The biggest difference between a university and a job candidate is that they are divorced from the illusory and professional reality and have an unspeakable feeling in the university. At that time, I thought that love meant that men were afraid of death and women didn't love money. Just find someone who really loves you. In this life, I must marry love, or spend my life with someone she doesn't marry.

After groping in the society for a while, I think bread is more practical. At this time, I often think that this person is suitable for me in the first place, not that he loves me or that I love him or not.

I have heard two views on the concept of love:

The first is the vigorous love in college. The reason is that this is the last time to keep a pure and flawless relationship, without any modification, without so much consideration and scruples, not material, not family, not suitable or not.

The second is to find your other half after entering the society. The reason is that it is more stable, more realistic and more practical. A large number of couples who graduated from college will have to go back to their hometown or even work and live in different places. In the face of long-distance love, it is easy to break up. After all, we still have to go our separate ways. We are just passers-by in life.

Come to think of it, both statements make sense, and I was once confused. Reality is always cruel, and the galloping of the times brings not only social changes, but also materialistic greed and changes in people's hearts. Darwin's "natural selection, survival of the fittest" now seems really right. Not only love, but also friendship and affection are sometimes really fragile.