I think there are two kinds of social activities in college, one is effective social activities, and the other is ineffective social activities. Effective social interaction is necessary. After all, it is necessary to make some high-quality friends, but there is no need to socialize ineffectively, which not only wastes time, but also delays yourself.

After going to college, it is inevitable to deal with people. No one is an island, and everyone inevitably has to communicate with others. Effective social interaction can make us know some excellent people and help us become better. Being with excellent people will have a good influence on us invisibly and make us excellent. Whether studying or living, we should be with excellent people. As the saying goes, "He who goes near Zhu Zhechi is black".

And ineffective social interaction is unnecessary. In college, we can always see many people having dinner back and forth in community activities every day, feeling that they are very busy and have an indispensable position. In order to cater to roommates, there are always people who eat chicken every day, just to fit in. And I want to say that this kind of ineffective social interaction is not desirable. You think you have many friends, but you can live separately after graduation. The so-called friendship, blowing in the wind.

Before, I had an ineffective social interaction in order to fit in. Eating with people in the club every day not only costs me money, but also doesn't learn anything. Later, I gave up such socializing, and I began to refuse too many meals. I soak in the library alone every day and insist on running and exercising. In this process, I not only learned a lot of knowledge, but also met many excellent people. Ineffective socializing will only get you deeper and deeper. It is better to study hard and spend more time investing in yourself.

Audrey Hepburn once said, "Of course I won't try to pick the moon. I want the moon to come to me. " . Only when you are valuable will others approach you actively. All relationships in the world are exchanged at equal value. If you are of no value to others, why should you ask others to take the initiative to know you? Only when you really become excellent will there be a steady stream of talents around you. I always like to tell myself that everything will fail you except hard work. Therefore, refuse to socialize ineffectively.