Recently, freshmen are about to start a brand-new college life. It is estimated that many people want to have a sweet campus romance. As a former person, I feel that as long as I meet people who like each other, I can communicate seriously and learn to deal with intimate relationships. In fact, there are still many people who haven't been in love for four years in college, which has nothing to do with happy values. Many high-value people also remain single. Do you know the specific reason?
First of all, "addicted" to learning?
Some college students put their time and energy into their studies, but they don't know that they will fall in love. For example, in the first year of college, many college students study hard for one year and change their majors, and rarely participate in club activities. There are also some students who want to take the postgraduate entrance examination for further study. As soon as they entered their junior year, they began to review for the exam and stayed in the library. There are also some students who want to study abroad and may be addicted to learning English. Learning is still the first in college. These students are undoubtedly more active and may not have the thoughts and ideas of falling in love.
Second, economic issues.
? When college students fall in love, it is inevitable to go out for dinner and give gifts on holidays, so the cost will increase. Although both of them are frugal, the monthly living expenses are indeed increasing. For some students with poor economic conditions, the living expenses given by the family are relatively small, and they even need to work part-time or part-time to solve the living expenses. They may not have the courage and ideas to fall in love.
Third, the social circle is very small.
? The gender ratio in many universities or occupations is unbalanced. There may not be many members of the opposite sex in a school, let alone finding a boyfriend or girlfriend in a university. There are also some college students who usually take part in few activities and have a small circle of friends, so they have no chance to meet the opposite sex and naturally have no chance to fall in love.
The above is how miserable it is to be single during the four years of college.