Although there are many examples of college students having sex, if you don't want to do this kind of thing prematurely, you should tell your boyfriend as soon as possible, not to mention that it is necessary to have sex in college, as if it is abnormal not to have sex. This statement is completely nonsense.
As a man, I think making love is a way to promote the relationship between two people, but if I think from the perspective of women, or if I have a daughter in the future, do I want her to make love in college?
Of course, I don't want her to make such a hasty decision too early. Young people like passion and impulsiveness, and do things without considering the consequences. It is irresponsible for yourself to make a decision before you know a person thoroughly.
Feelings are your own business, and others can't help you decide when it is appropriate to do something. It depends on whether you understand or not. Of course, this society does not mean that things are not going well now, but I believe that even if men don't care, it will have a great influence on women.
Especially for young women, my advice to you is that others can love you only if they love themselves first. Please respect yourself. It is not good for you to invest too early, and you can try to avoid it. If you really want to take that step, don't hurt yourself to save a set of money. Men don't wear condoms when they are incompetent, all for their own happiness, and women basically have no good results. If I really care about you, I will never force you.