First, be clear about your goals. Knowing what you want, you won't do things blindly after you have a clear goal. For example, if you want to be an asset appraiser in the future, whether you study, make friends or participate in activities, you will move closer to this aspect. When you graduate, you will have a deeper understanding of this industry. Is this not good?
Second, don't refuse to experience. Take part in more activities, meet more people and read more books. There are various activities, competitions, clubs and voluntary services in universities. If you determine one or several of them, do it in a down-to-earth manner and experience it with your heart. When you accumulate to a certain extent, you will find that the investment you have used before is worthwhile. Knowing people will broaden your horizons, especially those who are taller than you. When you get to know them, you will realize what it means to listen to you and study for ten years. Needless to say, people who read a lot have profound self-restraint and behave differently from shallow people.
Third, go out for a walk more, and don't wait until later to regret it. Your college classmates must be distributed all over China. After four years in college, I will go to a distant place at least once a year. Traveling can make people forget their troubles and feel better. College courses are not very tense. Go out and look at the local customs, and you will find that the world is so big.
Fourth, strive to be excellent in one aspect and gain everyone's respect. College doesn't have to be social. You don't have to be rich to be recognized. You can study hard, be a student union leader, be talented in a certain field, or be a computer expert. In any case, Excellence in a certain aspect will definitely make you have an optimistic and confident attitude, which is the best way to overcome decadence.
Fifth, try to love someone. I haven't done this well, and there is nothing to guide. I can only say that love in college is quite simple compared with the social emphasis on the status of money. If you love someone, say it boldly. If you really love someone, cherish it. Maybe it wasn't ta who accompanied you to the end, but it was ta who accompanied you through your best years.
Finally, to form a sense of occupation, you should figure out what kind of work you will be engaged in in in the future, and then work towards this goal. Don't wait until the last minute to cram. It's best to have some ideas from the freshman year and find a suitable job after graduation. This university is meaningful.
Good luck!