First of all, on the one hand, it is mainly aimed at female college students. Everyone relishes that getting married and having children during college directly promotes this step in life. When looking for a job in the future, it is very attractive to employers, eliminating the need for marriage leave and maternity leave. In addition, because of being young, it is easy to restore the state and shape of the body after getting married and having children, and because the children are early and the parents are still young, they can help with the children.
But personally, I think the disadvantages outweigh the advantages. Why is there such a conclusion? Based on three factors:
1, impact study
When you get married in college, especially once you have children, children and families will take up a considerable part of their energy and can't complete their studies wholeheartedly at all. Especially for girls, pregnancy and breastfeeding are very difficult processes, and it is basically impossible to take care of their studies at the same time.
2. Double oppression of material and psychological pressure.
Once they get married and have children, college students complete the transformation of their roles in life and begin to shoulder the burden of family. However, college students themselves are still a group that needs to rely on their parents, and they do not have the ability to raise children and maintain family economic expenses. Unless the family itself has a good economic foundation, the material pressure is beyond imagination.
More serious is psychological pressure. The students around me are just students, so it's enough to worry about studying. For married people, we should always remind ourselves that they have different identities and can't enjoy school time as they please.
Maybe you will regret it later.
During college, students' psychology is not yet mature, and many decisions they make are also passionate and not well thought out. Love in college is simple and beautiful, but is it suitable for a lifetime? I believe many college students have not considered it, so once they graduate and enter the society, they may regret their choice.
Getting married and having children is a very serious matter. You should ask yourself if you are ready, not on impulse.