65,438+0,000% will be a successful man with no ambition.

-Venus, not me.

See if a man is enterprising, and compare whether this man is the same as or worse than five years ago. The contrast is income. It's not that his emotional intelligence is not high, it's not that his skill in coaxing women has improved-it's not that there are many tricks to coax women.

In short, it is the improvement of strength, not some soft power. The so-called soft power is emotional intelligence, social interaction, and how to be affectionate and righteous. I just can't see the ability to solve problems for my life. Men must think that they can solve real problems in life, not how much you brag.

It is better to brag than to brag. You can't afford a full house. After paying the down payment, you have to borrow it from others. Then this man has no strength to make money at all. Or even if you make money, you can spend it directly.

When looking for a man, a woman should never find a useless man, especially a man who speaks with a tone of-say whatever he wants. It's no use. Unless that's who you are. If you are such a woman, so is the man you are looking for.

Don't encourage each other, don't worry about each other. Don't believe what the other person says. Because poor men have no credibility and business sense, even if you see opportunities to make money, they are too lazy to try.

Can the flowers in the greenhouse compare with the businessmen who have been struggling in the wild for 10 years? Business needs to accumulate money, and he has to do business since he was very young. Instead of waiting for them to go into business in their thirties and forties.

Why can women in their early twenties be shaped? Because of being young. World outlook, outlook on life, and values can all be influenced-and the other person is thirty or forty years old, how can you influence it? It's no use. It's okay. I tried, more than once.

They make money in their heads as comfortably as possible. When and where to go during the holidays, when to punch in at Wenheyou on weekends, and so on. These people did it.

Why can rich people make money? Because it creates value for society wholeheartedly. Go shoot short videos and write articles. To help more people. Write a program. These are creative jobs—

The work of the poor is boring. Are highly repetitive tasks. This kind of work has no future-it will definitely be replaced.

It depends on 10 years later or 20 years later.

So-if you are an ambitious woman and want to live a happy life, you must not find a picky man. If you do it once, you will do it all your life. After tasting it, you will find that this man is a pile of rubbish.

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Don't marry insecure women, let alone have children with them.

-Venus, not me.

An insecure woman, no matter how much money and care you give, she will think that you are not doing well enough. Even if you are rich and you like this woman very much, don't fall in love, get married or have children with each other.

Don't even have sex with each other-there is no shortage of women when you have money. Even if you are not very rich, you can't marry an insecure woman. Because in the eyes of insecure women, all men are not worthy of him.

Especially women who have suffered from domestic violence-such women can't marry home. Marrying home is the beginning of bankruptcy. Even if there is no money at home, it will lose a lot of time and energy. Of course, this is not to discriminate against women who have suffered domestic violence, but to say that such women need you to pay more-

If you are an ordinary man and you find an ordinary woman to live with, then your life is the life of an ordinary family. Women don't like you, but they can't help it. I'm also a female D-wire, so I have only myself to blame.

But if you find an insecure woman, you not only need to keep your job, but also need company. But you have to make money. You must work. What do you eat when you are not at work? Right?

When a rich man finds an insecure woman, that woman is a vampire. Will continue to suck your blood until one day your company goes bankrupt, and then the other party will find the next man. It's not that you are not good enough, but that you have the wrong woman.

Rich people are looking for women who know themselves, not for a Lafayette who has to wait on women every day. If the business stops, the money will be gone. Then you can only consume wealth day by day.

Don't underestimate the talent of insecure women in spending money-if you earn 65438+ million a day, they can spend 65438+ million a day. You earn 1 10,000, and she will buy you a 5 million sports car tomorrow.

Brush your card, use your resources, and quarrel with you every day. She went shopping after the quarrel, and then you were stupid. I'm not in the mood to do business and make money-

Never underestimate an insecure woman. In their eyes, men are sex tools, men pay the bill, and men are ATM machines.

Just one word-let you keep spending money. Because an insecure person can only maintain the so-called sense of security by constantly spending money.

Money is hard to earn, but shit tastes bad. You ate all the shit, you pretended to be a grandson in front of the client, and she pretended to be outside. Who can stand this?

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Few people who are madly in love outside the society are good people.

-Venus, not me.

No matter whether it is a man or a woman, as long as this person is madly in love in society, there are few good people. In their minds-women just need to constantly find excellent men and fall in love with different men to have a sense of existence.

But when you are not particularly good, you can only meet people who are worse than you. You can't meet a good man. Excellent people don't make friends with lower-class women, fall in love, and even less sleep with them.

This is just a way for many women at the bottom to brush their sense of existence with ordinary people. So-they care what their circle of friends looks like. It takes 40 minutes to retouch a photo. They were never so serious in high school.

This is the way of thinking of poor women.

I have always believed that building a good circle of friends can only be seen by the rich generation.

They have no idea that the rich don't brush friends. They read industry news related to their enterprises every day. Only when you are full and have nothing to do-the rich second generation has time to think about what is in your circle of friends.

Because he wants to talk to you and let you know that he is paying attention to you. They will know your life better than themselves. For what?

Just so that one day you can ask P out, just for free sex. If you have time, I will let you be his girlfriend, and then serve his clothes and be his nanny. You still have to worry about whether this man has a spare tire.

There is no doubt about it. Am I playing rich second generation with you? I'm kidding.

There is a saying that you don't have to be a bastard if you have resources.

Of course, the rich second generation are looking for the same women as the women at the bottom. All love idiots-all idiots.

For men who are constantly in love in society-the same is true. They fell madly in love before they got home to get married. The purpose is not to get married, but to sleep with more women.

Because poor men don't have much resources and don't know many people, they can only keep falling in love. Constantly improve their position in the opposite sex-because most ordinary women and women at the bottom think that if a man has never talked about more than five women, it means that this man is poor-meaningless.

But you should know that a man's Excellence is not determined by how many women you talk about, but by his career. Career is the standard to determine whether a man is good or not.

So-don't look for people who have been changing boyfriends and girlfriends, because these people are very idle and full.

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In the world of poor women, there is only consumption, which has no value to society.

-Venus, not me.

The only value is that they have devoted their youth to all undertakings.

Many poor people like to think about whether they should buy a car to treat themselves-after all, they work hard, usually have to work overtime and go home late. They all think so.

They never think-monthly salary 1 10,000, what will they give back if they buy a car?

Give it back to your boyfriend Life is so good, meeting a man who pays for himself. At least you have to be good-looking and a rich second generation, and then he will buy you a car and pay back the car loan. But only if you buy a car in your name.

Why are you doing this?

Just to prevent one day, the relationship between you will break down, and then you will pay back the loan for this car.

Don't think that the rich second generation is stupid, thinking that they will give you something worth 65,438+10,000 for a short-term development woman. Except that they will send you tens of thousands of bags to beg, no.

Rent you an upscale apartment at most, so that you can install it better.

But I rented it in your name. So that one day, your relationship breaks down and you can fly away.

Or one day he breaks his word, so that he can break with you quickly. Or he's looking for another woman. If you argue with him, he can just walk away.

Whether it's a car or a house, you must rent it-because he doesn't regard you as a long-term development object at all. You're just the woman he saw in the bar several times. When he looks at you, he also looks at other women.

Don't try to control a man whose financial ability is beyond your endurance.

Did the man earn his own money or did his parents give it to him?

Because you can't control it. Unless you are richer than him, you are richer than his family. If you were richer than his family, you wouldn't be looking for a rich second generation. You will go to the rich generation.

It is precisely because of your poor conditions that you will find a rich second generation if you don't work hard to make money. You will be a fishing girl. Hooking up with women means asking for money-all in the guise of affection.

Only by reducing women's desire for consumption can you not suffer emotionally. You keep taking chances and asking for what you want. You just give your sex, then everyone you get is scum.

As trees are, so are fruits. You are a consumerist, so you meet someone who is incompetent. Because capable people don't visit luxury brand stores four or five times a year, it is very difficult for capable people to make money.

Don't think that you are a consumer, what is your value? Your only value to you is to amplify your consumption desire. But your strength doesn't allow you to enlarge, so you will keep looking for new men who are willing to pay for you.

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Why do poor women think they are important?

Because they value their sexual and reproductive values too much.

-Venus, not me.

Of course, sexual and reproductive values are very important. Because men can't have children anyway, at least within the scope permitted by law. If a man wants to have children, he must find a woman and cooperate with each other to have children.

Otherwise, if you don't cooperate, you will be strong, and then others will tell you that you will never get rid of your criminal record. Maybe you'll spend the rest of your life in prison. After that, you will never find anyone who is willing to have children with you in your life. Who will have children with a strong jian criminal?

Of course, most men don't make this mistake. No one with a little knowledge of law can do it.

In other words, if a man wants a child, he must find a woman to have a reasonable and legal birth together. Although only women can have children, when you pay too much attention to your sexual and reproductive values, you will find that you can't find a good man-because good men don't lack sexual and reproductive values.

Rich men don't lack women, they lack high-quality women. What is missing is a woman who understands him. It's not just for grass. Only the poor. They are with a woman, and all they want is her body. What you need when you are young is more women's bodies, so poor men will keep changing women.

Because they attach great importance to a woman's sexual value, on the contrary, they don't attach much importance to reproductive value. Because they won't let that woman have children for themselves unless they are married. But if the poor want to get married, they have to give a bride price, a house and a car, so that a woman will marry you.

Otherwise, it goes without saying that I won't sleep with you.

So-short selection is different from long selection.

The short-term choice of poor men needs sexual value, and the long-term choice needs sexual value and reproductive value. For the short-term election-a poor man won't get a woman pregnant, and even if he does, he will let you abort-not because you are not married-but because he hasn't had enough fun.

Poor people like to play. Look at those people who go to nightclubs hungry. Besides the rich second generation, there are also poor men pretending to compete.

I have seen many poor people go to bars to drink, just to fight for drinks there and then fight there. Just to drink. Especially when some rich second generation invited them. That wine is not wine, just like drinking water.

It is because others pay for it that they spend their lives drinking there. You can only open your eyes by drinking, and you are still drinking.

Of course, there must be women when these men drink. Because I went straight to my room after drinking.

For this kind of man, sex is a consumer product. It costs nothing. When it comes to marriage, women will give birth to his children. So give the bride price and the house and the car. They want these because they are poor.

For men with money, fame and status, women would rather be mistresses. As long as you can have children, you can have nothing. Because you have money, fame and social status. Cars, houses and bride price can all be saved.

Different people treat each other in different ways.

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Why do college students buy cars less than a year after graduation?

If you can't afford a house, you can only buy a car for comparison.

-Venus, not me.

No matter what you buy, jewelry, diamond ring or car. All you buy are consumer goods. Consumer goods are this thing, and it's no use if you buy more. Even if your family bought a 10 ton diamond ring, it would be of no use to you. Why?

Because it's worthless to you-you're not talking about business, you're not creating wealth, you're spending it. You talk about business in order to make more money. Buying a car is a consumption, especially when you don't have much money.

Because what's the use of buying a car if you just graduated from college for a year? Isn't it just for your friends and family? How much can I earn after graduation for one year? Are you talking business? Most of them work for one year after graduation. The monthly salary is 8000-

For this kind of people, it is the most important thing to try to do a sideline job and do their own job well. There is no need to buy things everywhere.

If you really want to enjoy driving, just rent a car for a few months and you will get all the insurance. It won't cost much. Don't need a few 65438+ million.

Today, a woman posted on the Internet, asking 1.6 thousand to buy Honda Civic or 220 thousand to buy Accord. Then he said that he was a poor student and had just graduated for a year. The difference between the two cars is 60 thousand yuan. And she can't save this 60 thousand yuan in a year.

I'm curious-why does a woman who can't save 60 thousand a year buy a 220 thousand Accord? Then there is only one possibility, that is, buying a car is to match the purpose-because buying a car can be 0 down payment.

Why not buy a house? There is no deposit for buying a house-because you need to pay a 30% down payment. At least 65438+ ten thousand down payment is required.

And there seems to be no pressure to buy a car-because of the 0 down payment. But you will be more and more stressed in the future. Besides, you are a recent college graduate.

He also said that he was a poor student. I don't think he is poor at all. Who can afford a 220,000 car? Will the poor buy 220 thousand cars? I thought the poor were buying houses to make money. Of course-maybe the values are different.

Probably a post-95 s, just graduated for a year, at least 23 years old. Sure enough, young people are different this year. Enjoy first, then consider the future.

In retrospect, it seems that it was the same when I came to Shenzhen. But I paid the price for my original judgment. I just hope that more young people will not covet enjoyment, but create more value and make their spare time useful. At least it's better than driving out to pretend

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What's so hard about losing weight? Making money is the hardest.

It is difficult to turn white, but it is difficult to make money.

What's so hard about being beautiful? Making money is the hardest.

-Venus, not me.

Whether it is white, thin or beautiful, it can be washed off with money. It's just that you train for three hours today and continue to train for three hours tomorrow, day after day. Of course, if you can't insist on it yourself, then you can sign up for a private class-let others practice with you.

Private education classes are essentially for lazy people, because anyone who really wants to lose weight can learn and train by himself. You don't need to spend any money. Just practicing. Now there are many tutorials on the Internet that can be compared and practiced.

Then many people will say-no. You used to eat when you were a child. Now you will. You couldn't walk and drive before, but now you can. You should not only know how to drive your own car, but also know how to drive a company car-why? Forced.

If you don't drive with a driver's license, the company has to assign a driver to everyone.

If you were the boss, would you do it or not? Of course you wouldn't do that. One month's driver fee can save 1 10,000 or more. One year is more than1.2000. 120,000 yuan is used to treat employees to dinner. Isn't it delicious? Can't it be used to give bonuses to employees?

Do you have to spend money to find someone to drive if you have free coolies?

Who is more stupid than who? Off-topic-if you haven't learned to drive, go and learn to drive. You'd better get a driver's license at school and come out to work-I didn't take it until I graduated. It took a long time. ——

Some people say they can drive-isn't that a cheap boss? Then why don't you think so-you can't drive in the company and you can't practice driving skills. You can't even drive for the boss.

Don't be afraid to scratch the terrible boss's car. If the boss asks you to drive, drive boldly.

People should not always think about not letting others take advantage of themselves, because you have advantages to take advantage of. This means that you are valuable.

When people ask you if you can drive, you say nothing. When someone asks you if you can ride a bike, you say no, and who will drive with you in the future-you are a co-pilot who enjoys it.

You might as well take a dog-at least dogs can make you happy. Don't you think so?

So-many times it's not impossible, but there's no reason to meet. You can't lose weight because you don't lose weight seriously-you don't need to spend money-but many people can't lose weight. Whitening didn't work because you didn't spend enough money.

You can do it at any time, whether you are white or thin-because it's simple. It's easy to find a private tutor, just spend money. I can also chat with you. If you have a crush on each other, you can still have sex.

But becoming rich and making money is always the hardest. Because making money is a reasonable and legal way to get others to give you money voluntarily.

I like what Ke Yang said in Nothing More than Thirty-there is no money in the market, but it depends on how you put it in your pocket reasonably and legally.

If people want to mature first, they must challenge the most difficult thing-making money.