Comments on Please Say I'm Beautiful (1): May she be good and always be good.
Sister Qi is the first person I pay attention to when I eat rice. At that time, Weibo was a new thing, fresh and noisy. Rice is a dusty old house, quiet and lifeless, and it also has an unexplained sense of security.
At that time, I had a crush on someone in my heart, so depressed that I almost twisted my heart. I write about people I like every day. I only pay attention to Qi's sister. The years when I started being alone in solo.
Often when I am complaining, I can see a few harsh words from Seventh Sister, which makes me excited. In my little world, there are only my rice and her rice, constantly making a spring-like simple harmonic motion between depression and malicious words. This man is really interesting, I think.
At that time, she had a boyfriend, who appeared in this book. His name was Boyfriend No.1. I still remember that boy said in Weibo that he was a teenager and would sit under the eaves and soak his feet in the rain. Well, onlookers always have better memories.
When did you stop being a bystander?
It was the first year that I returned to China after going abroad. The first time I met a net friend, I met Qi Jie and Huang Rose. In short, I was a little stiff at that meal, and I was not sure whether to eat it with my left hand or my right hand, which was more comfortable.
The chaos continued until the second time, when we went to eat kebabs that night. As for ordering, I'm from learned helplessness. There were just three people that night, so I don't need to order.
Sister Qi sat next to me, consciously resisting the task of ordering food. She picked up the menu, called the waiter, and said confidently, twenty strings, ten tendons and ten ribs, and two chicken wings. I just silently affirmed her order in my mind ... I saw her patting the menu on the table, with bright eyes like ink, but very gentle way: I have eaten so much, please order yours.
This is the first time I have been greatly frightened inside. From that moment on, the image of Sister Qi suddenly became clear in my mind. She has delicate facial features, a high nose and a small mouth. She is really beautiful. Then I thought that she could eat twenty skewers, ten tendons and two chicken wings by herself. She must be a good person.
Later, I had an unforgettable feeling.
When I was madly in love, I recorded my love while eating, and even I wanted to write as if there were colorful fireflies flying in the world.
After breaking up, I almost recovered from the pain. I cry and talk when I eat every day.
In this book, the third chapter is: What can I do if I am lovelorn?
Although I haven't been troubled by this for a long time, I still can't help reading this chapter first. I seldom talk to Qi Jie about her emotional state, even if it is superficial, it is just a matter of stopping. Like you, all the nodes of her love are felt from the bits and pieces of rice. I never dared to ask, for fear that she would be as embarrassed as me when she mentioned it.
So I want to see how the Seventh Sister, whom I vaguely know, came over in the past. Among them, I saw some people who were right, such as uncle seafood, and bosses who didn't want to be named. She was upset, she laughed, she cried, she collapsed, she was relieved, and she became better.
She wrote down all the past, all the sadness and unbearable confessions. Not the kui is a qi elder sister, or that year can speak with malicious intent and warmth, or always face qi elder sister, or my brave qi elder sister.
The ending is a * * *.
Sister qi once invited me to sleep at her house, and I forgot why. Anyway, I received a gift from Sister Qi: a white one.
Haha, why should I choose such a meaningless thing to say? In a word, this white * * * is worn out and can't be worn any more. But it should also echo the feelings of Qi's sister. If something is not used well, it will really be yours.
In recent years, I have had little direct conversation with Seventh Sister, but more mutual rape at dinner. More than three sentences at a time, the topic will always lead to white. Ha, although we don't often meet or get together, this white * * * makes me feel that we have never been apart.
Finally,
May she be healthy, and may she be healthy forever.
Comments on Please Call Me Beautiful (II): I'm not afraid of whether I'm qualified or not. Please call me beauty!
This is a book I finished reading in a coffee shop. It took three hours.
After reading this book, my first feeling is that the words are sharp but direct. It was this book that made me feel disappointed for the first time that it was "good-looking". Nowadays, it seems that "beauty" has become the last word. For example, if you are good-looking, your treatment and opportunities will be higher than ordinary people, which seems to be a fact recognized by most of us.
What impressed me the most was the smiling executioner written by the author.
I think, in many people's youth, there will be a boy or a girl who is bullied by all her classmates because of her ugly appearance and poor academic performance. I am no exception. I remember there was such a girl in our class in the fifth grade of primary school. I don't know if it's because she was born with heredity or because she didn't protect her well when she was a child. When she looks at people, she always squints and is quiet, but she always whispers. People in the class always say that she is mentally ill and has poor academic performance. She is often laughed at by many people in her class. Sometimes, students will bully her even more, and the means of bullying is beyond your imagination.
For a whole year, as the author said, her name was always mentioned deliberately, replaced by eyes and snickers. Even people often treat her as a doormat and pinch her arm every time she stops in the toilet. I remember very clearly that she didn't tell the teacher, so she could only cry quietly on her desk.
Contrary to what the author said, we didn't smile at each other for a moment, because I was an extremely inferior and quiet person in primary school and even junior high school. I'm not a monitor, so I can't strike the table to save her when everyone laughs at her, and I can't be nice to her, like the author.
Now think about it, at that time, I was also weak. I dare not help her, let alone stand up for her. After all, I am also afraid of revenge. At that time, fighting seemed to be something that everyone was proud of.
Later, the sixth grade was divided into classes. Students who live outside are in the old campus and students who live in the new campus. I never saw her again.
As a classmate for one year, I have seen almost all her painful side and hardly seen her smile. In fact, I really want to say sorry to her. Sorry, I am a cold-blooded bystander. I'm really sorry that I didn't stand up once when you were bullied.
In junior high school, I went to study in the city. I went home once in the second grade and attended a so-called primary school party. I overheard her news. Classmate A said she was crazy. Ragged, carrying a black snakeskin bag all day, picking up garbage to eat in the street. After classmate A finished speaking, many people laughed, and some even kept saying that they deserved it. Others are gossiping about her family, saying that her family is poor, her father sweeps the streets, and her mother is mentally ill. .....
I didn't speak. I looked up and looked at everyone quietly. It was a trance. I was thinking that such a group of * * * are actually my classmates. These people are really ugly, from the inside out, ugly. They have done the most vicious things, but they never consider themselves executioners.
After returning home, I didn't say anything, so I deleted all these students and the class group withdrew.
Now that I think about it, I should have scolded myself to wake myself up. They are wrong, so am I, and I am also an indifferent executioner.
It has been many years, and now I am going to graduate from college. I still remember it. I haven't seen her since the placement. But it seems to be the darkest and most worrying thing in my heart. I sincerely hope that everything will be all right with her.
It seems to be beside the point. I'm sorry
We have heard many facts. As the author said, the principle of bared one's teeth, now layers of skin have fallen off and healed, and it has become my flesh and blood.
Whether it is qualified or not, I am not afraid.
No matter how hysterical we have experienced, we still have a bright life when we wake up. Every step we take is beautiful.
Always be confident and feel beautiful and full of energy.
Then, I will sincerely say to you: you are so beautiful!
Please Say I'm Beautiful (3) Comments: Everyone is the most beautiful self.
It took me two hours to finish reading the book "Please call me beautiful". This kind of prose book has a magic power. No matter what age you are, you will feel something. I especially like this kind of book, not to mention the exquisite packaging, which is especially to my taste, hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe.
After reading this book, I fell in love with its author. The starting point is Shandong sister, which makes me feel familiar. I'm from Shandong, too, and I feel very close to Shandong people when I come out of college.
Well, these are my personal feelings. I like the author because of her three views. After reading her book, I feel that everything between the lines has brought her confidence, as if the life she met is very beautiful and my attitude towards life is very similar.
What I like most is her opinion. As a girl, I have gained ten pounds since I went to college. In my opinion, the author is a successful person and has lost 20 Jin. I really envy him, but the author doesn't think so. I was a little anxious before reading the author's book, yes, because I lost weight, but after reading the author's book, I was relieved. The author says, you have to accept yourself, you are you. Don't attribute everything to losing weight. Losing weight does bring benefits, but losing weight is not everything. You still have your own life, and health is the most important thing. You are the most beautiful.
To tell the truth, after reading the author's book, I went to eat a spicy meal, hahahaha. But as for myself, I'm really happy. At least I am sitting in front of the computer, happily typing this book review.
Because I especially agree with the author's point of view, everyone has shortcomings, but the angle of beauty is different. There is no need to cover up their shortcomings all the time. Didn't the Tang Dynasty still regard obesity as beauty?
As a native of Shandong, I know how fierce the competition in Shandong is, not how developed Shandong is, but his education. As a native of Shandong, it is a great thing for me to be admitted to Shandong University. And the author has been sitting on what he likes and making a living with words. It seems to me that this is someone else's child.
The author's writing style is excellent, concise and easy to read, and the article has clear ideas.
What I like best is the author's positive attitude towards life and optimism about love. Although life in this world can't always be happy, there will be many disappointments and setbacks. When I began to realize that this is life, my attitude was bound to be negative, but the author was not. I see hope here, which is an optimistic and hopeful attitude towards life. This is what I like and what I deserve to learn.
I have always liked this kind of prose books, because I can really learn a lot in a relaxed way, and I have benefited a lot from the author's books. Really, I hope everyone will support the author's new book at the starting point, which is beautifully packaged and don't let us down!
The most beautiful air cushion writer, you are the most beautiful hahahaha.
I hope everyone has a clear goal and a positive and optimistic life.
Everyone * * * encourages.
Reflections on Please Say I'm Beautiful (IV): Be beautiful all your life and grow up happily.
Red, representing enthusiasm, vitality and blooming, is a bright color, a feeling of summer, a color of "please say I am beautiful" and Qi Dian himself.
Recently, I read many inspirational stories about women's growth, from Mi Meng, papi sauce, Xin Shu Hu to Becky Li, and then to Qidian. In the Internet age, more media platforms make women shine. They don't have to deal with men who are the main force in the workplace, and they don't have to spend too much energy in many social occasions. They can make themselves shine behind the screen with their clever minds, which is enough for them to have thousands of fans. Such a woman is independent, talented and beautiful, and lives a rich and complacent life.
It is also the object of secret research in many women's hearts.
Some people call it poisoned chicken soup. It feels good when I read it, and every sentence hits the point. After reading it, I calmed down and found that the bugs in the text were constant and even illogical.
I have to admit that "Please call me beautiful" can also be classified as chicken soup, but the difference is that Qi Dian's way is a bit wild, and she has uncovered the pit behind her writing for a living without regret. No wonder she used to be famous as an "internet celebrity" because she was bold and provocative. Exquisite, interesting and chic are independent, and the word warm and spicy is a bowl of thick soup that she spent seven years cooking. It's delicious, but it's absolutely nutritious!
It is mentioned in the book that "Please Say I am Beautiful" is the first published work in the true sense, and it is a sincere work after the ups and downs of life and serious reflection after the first playful work. These words can be regarded as the author's 27-year conversation with her in childhood and adolescence, and also as the pillow talk of thousands of women who grew up alone in Qian Qian.
"Please Say I'm Beautiful" selects five parts of life, which are Qi Dian's "pure emotional expression", which can be regarded as her Twitter and Qi Dian, which is well known in Weibo and WeChat official accounts; The second part, as an adult's perception of independent life, is more rational and objective, and it is also the most valuable part of this book. The third thing is love, which is also the favorite part of many female readers. The author gives some useful practices in the book to help everyone learn love and love. The fourth part is the story of eat drink man woman, which is the most interesting, because it is always inevitable. Finally, the story of the author and her friend echoes the beginning and is closer to life.
After reading this book, I feel that the most poking people are roughly the following two points:
"My lover is a world hero." This is a point she talked about in the first chapter, which is very enlightening.
Remembering talking about career and marriage with a screenwriter and author friend two days ago, I asked her, "Do you think it is more important for a girl to have her own career, or is it better to meet a good man at the right age and marry him?"
The friend answered without thinking, everything is important.
I was speechless for a moment. Such a good thing, how can a person have such good luck?
So if you want to meet one day, please let her talk to me.
I didn't feel suddenly enlightened until I read the experience in "Odd Canon" today.
People often say that "the best love is evenly matched". I don't understand. It's rare to meet someone who loves you. Why not cherish it? But to calculate carefully. But the deeper you understand, the more you agree. Love is emotional. Time has passed, and two people have encountered great and small difficulties and setbacks. It is hard to say that their enthusiasm will not be erased. At this point, the ability to say "Never mind, have me" can make the other person feel that he loves the right person better than Qian Qian's 10,000 story words. Only in this way can two people who are very familiar with each other respect and love each other for decades.
This is what Qi Dian called "worship". In any kind of emotion, worship is a force that cannot be ignored, especially love. The beautiful image of the goddess will eventually be shattered in the daily necessities. Only by worshipping this inner feeling can people be warm forever. In this light, even if the other person is sloppy and untidy, it must be extremely cute in your eyes.
"Pursuing a free life is more important than meeting other people's standards." I also have a girl who is similar to Qidian. She is beautiful and talented. She was beautiful and in good shape when she was young. In addition, being a hostess has brought her many benefits. After graduation, she earned a little money from the official WeChat account by writing stories, allowing her to enjoy her enthusiasm in the industry she likes but the salary is not high. She can travel and study. Up to now, because the industry she loves has repeatedly let her down, she plans to take piano as a sideline.
This is really a true example of "I am most afraid that someone is more beautiful and talented than you and works harder than you".
After listening to her thoughts, I can't help but exclaim, isn't this the life I want? There is a lot of talent in exchange for freedom. She can't help but feel sad when she thinks that she has a unique advantage. Before, because she broke up with her ex-boyfriend, she doubted herself from all sides. Is she not good enough? Now, after several years, I finally understand that it is not that I am not good enough, but that I am not the right person. I was unwilling to compromise at that time. Love is love, that is, I have to take care of myself without any benefits. So, think clearly about how you want to live and what you like in the future, and then try to achieve it.
To this end, she can play the piano for six hours every day without getting tired, just to get a certificate as soon as possible and become a piano teacher.
On the other hand, many people may feel that they are not good-looking, and they are always brushed off by this world of looking at faces, but people with a little knowledge will know that looks are a stepping stone, not a diploma. It is the right thing to choose a point of interest and keep doing it until you have an irreplaceable advantage.
As the author said in the preface, this book is a "certificate" that can be held in your hand.
Oh, let a man with spirit take risks where he wants to go, and never point his golden cup at the moon empty! . In good times, you must make yourself shine, look good and be talented. Take your own life path and become a better self, and you will be glad that you have come and will not waste your life.
Whether it is a group interview or a debate contest, the purpose of investigation is the quality of candidates as professional managers, not the debate skills.