How to develop good behavior habits
Adhering to good behavior habits will benefit us for life, but to develop good behavior habits, we need to persist and persist. Different people have different views on how to form good habits, but without persistence, everything is empty talk. First of all, an action cannot become a habit overnight. "Rome was not built in a day." Good behavior habits are inseparable from persistence day after day. Secondly, even after the habit is formed, it needs to be continuously consolidated and strengthened, which also depends on the strength of persistence. Therefore, although the process of persistence will be boring, it is also an opportunity to test our perseverance. If we choose to give up halfway, our life may be another scene from now on, and life will never have a chance to start again. At the same time, the good habits formed by constant persistence will evolve into a natural behavior, that is, the so-called "less becomes nature, and habits become nature", so persistence is the most important thing in the formation of good habits. ("Vocational College Youth" Cao Yu/Mechanical Zhangfan) Examining the style and discipline, shaping civilized and good behavior habits is reflected in all aspects, and good examination of the style and discipline is also a habit. It's the final exam period. Although most students can do well in the exam through their usual efforts, there are also very few students who neglect their studies and cheat by luck. These behaviors violate the examination discipline and destroy the excellent style of study in our school, so we should abandon and criticize them. As responsible adults, we should be honest and trustworthy in exams, study hard, and repay our efforts for a semester with tangible results. Examining discipline involves a person's integrity and is an important part of good behavior habits. We should treat exams with honesty, and then treat every exam in life. When "civilization" becomes everyone's label, our society will be more harmonious. So don't underestimate the ordinary exam, it is an important moment to reflect a person's quality. (Wang, Electromechanical) It is a good behavior habit to understand empathy, especially in interpersonal communication. Most of us born in 1990s are only children. Since we are the focus of attention, we need to learn to put ourselves in others' shoes. For example, in the dormitory, roommates spend most of their time together every day. If we accidentally hinder or hurt others, we need to reflect on ourselves in time: if I were him or her, would I feel bad? Students who are hindered or hurt can also think like this: Have I ever accidentally hurt others? If both sides put themselves in each other's shoes, the problem will be solved. On the contrary, if they only consider their own feelings and ignore each other, friction may escalate and contradictions will easily intensify. Therefore, empathy is not only a etiquette in interpersonal communication, but also a compulsory good habit, because it can form harmonious interpersonal relationships and promote environmental civilization. (Ji Xiaoyu, Electromechanical) Be strict with yourself and create civilization. As contemporary college students, good behavior habits are one of the best ways to show our college students' unique temperament, and the cultivation of good civilized habits requires us to start from the little things and details around us. It requires us to be strict with ourselves, form good behavior habits and cultivate them. First of all, college students should be clear about their own quality training and always show the good qualities that college students should have. For example, in public, we should pay attention to our words and deeds, always observe public order, and maintain inner self-cultivation; Secondly, we should start from the small things around us, honor the elders at home, take the initiative to do what we can, and listen to the teachings of our parents and elders; At school, respect teachers, be polite to others, unite classmates, help each other, and actively participate in various beneficial activities; In the community, respect the old and love the young, be honest and trustworthy, care for the environment, abide by social morality, and strive to be civilized citizens. Only by standardizing your words and deeds can you lead by example to convince others, influence others with your words and deeds, and make contributions to creating a civilized living environment. (Mechanical Wang Qi) "Be cautious in words and deeds" * * Building a library civilization Hugo said that "books are tools to cultivate the soul", then the library is the place closest to the human soul, bearing astronomical geography and connecting the past, present and future. It stands solemnly and proudly on campus and is the spiritual home of knowledge seekers. It strictly considers everyone in the museum. In the library environment, the slightest uncivilized behavior will be magnified. Therefore, in the library, we must be "cautious in words and deeds". First of all, we should have high respect for the staff of the museum. Secondly, you should go into the museum lightly. Maybe at any moment, carelessness will interrupt others' thinking or inspiration. Furthermore, when we go to the library together, we must avoid talking loudly, try not to discuss, and whisper when discussing. In addition, we should also protect the books in the library, don't scribble, don't fold and tear them, and don't throw them about. The library is a place where we can swim in the ocean of learning, and we should give it a quiet and harmonious atmosphere. (Mechanical and Electrical Cai Hongchun) Starting from small things to achieve the unity of knowledge and practice and develop good behavior habits requires us to start from small things and cultivate personal high quality in life, study, work and labor. Change the uncivilized behaviors and habits in our daily life, insist on focusing on the big picture and starting from the small things. At the same time, we should not just shout slogans, but also insist on starting from ourselves, starting from the side, being brave in being a supervisor, daring to stop, actively discouraging and helping others correct uncivilized behavior habits. We should also put civilization into action, such as obeying traffic laws and not running red lights when crossing the road; When eating, consciously queue up, arrange tableware, and throw garbage into the trash can; When talking with people, use polite language, etc Many people are not satisfied with these seemingly easy things. In real life, it often happens that you criticize other people's uncivilized habits, be impassioned and complain, and it's your turn to go your own way. This disconnect between knowledge and practice is a problem that we must face. If you want to develop good behavior habits and be a civilized person, you must unify your cognition and behavior, and don't be a giant of language and a dwarf of action. Therefore, we should start from small things and achieve the unity of knowledge and action. (Art Jin Fang) Mutual supervision * * * Building a civilized campus and mutual supervision are the best ways for us to develop good behavior habits. In life, we always throw rubbish on the ground intentionally or unintentionally for our own convenience. If other students take the initiative to persuade and stop the uncivilized phenomenon on campus in time, the campus environment and appearance of our school will certainly be greatly improved. Especially in the dormitory, if roommates can supervise each other, the dormitory environment will definitely be greatly improved. On the road next to the school basketball court, civilized persuaders will stand at every intersection. What they advocate is that we should have a sense of mutual supervision, so as to form a good habit of keeping the environment clean and tidy. If the supervision work is supported and cooperated by students, mutual supervision among students can be gradually formed, which will play a more positive role in promoting students to develop good civilization and habits and creating a civilized and harmonious campus environment. ("Vocational College Youth" Xu Junjie) Students' cooperation * * * Advocating civilized habits is not innate, but acquired. The cultivation of good civilized habits requires your efforts. Good civilized habits are not only the needs of modern society, but also the cornerstone of campus civilization, and also contribute to the improvement of our own quality. Through mutual supervision and joint efforts with classmates, we can gradually put an end to uncivilized phenomena such as littering fruits and skins and fruit scraps on campus. Creating a civilized environment on campus starts with me. I don't do small things, even if it's a small gesture, such as taking the tableware to the designated place actively after dinner, dumping the food and putting it away in categories. The classmates who are with you will also be infected by you, and over time they will form civilized habits together. Habits can also be infected. As long as we have good behavior habits, make our own efforts to create a civilized campus environment, spread word by word, and form a virtuous circle, all of us will have good civilized habits. Invisibly, our quality will be improved, and the civilized atmosphere of the school will also be improved. (Che Zhouchengpu) The power of example should not be underestimated. The behavior of young people is easily influenced by role models. So we can use the power of example to influence everyone and develop good behavior habits. A role model is not necessarily an idol or a celebrity, because too high a goal can easily make people feel out of reach. In fact, there are many classmates around us. Their words and deeds are civilized and decent, and they are quiet in the library and study room and do not disturb others' study. Consciously line up in the canteen, and don't leave tableware and food residue on the table after meals; Obey order in other public places, don't spit everywhere, don't make a noise, and pick up the garbage on your own initiative ... These seemingly insignificant things reflect a person's cultivation. They are examples for us to learn and follow. Maybe they are just ordinary students now, but with good cultivation and high quality, they will be appreciated by more people. (Telecom/Auto Liao)