First, there is no sweet talk in your words, only worry. If we talk for a while before marriage, I don't think so. Another key point is that you don't seem to know each other very well. It seems that you are in an emotional running-in period, so it can be judged that you got married soon after you met each other.

Second, flash marriage will have many problems. Like the two of you, your partner is obviously disappointed in you when he talks about how you went to college. What are the specific disappointments? I think it should be that you are disgusted with your lack of work ability and ability to do things. This is a common problem of many college students now.

Third, facing the present troubles, the only thing you can do is to improve yourself. Improve your working ability. Girls like capable people. If you are strong, your partner will have no opinion of you. Improve your ability to speak and do things, and think more about things when you speak. Only in this way can you speak appropriately and appear mature and steady. This way, your partner will not say that you are still a college student or that you have been to college. She will say that you are a college student.