In this world, many people's relationships are like falling out of the water. No one is right or wrong, but two people are moving at different speeds. Maybe one person is moving forward and the other person is waiting in the same place.
It is said that graduation season is breakup season, but why did you break up? Just because you can't see each other often in the future? What about long-distance love?
I think the real reason is that the job is different, the circle of friends is different and the environment is different. They are afraid that the speed of their own progress will be different in the future, that the gap between them will become bigger and bigger, that there will be no common topic in the future, and that they will become out of the water.
Jia Jia and I are in the graduation season.
At that time, when we were in middle school, we had a crush on each other, but our love was sweet and natural.
At that time, we didn't need sweet words or surprises. We just need a look that bows our heads, blushes and secretly delights for a while.
At that time, we didn't need a bunch of roses or a box of chocolates. As long as he gives me two peaches, we will feel so happy and warm.
At that time, we didn't need to eat big meals and seafood, and we didn't need to go to poetry and distant places. We just need to have a picnic by the nearby river on weekends. We feel so happy and satisfied.
At that time, we didn't need to consider buying a car or a house, nor did we need to consider daily necessities. We just need him to help me solve that math problem when I'm not in school. I think he's great and powerful.
At that time, we looked forward to the future, poetry and distance, and dreamed of us in the future, but in reality, we played carefree, contented and cheerful.
When we volunteered, we applied to different schools in the same place, and we met to play all over the country. During the four years in college, we went to Lijiang, romantic city, Dali, Tibet, which is the closest to heaven, and Mount Tai in other mountains, all of which were dwarfed. Go to Hainan, where the sea and sky are the same, and visit Grandpa Mao, whom everyone admires.
In order to go where we want to go, we do part-time jobs every weekend, save money when we earn it, and don't want to spend it indiscriminately. We will go to play together during the holiday. At that time, we will spend our hard-earned money naturally, contentedly and happily.
On each other's birthday, we will personally make a unique gift for each other, which is cheap but precious.
Graduation practice in senior year. Our majors are different, and the industries we choose are naturally different. I tell him every day how much sunshine there is in my field and how well the flue-cured tobacco grows. Every day, he tells me that the drawings have been changed again and again, and he wants to draw design drawings for people. We are busy with our own affairs and make rapid progress in our respective fields. We had an in-depth conversation.
A month, two months ... It's been a long time, and we find that our topics are getting less and less, and the distance is getting bigger and bigger. Slowly, we feel that we don't know each other and are strangers. The only thing that binds us together is the trivial things in life. Gradually, when we felt that the daily necessities were no longer romantic but troublesome, our quarrel came, the interval became shorter and shorter, and the quarrel became more and more fierce.
Finally, we broke up in the graduation season.
When we can't build a clear path, we have a crush on Chen Cang, but when we can openly fall in love, we resolutely go our separate ways.
In fact, it's not that we don't love, but that our love can't connect with the gap brought by growth.
We can no longer go hand in hand and grow at the same speed, so we become each other's water.
Flowers don't move when they land, and water flows in all directions when they land. In fact, I don't blame running water for being heartless, but they are not in the same circle. They have different ways. Natural, bitter.