? The characters in My First Half Life are all brilliant, especially several female characters of different ages, who have different identities and personalities and are engaged in different occupations. For example, Luo Zijun, the protagonist who pinned her life on her husband and was later abandoned and attacked, and a strong woman in the workplace, Tang Jing, a good friend of China who never believed in love but always supported her friends, or a new type of Xiao San Ling Ling who seemed gentle and considerate but tried all kinds of tricks, was bent on marrying love but lost to Luo Ziqun who seemed to be heartbroken by his two daughters. Are lively and lively. They are very much like ordinary women in our lives, each with its own troubles and struggles. Looking at these women, we can see that two things are indispensable to live a high and wonderful life, one is calmness, and the other is rationality.
1. Luo Zijun: First impulsive, then calm and rational.
At the beginning of the TV series, Luo Zijun can be said to be a superficial and impulsive person. When she was trying on shoes in a shoe store, she saw her husband bringing his colleagues to buy necklaces. In fact, she rushed over with one foot wearing a new shoe, ignored her colleagues in front of her husband, and pretended to be pampered and rich, which made her husband Chen extremely embarrassed. Her impulsive personality of rushing at the sight of a beautiful young woman around her husband not only makes her look ill-bred, but also makes her husband hate her more and more.
For a period of time after her divorce from Chen, she was indifferent. First she begged her husband not to leave her, and then she ran to her husband's office to make a scene. She didn't think about what to do next and how to deal with it. The first thing she thought of was that her husband didn't want her, and the sky fell and she couldn't live in the future. Without the reminder and help of Tang Jing and He Han, we can conclude that there will be no future growth and counterattack.
Let's see what Luo Zijun looks like after seeing the reality.
? She was selling shoes in a shopping mall and met her former college classmate. The students saw her down and out today. Instead of sympathy, they want to take photos with her and make friends, which makes Luo Zijun lose face. For the former Luo Zijun, it is estimated that she would have resigned long ago, but for the first time, she calmed down and remembered what He Han taught her, and her reason soon came back. So, she seized this classmate's face-saving psychology, took the opportunity to sell her thousands of shoes that were not easy to sell, and finally succeeded.
? Later, Chen took Lingling to the mall to buy shoes and went to Luo Zijun's counter. The meeting was awkward. For Luo Zijun, his heart must be painful and angry. However, she quickly packed up her emotions. Lingling tried on one pair, then recommended another pair to her, and sold two pairs of expensive shoes at once. After a series of blows, Luo Zijun finally got rid of his impulsive and reckless personality. Facing people and things, he began to become calm and rational, and finally understood what he should pay attention to and pursue.
2. Tang Jing: Calm and rational are the magic weapons for women to be beautiful forever.
? Compared with Luo Zijun, her best friend Tang Jing has always been the best performer of calmness and rationality. It can be said that Luo Zijun's later growth can not be separated from Tang Jing's always calm and rational support and guidance! Luo Zijun completely collapsed before the divorce. In the face of Luo Zijun's collapse, Tang Jing's first suggestion was that divorce was not the most terrible thing. The key is whether Luo Zijun can stand on his own feet or whether he has the ability to stand on his own feet. She sees more clearly than anyone else, and is more calm and rational than anyone else. Men are not the ultimate reliance of women. In this society, women must stand on their own feet and be independent.
? In the face of Chen's disloyalty and betrayal, you can directly rush to his office to settle accounts with him, but he can still cooperate with him at work. I think many men may be ashamed of being so calm and rational. It is her excellent ability at work that makes her look like a real Yi Shu girl from beginning to end, always decent and elegant. ?
Even in the end, when the man she likes likes likes her best friend so much, she still chooses to handle it calmly and rationally. She ran to Tianjin alone and won a big customer that He Han couldn't take away. In the face of He Han, she said, "Time is precious and not worth such a sad waste." Facing Lingling, what she said was, Do you think I will feel sad and miserable at home alone? No matter what happens, life will go on, work or work, play or play.
Song Dandan once said in a sketch that it is difficult to be a man, more difficult to be a woman and more difficult to be a celebrity. When I first listened to it, I just thought it was funny, but it made sense. The division of labor between men and women has long been carried out in society, and the idea that men are superior to women has been spread everywhere for thousands of years. Men are also used to labeling women, thinking that women are emotional, impulsive, reckless and even unable to reason with women, because they will always importune and never seem to think calmly and rationally before solving problems. However, with the development of the times, with the improvement of women's education level and the deepening of social participation, most women began to grow up rapidly. They are good at learning, control their emotions, take their time, and then deal with them rationally. Therefore, more and more beautiful women are living.
The TV series My First Half Life is adapted from Yi Shu's novel of the same name. Anyone familiar with Yi Shu's works knows that all real Yi Shu girls are always dignified and elegant. She writes about love, but girls in Yi Shu treat love at the same level as men. Their love is not humble, so you can't see them losing their self-esteem and stalking for love. She said that a truly elegant lady never shows off everything she has. She doesn't tell people what books she has read, where she has been, how many clothes she has and what jewelry she has bought, because she has no sense of inferiority. Her girls, like her, always look at everything around them soberly and rationally, because only in this way can they live with a good attitude. We like the transformed Luo Zijun and appreciate Tang Jing because they are calm, rational, self-respecting and self-reliant.
? Finally, I hope all the girls can practice calmly and rationally. Even if life is chaotic, you can smile like a flower with a good attitude.