""Disciples ",sage training; The first filial piety, the second sincerity.
Letter. "The opening paragraph is the theme of roll call: first filial piety, second letter." Filial piety is the first virtue ",in ancient China, a.
Only by filial piety can a person gain a foothold in society, and only by treating his parents and relatives with filial piety can his reputation and social status be recognized and accepted by the world. In ancient times, when commenting on a person's character, the first thing to examine was his character and filial piety. The so-called "faith" means prudence, honesty and trustworthiness. Honesty is the basic principle of being a man. If a person lacks faith, it proves that his social life is over.
Knot, "People can't stand without faith." Look at the rules of the apprentice,
The whole article embodies two words, namely "filial piety" and "faithfulness", which are also the foundation of modern people. Teaching people to put filial piety first and establish a career by faith has brought people a refreshing and suddenly enlightened feeling in this materialistic society, which is probably the practical significance of Disciples Rules!
Disciple Rules is of great significance to the personality cultivation of contemporary college students, mainly in the following aspects:
Confucius, a great thinker who cultivated filial piety consciousness, attached great importance to filial piety and thought it was "the foundation of establishing people". As for how to embody this spirit of filial piety, Confucius did not elaborate. The Disciple Rules are based on simple and concrete reasoning. "Disciples Rules" says, "Parents can't wait; Parents, don't be lazy; Parents teach, you must listen; Parents have the responsibility to be obedient. " a lot of people
Therefore, I misunderstood the so-called filial piety of Confucianism, that is, blindly obeying, letting parents tell me what to do, and losing the minimum judgment ability and position. But Disciples Rules went on to say, "I kissed, and my advice made me feel better, made me feel better and my voice was soft. I didn't want to give advice, but I was willing to give advice. I cried with you, and I didn't complain." As children, under the premise of fully respecting parents' personal dignity, we should clearly distinguish right from wrong, and we should not ignore parents' mistakes because of respecting parents, so that parents can make bigger mistakes. Thirdly, a true dutiful son should take good care of his body, strengthen his personality cultivation and be a healthy and virtuous person. "If you are injured, you will worry about your loved ones. If you are morally injured, you are ashamed. " This is reflected. Second, cultivate an honest and trustworthy personality.
In today's multicultural coexistence and information explosion, we are surrounded by mixed culture and information. The college students who grew up in exam-oriented education lack the basic ability to distinguish social life and cannot establish subjectivity and moral personality under the multicultural background. Disciples' Rules not only proposes to take faith as the basis,
It requires putting words first, seeking truth from facts, not boasting, not flashy, not vain, not glib, but also attaches great importance to the establishment of moral personality, and thinks that the cultivation of people's moral character should be given priority. It is pointed out that the beauty of personality is better than the gorgeous luxury of external clothing and diet, and it is better than the eloquence of rhetoric. In the cultivation of personality, we should meet the sage Si Qi, introspect when we see the bad places, be good friends with conscience, be good at listening to others' criticisms and dare to admit our mistakes. Disciple's rules
It highlights the difference between intentional and unintentional behavior, pays special attention to the internal psychological motivation of human behavior, and emphasizes improving and upgrading people from their internal personality. This kind of enlightenment directed at the soul is of great significance to the cultivation of honest personality.
Third, form good behavior habits and healthy values.
Good daily habits are the premise of developing a healthy lifestyle and the basis of moral generation.
The foundation is the beginning of forming healthy values and outlook on life.
First, please cherish your time. "Get up early and go to bed late", study hard and live a regular life.
Second, pay attention to personal hygiene, dress neatly, eat properly, and pay more attention to dress neatly. Point out: "Wash, rinse, urinate and wash your hands in the morning." The crown must be straight, the buttons must be fastened and the socks and shoes must be cut tightly. Wear a crown suit, there is room, don't mess up and get dirty. Yi Guijie, not expensive in China, goes up and down and calls home ... The room is clean, the walls are clean, several cases are clean, and the pen and ink are correct. "Third, young students are required to sit and walk in accordance with certain norms." Do not practice the threshold, do not practice.
If you are limping, don't shake your beard on your back. "This requires us to pay attention to our posture and develop a good sitting posture and walking posture.
Fourth, develop a positive and healthy attitude towards life and good interpersonal habits.
There are many problems in interpersonal communication among contemporary college students. They have no unified value scale and strong personality, so it is difficult for them to integrate into the collective life. Disciples' Rules has the following guiding functions for college students' interpersonal communication:
First, the principle of equality and kindness. "All people must love, the same day, the same load. Those who walk high, have high fame, are valued by people, and are not tall. Caida
If you are arrogant, you will be persuaded by others, but not by words ... If you are persuaded by others, you will be speechless. "Each of us is born, and we live on an equal footing.
People in this world should take kindness as the criterion of getting along.
Advocate equality, love and kindness to others, and be a caring person.
Second, sincerely assist cooperation and friendly competition. Disciples' rules require us to be impartial when getting along with others.
Yes, don't despise "people have shortcomings, don't expose them", don't slander others casually, don't expose them.
Don't maliciously spread the shortcomings of others and talk about their private affairs. Get along with people, to
"Kindness" and "good words", actively discover the strengths of others, and others are good.
Only in this way can we live in harmony and improve our personality.
Of course, we should also see the pedantic color of some feudal ethics in Disciple Rules, but it is most important to learn the theme of "filial piety" by "taking its essence and discarding its dross". "Learn to be a teacher and behave yourself; Honor teachers and be kind to others ",which is the original intention of Disciples Rules to teach people" filial piety ".