First of all, I want to say that college life is like leading us into half a society, telling us that we need to be self-reliant, including the protection of our loved ones, and it has gradually become our own communication. But in the process of communication, it will also lead to confusion because of our own personality or some small embarrassment of others. Of course, what makes us feel complicated is not only interpersonal relationships, but also the surrounding environment, problems in life, problems in study and so on.
Then my suggestion is to gradually understand the definition of college life and then change your mentality. I think it is inevitable that the mentality of entering the university is difficult to adjust. We should recall why we tried to get into college in the first place. Then, although college life is a place where you need to socialize, you can also decide what you can do to make yourself better or happier.
I think you can focus on your own happiness, in fact, happiness is also very easy, as long as you don't think too much and add some simple things, you can also make yourself happy. I take myself as an example. I want to cry when I am unhappy, but I can also divert my attention from what I like to do. I just need to drink milk tea or watch my favorite drama, so my happiness is also easy.
Therefore, college is not only about socializing, but also has enough time and energy to devote to yourself. If you always care about other people's feelings, I hope you care about your own priorities. College life is your own. Don't want to give up because of a little confusion. I believe you can also find a lifestyle that suits you in college life, find one or two intimate friends to chat and do what you want, without so much trouble. I think these are very important for your university.