People always pin the source of happiness on others, waiting for others to bring them happiness. But happiness is never brought by others. Happiness is earned and created by yourself.
Everyone has a different definition of happiness. Whether a woman can get happiness has nothing to do with the men around her, but depends on the woman herself.
Some women will not feel happy even if the people around them give her more love, and some women will be happy no matter who they are with.
As women, why is there such a big difference? The answer is simple, because women are different, especially in the internal aspects of personality. These differences lead to different results.
The road to happiness is the same, full of hardships and hardships. Only those who live a stable life can be close to happiness. So how can we spend it safely? It depends on the woman's own ability.
Whether it is love or marriage, the influence of women should not be underestimated. If a woman is good enough, happiness will not be far away. So it is conceivable that those women who can get happiness will not be too bad.
Xiaojing also knows several such women around him. They can not only attract men's attention, but also attract men's good feelings and bind men's hearts tightly. And they also use their own advantages to really get happiness.
After listening to their stories, everyone will understand that such women will be very happy no matter who they are with.
An independent and self-reliant woman
Lan Qinqin has just turned 25, but compared with her peers, she is much more mature and steady, mainly because she is independent and self-reliant.
Lan Qinqin started his own business from college. After graduation, while others were still looking for jobs, her career was on the right track. Her independence is admirable, and her self-improvement has also brought her unexpected gains.
There are not many independent and self-reliant women like her now. She has her own goals, knows what she wants, and can get it through her own efforts. No matter who she is with, it won't be too bad.
Independence and self-improvement is a beautiful and rare quality. An independent and self-reliant woman can be happy no matter who she is with or what difficulties lie ahead.
I just received an invitation from Lan Qinqin two days ago. Looking at her smiling face in the photo, I know this is the happiness she wants. Compared with others, she pays more and gets more.
Women, whether there is anyone behind you or not, should make themselves more independent and self-reliant. People in this life, the most reliable only themselves, women can be happy on their own.
Self-respecting and self-loving woman
Every woman should know how to love herself. Self-love is a woman's capital close to happiness. My friend Lin Shuyuan also got the happiness she wanted by self-love.
She used to be a bad girl in the eyes of others, and she can be with whoever is good to her. To many people, she is lovely, but she never feels happy.
By chance, she met someone who changed her life, that is, from this time on, she became self-respecting and self-loving, thus becoming a better self.
She will not give everything to men easily, but concentrate on herself and start learning and improving. Now, she writes well, often attends reading clubs, and exudes charming atmosphere from the inside out, which is also the reason why she met her favorite person and the best happiness in her life.
Self-respect and self-love are simple to say. Every woman will shout such a slogan, but it is too difficult to do it. If you are not careful, it is easy to get lost in the gentle village of men.
A woman who can truly respect herself will be happy no matter who she is with. Women bought this for themselves, and no one can take it away.
Women, don't forget your creativity.
What is not to forget your initiative? Everyone's initial heart is actually the same, just to be happy and make themselves better. Only those who can persist in this initial intention from beginning to end can truly get happiness.
Feng Xiaoyu lacked love since childhood, so when she grew up, her only pursuit was love, which was her initial intention and the driving force of her struggle.
Feng Xiaoyu knows that if she wants to be loved, she must make herself better, so she never stops moving forward and has been climbing the peak of her life.
Although she thought about giving up on the way forward, although there were shortcuts, she was Do not forget your initiative mind and didn't want to rely on others.
Don't forget your initiative, so as to achieve your ultimate goal. A woman with "Don't forget your initiative" will be happy no matter who she is with. Feng Xiaoyu is a vivid example.
Happiness is reserved for those who are prepared and have goals. Only when you don't forget your initiative and insist on being yourself can women get the happiness they dream of.