high position in the entertainment circle. No matter from the image or acting, there is no doubt that she is absolutely excellent.
However, her life will also be criticized. Maybe no one is perfect. Objectively speaking, we can understand, but what she did hurt two innocent children.
When Chen Chong married her husband, she was not pregnant, so she finally chose to adopt a pair of twin girls in despair.
But to her surprise, shortly after adopting the child, Chen Chong found herself pregnant, which made her ecstatic.
After 10 months pregnant, she finally gave birth to a lovely daughter.
It's hard for us to imagine how the two children felt at that time, but this second transfer of custody will definitely cause irreparable psychological trauma to them.
Now that 2 1 year has passed, Chen Chong's eldest daughter has successfully graduated from Harvard University, which has become the pride of Chen Chong.
Shortly after giving birth to her daughter, she successfully gave birth to her little daughter, who seemed to want to develop in the entertainment industry and once participated in a film starring her mother.
Although the two girls have chosen different development paths, they are both equally outstanding, which is closely related to the good education and family atmosphere in Chen Chong.
But it's really touching to think about the twin adopted daughters she abandoned.
If Chen Chong had been able to keep them around and raise them to grow up with his daughter, then I believe the two girls will be equally excellent now.
Although Chen Chong can't be said to be selfish, at least her behavior is extremely irresponsible to her two adopted daughters.
1, make children feel inferior.
There is no blood relationship between adopted children and adoptive parents, which makes children cautious and try their best to please their parents.
But when they work hard, they still get the result of being abandoned, so children will have self-denial, because they are bad, so they will get such a result and have a deep sense of inferiority.
2. Make children feel insecure.
When children are abandoned again and again, they will be afraid of the world and doubt everything around them, because they are not sure how long what belongs to them now will last.
Therefore, children will become swayed by considerations of gain and loss and feel completely insecure. The more they are afraid of losing, the easier it is to lose.
1, responsible for children
Regardless of whether the child is related to himself or not, since he/she has chosen to be his/her own parents or adoptive parents, he/she should be responsible for the child, always put the child in the position of 1 and give him enough care.
As long as you are responsible for your children, you can have a better life and grow up better.
2. Cultivate children's independence
Children will leave their parents to face life one day, so give them more opportunities to try, cultivate their practical ability and thinking ability, and enable them to face the society independently.
Taking children to see the outside world can not only broaden their horizons, but also help them grow up.
3. Teach children to face life optimistically.
Although the road of life cannot be full of flowers and applause forever, parents should keep their children optimistic.
In this way, even in the face of difficulties and setbacks, they will not be discouraged and retreat, but go forward bravely and walk out of a road of happiness of their own.