1. Politeness: China is a country of etiquette, so it's not too annoying to be polite, and it's impolite to come without going. The "ceremony" here refers not only to gifts, but also to materials, but to a custom and a moral standard. Things are light, friendship is heavy, and a feather is sent in a thousand miles. After the reform and opening up, we abandoned many feudal ideas, including China's ethics. But after all, our Confucianism has been deeply rooted for more than 2000 years, and it is difficult to change it for a while, so we should pay attention to etiquette. Greet each other when they meet. At school, many times, seniors and seniors greet their younger siblings, but they still ignore them. Many people walk sideways without saying hello to the teacher. Many brothers and sisters think it is right to help them. Lack of gratitude, little gratitude. Gratitude is the dignity of being human. If you want to learn to be a man, you must respect everyone, especially teachers, brothers and sisters. Keep a grateful heart and be grateful with practical actions. I gave so many lectures to my brothers and sisters for free, and rarely received thank-you letters from my brothers and sisters, and few people came to say, brother! Thank you! You have worked hard. Second, respect-oriented: first of all, we must learn to respect. The first step of respect is to respect yourself. Many people have a hard time with excellent middle schools and mediocre universities. Some people feel inferior and confused when they are admitted to schools or majors they don't want. Actually, it's not necessary Everyone has his own strengths and advantages, but you haven't explored them well. Everyone has come to this world for one in a million (the number of sperm). First of all, you should be confident and respect yourself in college. The other is to respect others, your teachers, your seniors, your classmates and friends. If a person wants to gain the respect of others, he must first respect others. The first step to respect others is not to underestimate everyone, not to underestimate every little thing. In universities, students in many cities look down on rural students, many rich people look down on people without money, and some senior student cadres look down on ordinary students. These are all wrong. Respect yourself and others, and others will respect you. Third, be strict with yourself and be lenient with others: many times, we are always talking about how others are. Where others do badly, where others make mistakes, but they are often very casual with themselves. Few people will see their mistakes. It is very important to be strict with yourself and tolerant of others if you want to get good interpersonal relationships in college. Don't ask others to do it if you don't do it yourself. If you don't want to do it, don't let others do it. Don't stand in other people's point of view, don't play the role of others, please don't criticize others easily. Before asking others, ask yourself, what can I do if I were him? If I were him, how would he treat people like me? An important doctrine in The Doctrine of the Mean is "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you". I think even if "don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you." Many times we can't ask each other to do things in their own way. Everyone has his own views and values. University is a place to learn to be a man. If you hope you can get better grades, you can live better in college. Pay attention to every detail of your life, behavior and speech. Form the habit of modesty. Many people think I am not modest enough, but many times I think I am modest because I just tell the truth. But why do many people think I am not modest enough? In Tao Te Ching, I found the answer to the question that has puzzled me for a long time. Modesty means to be afraid, and modesty means to discover your own shortcomings. Modesty is awe of some people and things. People should properly express themselves, but they should have a learning heart and awe of nature and knowledge. As long as people show awe, modesty is natural. As a university, our greatest capital is youth and our greatest capital is time. But being young doesn't mean being frivolous, fearless or making the same mistakes.