They are shy and unsociable by nature.
Always beating and nervous in front of strangers,
They are afraid of parties and crowds.
Dormitory is the place where they spend the longest time.
Even an acre of land in the dormitory will make them depressed.
Before dating someone else,
Always rehearse the scene in your mind first,
Only when you get home will you feel relaxed.
We usually refer to these symptoms as
University social phobia
Social phobia is a kind of mental illness that feels strong fear or anxiety about any social or public occasion. Patients have a significant and lasting fear in front of strangers, or in social or performance occasions that may be carefully observed by others, fearing that their behavior or nervous performance will cause humiliation or embarrassment.
Social phobia, also known as social anxiety disorder, is an important subtype of anxiety disorder, which mostly occurs in teenagers or early adulthood. Social phobia patients are too worried about social occasions and interpersonal communication, so they are afraid to speak in public, meet their superiors, meet strangers, eat under the watchful eye of others and go to public toilets. Therefore, patients show obvious fear and tension, which in turn affects their social performance and forms a vicious circle.
Try to decide something for yourself. Friends around you will leave you one day. You can't always rely on them.
College is different from high school. Everyone has his own career. If there is no class, it is normal for everyone to have a chance to meet. Therefore, you should learn to endure loneliness.
1. finally went to college, so I continued to study. Why do you want to repeat it? Repetition is very stressful. It also depends on the financial ability of your family.
You can try to join some clubs and develop your hobbies. What instrumental club? Youth volunteer club. You can meet some like-minded friends and classmates by participating in these activities.
In college, you should try to integrate into the group. In the dormitory, you should try to integrate into your roommate. Go out to eat and play games together, and you will open a new world.