? "love rat" is a network term that has appeared in recent years. Baidu Encyclopedia introduces love rat in this way: it refers to a man who is selfish, good at taking, irresponsible and playing with others' feelings. Or a man who is not good at emotions.

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? The so-called love rat and the bad guys are two completely different concepts. The bad thing is that the three views are not correct, and the dregs are personality problems. Some men are bad but not scum, while others are not bad but extremely scum. Generally speaking, "love rat" refers to a bad person who feels good about himself, is extremely selfish, is good at taking, is irresponsible and takes pleasure in playing with others' feelings. The so-called love rat and the bad guys are two completely different concepts. The bad thing is that the three views are not correct, and the dregs are personality problems. Some men are bad but not scum, while others are not bad but extremely scum. Generally speaking, "love rat" refers to a bad person who feels good about himself, is extremely selfish, is good at taking, is irresponsible and takes pleasure in playing with others' feelings.

? A friend came to see me the other day, crying that she was lovelorn and drank a lot of wine. She tried every means to save this relationship, but in the end she failed. She thought it was her own reason that made her lose him, so she always felt guilty and blamed herself, and even more reluctant to give up. After listening to her story, I immediately realized that this man is a real love rat!

? They are colleagues in the same company. Because they are not in the same department, they have never known each other's existence. By chance, she got up late and went downstairs to the company, which was in danger of being detained by full attendance. She was so worried that she didn't notice that her key had been pushed out of the ground in the crowded elevator. As soon as she sat in the seat, she found the key missing. If she lives alone, she can't get into the house without it.

? Just as she was about to cry, she found a strange man coming towards her, holding her key in his hand. Before she could react, the man spoke first He found her key in the elevator and it fell right on his foot. She ran out without waiting for her to call. The man followed her and wanted to give it back to her. Later, he found out that she and she were colleagues in different departments of the same company.

? Later, when we met, men began to pursue her. Men are not her type, so she always refuses, but men always pursue her persistently. Slowly, she opened her heart and they established a relationship. After a very sweet time, men take her to eat delicious food every week and go to see the newly released movies, fearing that she will be cold and hot, afraid that she will cry and afraid that she will be unhappy. She is completely in love with this man.

However, the good times did not last long. A few months later, she noticed that men began to give her the cold shoulder, and dating changed from several times a week to once or twice a month. She began to wonder if men were having an affair, so she began to check men's mobile phones and found that men often praised and commented on other beautiful girls. She was jealous and had a big fight with the man. After the fight, she began to reflect that she had gone too far and took the initiative to find a man to make up.

? After reconciliation, she felt that men should change a little, but men still get along with her in such a cold way, or praise other girls, play games with the opposite sex, and send their female colleagues home after work. She finally broke out and broke up with the man, and the man calmly answered "good". Their relationship is over.

? She reflected for a long time and always thought it was her fault that she lost him. She fell into deep remorse and guilt, and she collapsed. After losing her, she loved him even more.

Passerby: You are such a poor friend. You've met love rat.

Me: No, not at all, because there are no such friends. It's all made up.

But if you meet a man who has the following behaviors, love rat is right.

1, a very small thing can make him fall in love with you at first sight and launch a crazy pursuit.

2, after catching up with the past and going to bed, it is still as considerate as before falling in love.

It won't be long before you get cold. You want to break up, but you won't take the initiative. Cold violence forces you to break up voluntarily.

4. You will start to blame yourself, start to doubt what you did wrong, and finally take the initiative to break up in all kinds of sadness.

Everyone thinks that you dumped him, and he is relieved, but you can't get out for a long time because of your deep love.

After all, you will meet such a person who will spend his whole life carefully collecting you and putting you in a good place for a long time.

Please try to hide love rat who has the above behavior.