From SARS in 2003 to COVID-19, which ravaged the whole country this year, there was a name called Zhong Nanshan.
As a famous respiratory specialist in China, he has been at the forefront of fighting the epidemic in China. Although he is 84 years old this year, he is still as energetic as a young man.
Besides working hard and studying constantly, the love story between him and his wife Li Shaofen is also talked about. Even after 65 years, they still stick to their inner persistence and perfectly interpret the true meaning of marriage for us.
Speaking of the love between Zhong Nanshan and Li Shaofen, it can be described in one word, and that is fate.
Zhong Nanshan was born into a medical family, and his father Zhong graduated from Peking Union Medical College, and later obtained a doctor's degree in medicine from new york State University. My mother Liao Yueqin also graduated from Union Medical College. He used to be the vice president of Cancer Hospital of Sun Yat-sen Medical University and the founder of Guangdong Cancer Hospital.
Under the influence of his parents, Zhong Nanshan, who loves sports, also chose to practice medicine. 1955, Zhong Nanshan, 19 years old, admitted to Beijing Medical College, which is now Peking University Medical Center. Zhong Nanshan and Li Shaofen have known each other for a long time, but because they don't meet often, they are not familiar with each other.
Things soon took a turn for the better. While studying in Beijing, Zhong Nanshan often visited one of his aunts, and the filial Li Shaofen also often visited his aunt. ? Because menstruation and menstruation are close girlfriends, Zhong Nanshan and Li Shaofen met because of their elders.
Two young people fell in love like this. Because Li Shaofen is a professional basketball player and Zhong Nanshan loves sports, they have something in common. Later, they also prepared for the National Games together. Singing with women is very enjoyable. In fact, Zhong Nanshan is not only highly accomplished in medicine, but also outstanding in sports.
The foundation of love, I think it is a feeling from the beginning. This feeling is called love at first sight, which may be a kind of fate.
We can meet because of fate, know each other because of gathering, know each other because of knowing each other, love each other because of knowing each other, and be together because of loving each other. Zhong Nanshan and Li Shaofen came together because of the same hobbies and beliefs, and * * * started the road of love for 65 years.
A mutually supportive life
The same hobbies support them to go on. Because Li Shaofen often needs to go abroad for intensive training and competitions, their feelings never shrink back.
After falling in love for 8 years, they entered the marriage hall hand in hand. After marriage, the two still live a life of gathering less and leaving more. But no matter where Li Shaofen is in the world, he knows that someone at home has been waiting for him.
They know each other, understand each other, support each other and understand the true meaning of love. They respect each other, give everything for each other and reach new heights with each other. Although parting is the norm, they are still loyal to each other and make progress together.
They never give up their hobbies and careers. Li Shaofen has reached a new height in sports and achieved great success in various competitions. Zhong Nanshan also made progress in his beloved medical career and finally succeeded.
Later, Zhong Nanshan shouldered the heavy responsibility and became the focus of national attention. Especially during the SARS period, he did not choose to hide the situation, but responded to questions from all sides in the most direct way. He hit the nail on the head and told everyone how critical the situation was and how bad the national epidemic prevention and control situation was.
His? Honest and frank? Caused an uproar in the country. However, his actions are not only words, but also practical actions to explain what is called responsibility. He treated the most critical patients in the country, and developed a specific medicine at a critical moment, which finally reduced the impact of SARS to a minimum. He has both the responsibility of ethnologists and the courage of soldiers, which makes people respect him.
No matter what kind of difficulties, Li Shaofen always stands behind Zhong Nanshan and silently supports him.
She let him know that even if there are more bumps and thorns ahead, there will always be a lamp on for him to find his way home and relax himself when he is tired. ? In front of her, he is no longer a national famous medical master, but just her husband, the father of the child, a person who can stand by each other and accompany him to his old age.
It is enough to know that you are here.
Some time ago, the video of Academician Zhong Nanshan choking water was screened all over the country. He praised Wuhan in the video. The momentum has come up, and many things can be solved. With the help of the whole country, Wuhan can pass the customs. Wuhan is a very heroic city. But among so many people, only one person said silently in his heart:? Give him a rest. This person is Li Shaofen.
From acquaintance, love to marriage, they have gone through 65 years together. * * * raised a son and a daughter together, and the son Zhong inherited his father's business. Now he is a professor, chief physician and doctoral supervisor of Guangzhou First People's Hospital.
Daughter Zhong inherited her mother's sports talent. As a swimmer, she won the world champion in short-course swimming.
Zhong Nanshan and Li Shaofen not only cultivated a pair of children, but also supported each other through years of ups and downs. Although they can't be around all the time, they bury their deepest thoughts in their hearts, because they know that the pursuit in marriage is not only mutual achievement, but also mutual respect and understanding.
They share the same values and perfectly practice a passage in marriage psychology:? Engagement is a promise that should be kept, an open pledge of eternal love, an oath that should be fulfilled in the face of any difficulties and obstacles, and a dedication of one person to another. ?
Two people who love each other can be together for life. They are undoubtedly lucky.
In the dictionary of Zhong Nanshan and Li Shaofen, there is no distinction between you and me, only us. The two of them well explained what is intimate love and marriage and what is dripping fun.
They have been trying to grow for each other, encouraging each other and achieving each other. This sentence in the song of bald heads:? I am full of thinking that if I marry a person with a heart, I can love each other and be happy forever. ? This is our best blessing to the couple and the real meaning of marriage. The 65-year-long love between Zhong Nanshan and Li Shaofen tells us what a real marriage is with practical actions.