Before the start of school, every freshman is full of curiosity about the school and everything about it, especially his roommates. Roommates are people who have lived together in college for four years. They are the people who look up but don't see and look down. Our sadness, joys and sorrows will be exposed to our roommates. So we all want to deal with the roommate relationship. However, after all, there are not many like-minded people, and like-minded people are cleverly gathered in a dormitory, which requires a lot of fate.
Between roommates, it is inevitable that some things will affect feelings. These things may be unintentional words or unintentional actions. So-called? The speaker has no intention, but the listener has a heart? Probably I don't know when I accidentally offended my roommate. These are all things that freshmen don't want to see. Some freshmen hate your roommate at the beginning of school. Senior: Check whether you have done these five points well.
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Dormitory is a collective life, and the privacy of each roommate may be exposed in the collective life. For the privacy of your roommate, you should keep your mouth shut and keep it a secret. Put yourself in others' shoes. You don't want your privacy to be known. Don't always ask your roommate things you don't want to mention, which will embarrass your roommate. Don't touch his things without your roommate's permission.
Take advantage of small things
College students have almost no financial resources, and they all live on the living expenses given by their parents. It's not easy for everyone, so don't try to take advantage of it. Some students have run out of shampoo and cream and have been using roommates'; If you don't have facial cleanser, you can also use your roommate's. Ask your roommate to bring you food, and don't give her money. You can eat instant noodles bought by your roommate when you are hungry. These seem like trivial things, but after a long time, no one wants to be with you.
Tell others what to do.
Be warm and polite to your roommates, don't tell me what to do. Roommates are your friends, not your subordinates. Some students often tell roommates that this dress you bought is not good, that bag is expensive and the shoes you wear are tasteless. I guess other roommates don't like people who judge their roommates either. Even if you really find something wrong, you should pay attention to your tone of voice and don't boss around.
Disturb others to rest.
There are generally six people in a university dormitory, and six people rest in one room, so it is difficult to ensure that everyone has the same work and rest. Don't ask yourself to have the same schedule as your roommate, but make sure it doesn't affect your roommate's rest. Roommates should keep quiet when they sleep, don't talk and don't watch TV loudly. If you want to watch TV, you can wear headphones. A simple action will solve the problem very well.
5. Don't talk about dormitory hygiene
University dormitories are public areas, so everyone must keep the public areas clean. The dormitory should be clean and ventilated. The leftovers after eating should be thrown away in time, and clothes should be washed in time. Keep the dormitory air fresh and tasteless. Everyone has the obligation to keep the dormitory clean and tidy, not someone's personal obligation. Therefore, it is necessary for every student to keep the living environment clean and tidy.
Senior sister said: everyone's temper and life rules are different. Suddenly a roommate is targeting you, don't just think it's the other person's fault. You should first reflect on yourself and see if you have done something bad. College life is beautiful, and the quality of college life will be greatly affected if the roommate relationship is not handled well. Four years of college, whether short or not, should cherish every day. After graduating from college, you will find that you miss being the most.