Back to school for the first time: the secondary school was dismissed for fighting. I worked at the bottom of society for two years. Let me talk about what I have done first: 1, factory workers, working nonstop every day, only 1 hour lunch break at noon. Every day after work, I will make fists with my hands, and I am glad that my fingers are still sound (if I don't operate the machinery carefully, my palms will be involved, my workmates). 2. Hotel waiters, the first month's salary was deducted by the boss, and they didn't get their salary until the second month. Don't laugh, people weren't so nervous then. This is the unspoken rule of the catering industry in our city. Of course, when you resign, the deposit of this month's salary will never be given to you. 3, clothing store clerk, in order to compete for the commission of selling clothes, I will talk nonsense when two people fight? 4, distributing leaflets, I do a wide range of business, not only in the street, but also to the gas company to the homes of various communities, from the first floor to the top floor, door-to-door to plug the leaflets of gas stations, on average, I have to climb dozens of buildings a day, and my legs are sore every day. 5, send newspapers, the coldest time in winter in my hometown in Northeast China is MINUS 40 degrees, and my ears are often frostbitten. 6, computer city salesman, this job was my satisfactory job at that time, because it was easier and there was no danger of work-related injuries. Working in the society for two years taught me the hardships of making money (I was 16, 17 years old). Because the work I do is humble and often looked down upon by others, I have a strong desire to live a better life. At that time, I thought that I would never turn over by working everywhere like this, and I realized that a slightly better job required a college degree. Compared with my classmates, I will cherish my time very much, and I will seize every opportunity to ask my teacher questions, because in my heart, I am a consumer, and I will not waste any time at school after paying my tuition. Unlike some students, I will skip class and go out to play. Another is that my dependence on my family will be much weaker, because all tuition and miscellaneous fees were saved by me at that time, so spending money will be very economical. I won't spend money comparing with my classmates (buying famous brands is very popular in my private high school), and then I was admitted to an ordinary university (the foundation was already very good at that time). Back to school for the second time: right now, I'm going to study in Japan, and then I'll go to DIY next year. At present, it has entered the local student group. In contrast, there are the following differences: 1, I have a careful plan for the future and my goals are more clear. I know what kind of life I want to live, what I can give up and what I want. I seldom seek advice online. 2, because you are much older than the people around you, you will cherish this learning opportunity more, be stronger, and have less unrealistic troubles (refer to the first world problem, many people around you have troubles, which in my opinion are nothing at all, just moaning without illness. Maybe compared with me, they have experienced too little. For example, some young international students who are lovelorn are a big thing, which is very depressing, but for me. It is normal to be on and off in love. Breaking up is to give each other a chance to choose happiness again, and it won't hurt me too much at all. On the contrary, I sincerely hope that the other party will find a better man than me, a man who is more suitable for her. For me, the problem of survival really worries me. 3, a more realistic point of view, more tolerant of loneliness, rather than doing whatever you want, will not waste any time to do meaningless things. 4. I will consider both sides when I look at the problem. I will not be blindly optimistic, but will consider the worst result in advance. If I can bear the worst result myself, I will do it without hesitation, and my mother-in-law will think and think. 5, have their own principles of doing things. Beyond the principle, you quit. 6. I have many years of business experience in China, and I have seen too many tricks and scams. Some overseas Chinese and locals want to cheat me, which is more difficult. 7, interpersonal communication can better grasp the goodness, will not be annoying, but will not let others disturb themselves, who should pay, who should stay away. 8. When doing business, you can usually earn millions a year, know what it's like to be rich, and experience the life of rich people. That's all I feel. In contrast, I think family and family life are the most important, so I won't blindly pursue money and give up other things. I will find a suitable degree in my working life and pursue my own life in the future, not secular values. 9. Strong psychological endurance. It is estimated that even if I encounter difficult things in the future, I will face them calmly, because, believe me, I have experienced more difficult, wonderful and absurd things in China. -netizens from Zhihu.